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A little advice will be greatly appreciated!

Hello peeps. I will try to keep this short. So at the beginning of December, I met this wonderful girl, with whom we completely hit it off. Awesome understanding, vibe, connection and etc. However, two weeks after we started dating, her ex contacted her and she broke it off with me. Me being in similar situations before, I was kinda sad about it, but generally took it okay. I texted her a few times after that and she was cold and distant, but I figured what she was doing - trying to make me hate her for what she did. After that I stopped, Christmas came up, and New Year's, No contact was still going after the last text. So last Monday, out of the blue, she sent me this picture of her and of a cute reindeer toy I got her, saying it kept reminding her of me, how she acted on purpose to make me hate her and she was sorry about it. As I said before, I understood what she was doing and I told her no hard feelings, we are good. We texted for a bit and I went to bed. The next day,

/u/ArcadiaRivea on Pineapple pizza is asexual

The only way your pear one can be improved is with prosciutto (and maybe a little creamy sauce like bèchamel) (That sounds pretty good, I might have to try that. What blue cheese do you recommend, and do you cook the blue cheese or put it on top afterwards? I particularly enjoy roquefort but not sure if that would be too strong for this) January 13, 2023 at 12:09AM

/u/geckos_in_a_box on HMMM

the “does r/asexuality contain explicit sexual references and discussions” January 13, 2023 at 12:08AM

starting to crush on her

I havent been able to find a way to start a conversation with her because, i simply dont know what to write to her (found her on tinder her IG was in bio so i followed it or requested it and she accepted it) im starting to crush on her and would really like to get to know her, she seems adventurous and like she appreciates good and aestheticly pleasing food(im a chef in training, so i love to cook, plate and try new foods) Any tips on how to engage a dm with her ? I dont wanna come off as a creep or weird, im terrible at flirting atleast i think so, i've never really done it before 😅 Submitted January 12, 2023 at 11:22PM I havent been able to find a way to start a conversation with her because, i simply dont know what to write to her (found her on tinder her IG was in bio so i followed it or requested it and she accepted it) im starting to crush on her and would really like to get to know her, she seems adventurous and like she appreciates good and aestheticly pleasing food

Ignoring someone that's not interested in you

So I have this friend that I fuck here and there. We are actually good friends and before we even talked on the phone a lot, but things happened with my ex and they're not friends anymore. I ended up blocking her, but after things settled with my ex, I started talking to her again and have been slowly adding her back on socials. I feel like after I removed her, we don't text as much anymore.... or at least I try to and she just leaves me on delivered for a very long time. Also when I ask her something, my question completely gets ignored and she'll randomly send something else. I know I'm getting attached for sure and I shouldn't. Anyway, my question is if i back off for 2 days, from texting and replying to anything she sends, will she get curious as to what happened and reach out more often? or will this just drive her away? Submitted January 12, 2023 at 09:53PM So I have this friend that I fuck here and there. We are actually good friends and before we even

/u/Nikibugs on If I have to hear "Aces can want/have/enjoy sex" one more time I'm gonna scream

My gay BFF put it like this: “If, in context, an asexual person is going out of their way to tell you they’re asexual, is because they don’t want to engage in sex with you or anyone at all, lay off.” Can’t say he’s wrong, but this is also a guy who at one point would say he’s asexual so people would stop trying to pursue him before he felt safe coming out. He knows personally that did not stop people. Trash people will be trash regardless. (Still not the happiest he did that, using a sexuality as a mask and contributing to allos idea asexuality is a phase/fake ._.) I share sentiments with the post topic while acknowledging inclusivity is important. It’s hard not to express become increasingly frustrating that after finally gaining visibility, it’s increasingly being met with “but I heard-“, or defined as “still wants sex just no attraction” because of the constant asterisk. Trash people will be trash regardless. January 12, 2023 at 11:30PM