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Pls help with my long distance dating

So, I (27M) started dating someone (29F) a month back. We live in different towns, around 180 km.s from each other (about a 2 hour drive). We only met on weekends, but we did so every single time in the past 4 weeks, and talk to each other every day since (even only for a short while, as we are both quite busy with work and studies right now). Time spent together is amazing, she feels good to be around, we laugh, dance and talk until dawn without it ever getting shallow. Sex and flirting is wonderful, and best of all this all just feels easy, natural. So yeah, I'm happy (this word doesn't give it justice) with how things are and I'm really greatful for her, I haven't had anything close to this in the past 4 years. But: I've never been in a long distance relationship before. I fear that with time we might feel like we are in a relationship only during 2 days out of 7. If things go right I could move to her town a year from now, but neither of us could realisticall

/u/okamiokamii on does anyone else hate sexual songs?

For me some of them are ok but I don't like the ones that are descriptive. The vague ones are usually ok. October 06, 2022 at 12:07AM

/u/BeastDad06 on Just got my first ace ring!!!!

Sick man I got mine two weeks or no more ago I was existed I bet you are as well October 06, 2022 at 12:06AM

How do I respectfully end things with this girl I’m kind of dating?

It’s been a month since I started seeing her and the past two weeks a lot has changed in my life opportunity wise (career stuff and studying too much). I’m deciding to focus on myself for once and can’t do that while also having to give attention to another. She’s great and this has been great but I can’t lead her on. How can I end things with minimal emotional damage? Edit: I never officially asked her out and vice versa. One of those things where you know they like you and you know you’re an “object” Submitted October 06, 2022 at 12:06AM It’s been a month since I started seeing her and the past two weeks a lot has changed in my life opportunity wise (career stuff and studying too much). I’m deciding to focus on myself for once and can’t do that while also having to give attention to another. She’s great and this has been great but I can’t lead her on.How can I end things with minimal emotional damage?Edit: I never officially asked her out and vice versa. One of those things

/u/DissociativeSilence on Does anybody else feel like a misfit in both allosexual and asexual communities?

Yes, especially now that I’ve decided to start experimenting with my sexuality. It’s giving me both impostor syndrome and an existential crisis. October 05, 2022 at 11:19PM