Alright, so im new to online dating, I started tinder yesterday just to see how it is and now I have 15 matches. Im kinda overwhelmed because I wasnt expecting this lol. I know girls like to get messaged first but how much time do I have before messaging them? Submitted May 16, 2023 at 01:12AM Alright, so im new to online dating, I started tinder yesterday just to see how it is and now I have 15 matches. Im kinda overwhelmed because I wasnt expecting this lol.I know girls like to get messaged first but how much time do I have before messaging them?

Hi 25 Female. So I’ve been hooking up with this guy (He’s 24) for about a month, it’s my first time actually hooking up with a man at least consistently being that I recently just came out as bisexual. So from the beginning I told this guy I wanted to try actually dating a guy at least for a bit even if we started out by just having sex at first. He made it clear it wasn’t looking for anything serious but would be open to the idea of giving dating a try. So we’ve hung out four times but been constantly communicating. We had sex the 3rd time we hung out and then he had to leave for a trip for about a week. I felt myself missing him and wanting to see him which was kinda weird. When he got back from his trip I texted I wanted to see him so I went over. He was different. He definitely seemed into me physically at least but his conversation were a little one sided. I’d asked about his trip or his past etc. But it literally felt like an interview. Anyways I had set my mind as he dropped me

I still would just to see their face May 16, 2023 at 12:33AM

Ok I want to ask here because you guys are very non judgemental and I am honestly trying to figure myself out. I have dated people, I even enjoy sex sometimes very much and enthusiastically. But romantic attraction to the person? I'm not trying to be mean to anyone but I just have never felt any feelings of being in love. I just want to be alone after sex, not get attached. I will chat and talk and even stay in contact but it would never be more than a physical relationship. Always has been this way. I am a female as well. I swing towards woman but I do not mind having sex with men but never loved anyone?? Am I a bad person? May 16, 2023 at 12:15AM

Alright, I matched with her yesterday, we talked on tinder for a bit and then I asked her for her instagram if I wanted to recontact her. We followed eachother, now do I ask her out on a first date already? Im new on online dating, my last relationship we talked for like 1-2 months at least before even dating lol. Should I do it? For context we are both 20 Submitted May 16, 2023 at 12:15AM Alright, I matched with her yesterday, we talked on tinder for a bit and then I asked her for her instagram if I wanted to recontact her. We followed eachother, now do I ask her out on a first date already?Im new on online dating, my last relationship we talked for like 1-2 months at least before even dating lol. Should I do it?For context we are both 20

ah ok. thats actually pretty cool! May 15, 2023 at 10:56PM