nice, thanks! March 29, 2021 at 11:59PM

I got your two posts together on my home page! Happy Birthday! March 29, 2021 at 11:58PM

Oh I didn't mean it that way, I was just making a joke. March 29, 2021 at 11:58PM

Whoops, my bad I should have said gremlin things instead (I'll fix it) .....but yeah like anyone can do those things, sorry for being exclusive, I said "gay gremlin things" because I am gay, sorry for putting out a "don't care about the straights" vibe March 29, 2021 at 11:57PM

Happy Birthday March 29, 2021 at 11:56PM

Welcome to the club March 29, 2021 at 11:56PM

thank you! March 29, 2021 at 11:55PM

I do this with my best friend all the time (well, not during times like these, but you get the point) and nobody bats an eye. Her parents don't know me, and my parents accept that we love eachother as friends. :) March 29, 2021 at 11:55PM

happy birthday, fellow ace-spec!! many more to come! March 29, 2021 at 11:55PM

I'm glad you found out who you are!!!! I'm sorry for all of the shit you had to go through tho. I know you'll find yourself a great group of friends who will love and support you no matter what you do. March 29, 2021 at 11:50PM

Asexuality is very specifically about not experiencing sexual attraction towards others. That's the entire deal. If you don't experience sexual attraction towards others, you're asexual. It's not all that complicated, really. It doesn't matter why. Could be trauma, hormones, or you were just always that way. Cause is irrelevant to the label. Asexuality has nothing to do with: romantic attraction, kissing, cuddling, gender preferences, masturbation, porn, kinks, or actually having sex. It's just about sexual attraction towards others. Some sex repulsed asexuals will use porn or masturbate even though they'd have no interest in the real thing, because with fantasy you can skip the stuff you wouldn't like in reality. The asexual spectrum basically sort of goes --- Sex Repulsed: Usually avoid sex --- #1: Repulsed by comments about sex or others having sex #2: Repulsed by the reality of having sex personally #3: Willing to have sex, but may be disguste

Happy Birthday! March 29, 2021 at 11:48PM

Happy birthday Bro! Love U March 29, 2021 at 11:47PM

I probably won’t either. I’m just surprised it exists! March 29, 2021 at 11:47PM

One could imagine that some shame could be involved if you spent all your time and energy attempting to have sex, but failing. I could imagine how that could be considered a failure, if you made that your goal in life. The real sad part is that they can't comprehend that someone might not have that as their goal in life. Often the person doing the mocking is really only revealing their own inadequacies. It's like someone trying to mock me for being a SJW. Sure, there are idiot SJWs out there, as with any group, but I will always wear the label of SJW with pride. March 29, 2021 at 11:47PM

Congrats non-binary pal! March 29, 2021 at 11:47PM

I relate to like all of the comments This is one of the reasons I love this sub so much!!!!!!! March 29, 2021 at 11:46PM

Then you can try out your new pokemon's attacks on the girls! March 29, 2021 at 11:45PM

When I was in high school I was excited to go over to my girlfriend’s house when her parents weren’t home. I never thought once about sex, I just liked it because I could talk to her more easily and not have to worry about them being there lol (her parents were also religious and conservative which made me uncomfortable since I didn’t come from a religious background) March 29, 2021 at 11:45PM

🥳 March 29, 2021 at 11:45PM

sameeeeee March 29, 2021 at 11:44PM

This post is me! I don't like being called out like this lol..... March 29, 2021 at 11:43PM

thank you! March 29, 2021 at 11:41PM