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/u/GeorgeForemanGrilll on Can someone be asexual if while lacking the want to have sex with attractive people, they still imagine those people in sexual situations? (Also just a bunch of other questions and the like)

Thanks for the information! After looking at one of the other comments what you're talking about is aegosexual, which is what I think I am. June 25, 2021 at 12:04AM

/u/elvensnowfae on So I Watched P0rn for the first time and... Bruh

That’s why I started to watch it lmao! Then literally not even half way into episode 1, bam. Yes it was rated MA but I figured it was for cussing and talk of drugs/drinking. Little did I know :/ June 25, 2021 at 12:03AM

/u/LordReega on Who of you are Cis Heteroromantic Aces?

Trans panromantic ace here! 🖤🤍💜 June 25, 2021 at 12:03AM

/u/SpandexMovie on So I Watched P0rn for the first time and... Bruh

Kinda same for me, except it just goes in one ear and out the other, like a railway spike through my eye and out my skull. June 25, 2021 at 12:00AM

/u/FROGS_and_PLANTS on So I Watched P0rn for the first time and... Bruh

Oh man and I was thinking about giving Bojack horseman a try cause there's an ace character. I guess not anymore lol June 24, 2021 at 11:58PM

/u/EatingSugarYesPapa on I only speak the truth.

Asexuals can still have romantic partners. Asexual is just not experiencing sexual attraction, it has nothing to do with romantic attraction. June 24, 2021 at 11:57PM

/u/Gladiator_Fembot on Opinion: coming out as asexual is weird to me and I don’t think I’ll ever do it.

I came out as ace at work. But I o my camera out as being panromantic to my husband. That was more of a "Holy shit I've been this way my entire life and ignored it, and I just gotta tell someone" moment. That one I'll just leave as is. Doesn't matter anymore anyway June 24, 2021 at 11:57PM

/u/Kindly-Following5692 on So I Watched P0rn for the first time and... Bruh

I watched porn for the first time while I was a teen, and it was disturbing. Most porn is directed to an heterosexual male audience, and it's all a bit... misogynistic? lol June 24, 2021 at 11:56PM

/u/wolf_star_bytes on Opinion: coming out as asexual is weird to me and I don’t think I’ll ever do it.

I share so that people understand me and where I'm coming from better when my friends talk about sex. And that they will understand that I'm going to feel differently about it, without having to go into complex details. June 24, 2021 at 11:52PM

/u/NeaIsACat on Who of you are Cis Heteroromantic Aces?

Ok I forgot oriented aro aces exist. Maybe I'm that with alterous attraction instead of necessarily alloromantic June 24, 2021 at 11:52PM

/u/Gladiator_Fembot on So I Watched P0rn for the first time and... Bruh

I've tried Watching porn twice. Same thought process. What the fuck. June 24, 2021 at 11:50PM

/u/NeaIsACat on Who of you are Cis Heteroromantic Aces?

slow shrug technically I'm heteromantic cause I don't believe I've had any crushes on girls but I've had so few crushes on guys, enough to count on one hand, that I wouldn't classify myself as heteromantic? I consider myself more grayromantic than allo June 24, 2021 at 11:50PM

/u/justheretovote37 on Opinion: coming out as asexual is weird to me and I don’t think I’ll ever do it.

I just had a conversation with my sister, the only family I’ve “come out” to about how I feel uncomfortable with it. I told her that I could possibly be biromantic but I’m afraid to date a woman because my family will label me as bisexual. I know it seems small, but.. I wouldn’t be okay with that label because I’m not bisexual, I don’t think I could have sex with a woman. But I also don’t feel comfortable having to explain to my family that I am biromantic asexual, I’ve had to explain so much to them and discussing my sex life isn’t something I want to delve into. My sister told me that a good way to go about it is that I could correct them from bisexual to a more general label of queer and that actually made me feel a lot better because it corrects them without having to get to specific. June 24, 2021 at 11:43PM

/u/S-Array03 on I wrote an essay for school on the disenfranchisement I’ve experienced as an asexual

OP please make use of paragraphs. Proper formatting goes a long way to making a block of text readable June 24, 2021 at 11:41PM

/u/Catherine2725 on What music do you enjoy?

Most of the music lyrics makes me pretty uncomfortable since I was young. English is my second language, and I wasn’t good at it back then. So I would just listen to English songs and occasionally songs in other languages. Basically, it’s fine as long as it’s not my native language, because in this way, I could simply enjoy the melody without feeling disturbed by the lyrics. But as I get better at English, those songs begin to makes me feel uncomfortable as well. Now, 90% of the music I listen to are classical music that don’t have lyrics. My favorite would be baroque. June 24, 2021 at 11:41PM

/u/myfriendlarry on Lonely but I don’t want company.

Time to get a dog! June 24, 2021 at 11:40PM

/u/Gladiator_Fembot on Please help me find a label/ something that matches more closely

Demisexual? Gray ace? June 24, 2021 at 11:39PM

/u/Routine-Cheesecake20 on Opinion: coming out as asexual is weird to me and I don’t think I’ll ever do it.

I feel the same way. I have told my husband and my mother. My mother and I talk about almost everything so it's not that weird, but I can't imagine too many people caring that I'm ambivalent when it's comes sex. June 24, 2021 at 11:36PM

/u/SomeMoon on *kahoot music*

Oh no, kahoot music started playing in my head and now I'm nervous XD XD June 24, 2021 at 11:34PM

/u/arichou04 on WHAT?

Well I’m aroace and my older brother might be as well (I don’t know for sure but he’s never shown any interest in romantic or sexual relationships) (he’s also on the autistic spectrum so I don’t know if it could have something to do with it) June 24, 2021 at 11:32PM

/u/estelle21 on How did the representation in BoJack Horseman help you with asexuality?

I’m not married but besides that I had a similar reaction to it June 24, 2021 at 11:23PM

/u/Kindly-Following5692 on Lonely but I don’t want company.

OP, I think I understand what you mean! The idea of finding someone to have a special-romantic relationship with sounds amazing to me, but I don't like meeting people and I hate being vulnerable / opening up June 24, 2021 at 11:23PM

/u/SignificanceSmall278 on Tryed outing myself to my grandmother and it was *really* awkward and frustrating

coming out's fine, but trying to see it from her perspective, she's going through tough shit with her husband's life on the line and you just coming up to her to explain your sexuality to your old yenta grandma seems out of touch June 24, 2021 at 11:17PM