On any other sub, this would be about how OP can't find love. April 12, 2019 at 05:18AM

Sexual incompatibility is a legitimate reason for a breakup, but he should have handled it with more grace and sensitivity. I hope your future partner(s) treat you with more dignity and respect with regard to your sexuality and your personhood as a whole. April 12, 2019 at 05:15AM

No worries! Some people have fluid sexuality, others stay pretty constant their whole lives. The only way to find out if you will have a change in orientation is just to keep on living. If anything changes, I hope you find a good partner who will understand and accept you exactly as you are. April 12, 2019 at 05:08AM

Thank you all for the support, it means alot to me. I hope moving forward, proves better for me April 12, 2019 at 05:06AM

Good for you! Now go find yourself a nice ace person to snuggle with 😊 anybody who gets mad because of their partner's newly realized sexual orientation is somebody you're absolutely better off without. April 12, 2019 at 05:04AM

When ever I see something like this I usually think of it as If people who are sexual have little sex rather than people in general. Cuz some people who are very sexual or just average sexual may need some action to release stress But not many really care about sex so in my opinion personally these videos don’t bother me since... I think they are just referring to those who are sexual Which are most people April 12, 2019 at 05:00AM

He didnt deserve you anyway since hes clearly only thinking with his dick. Theres more to relationships than sex and if he cant see that I'd say you got lucky not getting stuck with some prick who only wants to get laid. He had no reason to be angry. It's the same logic as you getting mad in return because hes sexually attracted to you. Like why would you do that? You wouldn't. He was an ass, you deserve better. April 12, 2019 at 04:57AM

I'm sorry he got angry and accusatory with you. That was unfair and you didn't deserve it. April 12, 2019 at 04:56AM

Your wording is good, I don't think you said anything too ignorant, and it's great that you want to help, and I think she'll appreciate how understanding you're being. Just remember to check in with her. She might not be ready or interested in finding a dating app, especially if she's just coming to terms with her sexuality. However, forums and communities can be a great place to start, where she can meet other aces and become comfortable in herself. Suggesting this subreddit or Aven could be a good place to start. There are also communities on tumblr, and with some good searching maybe you could find somewhere she could meet up with others in person (if not something ace-specific, then very likely a queer group, just make sure it's ace-inclusitory first). Good luck, and I hope you can help her out! April 12, 2019 at 04:52AM

Sweet! I've bought and returned like three rings so far. I really love yours! April 12, 2019 at 04:43AM

Normal is SO overrated April 12, 2019 at 04:24AM

It's very hard. Aceapp is #1 for dating via mobile Aven forums are best likely for information. (Best I've come across) April 12, 2019 at 04:21AM

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My husband was raised as an extremely religious man. He was on his way to becoming a church leader at one point in his life. After his divorce (wife cheated a lot) he spent much of that time single and has only slept with 5 women his whole life. The sexual experience he did have with the women he was with was rare and kind of boring. I on the other hand haven’t had many more sex partners but enjoyed very active and happy sex life with all of them. He worries a lot about cumming too soon. He’s super sensitive and it’s easy for him to get off. He feels shy, insecure about his body and he kind of waits around for me to initiate sex. It got so bad I stopped initiating all together because I was so sick of doing it. He’s gotten better. He worries a lot about hurting me and gets really turned on when he dominates me but it scares him and he’ll back off. Meanwhile I’m over here loving it and wondering why he gets so scared. I love a good kink... he’s super vanilla and not into anything ...

I (F18) have always had a high libido— even with the arm implant, I find myself extremely turned on every day. My boyfriend (M19) also is the same way, but recently we get turned on at different times and it makes things a chore (usually for me). I enjoy being with him, I enjoy our sex, but sometimes getting into it is hard for me. Recently, I’ve found myself making deals where I’ll do something sexual for him in the earlier part of the day in return for him doing the same for me later on in the night. When one of us falls through, whether it be because of circumstance or forgetting, it can be a little difficult for us to be happy with our sex life temporarily. Is this normal? How can we be more in sync with our sex life? I feel frustrated often because of this. Submitted April 12, 2019 at 01:59AM I (F18) have always had a high libido— even with the arm implant, I find myself extremely turned on every day. My boyfriend (M19) also is the same way, but recently we get turned on at...

Just as the title says, how long did it take you to transition from prone ejaculation to the "traditional" form of ejaculation? Submitted April 12, 2019 at 02:03AM Just as the title says, how long did it take you to transition from prone ejaculation to the "traditional" form of ejaculation?

So, I am a little strange in the fact that I've had a decent amount of sex, but have had very little experience with my own pleasure due to my issues. I'm finally with a partner that my libido actually responds to, and gets me off multiple times when we fuck. Generally I think we're decently open about wants/needs (they're a lil more closed off due to relationship history, we're working on it). But I have one thing I want to try, which is delayed orgasm. For them to take their time, make me wait a bit (or more than a bit..., I'm always too impatient to do it in masturbation, but even the thought of it gets me excited. The only thing is, they usually get me off quite easy, so it feels weird and selfish to say hey, no, we're gonna spend more time focusing on just me cause I want to try the thing. Like if I can come plenty fine and fast, it just seems weird or selfish to bring up? IDFK, figured I'd toss this out there to see people's thoughts. If I...

I [F19]have only had one partner and he is my current SO[M22]. I feel like I'm not putting in as much as I could be when it comes to sex with my SO. I want to make it really good for him, but he's pretty quiet so it's difficult to gage what he likes and doesn't. Does anyone have advice on how I can make it better for my partner? Submitted April 12, 2019 at 02:18AM I [F19]have only had one partner and he is my current SO[M22]. I feel like I'm not putting in as much as I could be when it comes to sex with my SO. I want to make it really good for him, but he's pretty quiet so it's difficult to gage what he likes and doesn't. Does anyone have advice on how I can make it better for my partner?

I met a girl on Tinder a few weeks ago and we have hooked up a few times. The sex has been pretty good, and we get along. Last time I saw her, she mentioned that she was interested in hitting me during sex. We sort of laughed about it and moved on. A few days later she sent me a message about a “new fantasy” she had, where she would get in a physical fight with someone, then fuck them. She wanted to hit me during sex, and she wanted me to hit her. I told her I was down to try. I try to be a considerate lover and think my partner’s pleasure is as important as my own. I said we should practice first, because I didn’t know how hard I should hit and how I should do it. I’ve had low-grade “rough” sex before (spanking, a little choking, scratching) but never actually hit someone on the face. We were sending some thirsty texts back and forth last night and I ended up at her place. She was wearing sexy lingerie that was held together with bows. As soon as I got there I threw her on the bed an...

Using a throwaway account cause I was an idiot and told people my real Reddit username :( Anyways, as the title says, I never get wet, like at all. I can have sex, or use a vibrator or whatever, and I CAN climax, but I don't get wet. Lube is my best friend hahah. Obviously, most partners I have been with assume I am faking my orgasms which I couldn't even if I tried (terrible at faking things and lying!). I am on birth control pills (Blisolvi FE) so have been wondering if that is why and if it's messing with my hormones? I'm in between health insurances right now so haven't had a chance to ask a doctor or gynecologist and I am suuuper shy talking to them anyways. I am 90% sure I have vaginismus (Definition: a condition involving a muscle spasm in the pelvic floor muscles. It can make it painful, difficult, or impossible to have sexual intercourse). I can't really have sex with bigger guys (my vagina literally just won't let anything in no matter how ready...

I'm anorgasmic and don't have a particularly sensitive clitoris to begin with, but sometimes I just... hardly feel anything when stimulated. Obviously this is frustrating for both me and my partner, because, well, it sucks when you're having sex and it doesn't even feel good. Not that it feels bad, and I still get turned on, but it doesn't feel like a whole lot of anything. I've started to try to pay attention to when this happens, and it seems like it might be related to hormone changes with my cycle. For me, it seems like in the week or so after my period my lady parts are just dead. Does anyone else experience this? Am I crazy? Submitted April 12, 2019 at 02:42AM I'm anorgasmic and don't have a particularly sensitive clitoris to begin with, but sometimes I just... hardly feel anything when stimulated. Obviously this is frustrating for both me and my partner, because, well, it sucks when you're having sex and it doesn't even feel good....

My girlfriend (20f) and I (20m) of 2 1/2 years haven't had sex hardly at all the entirety of our relationship. Maybe a few times, but not often whatsoever. She claims she feels uncomfortable because we both live at home still. ​ Before her and I began dating, I had been with a few people. Half of them male; and now, at this point in our relationship, I am craving sex a lot more often. I have explained my sexual desires to my girlfriend, and she claims she has a very strong sexual drive as well, however, we never have sex and we hardly ever help each other to get off (via oral/hands). ​ Now, I am craving sex a lot lately... but not just from her. I am craving my old partners; the males and females, and I'm craving what they have given me in the past. They have given me that sexual relief that I so desperately wanted. I love my girlfriend. I don't see us splitting. However, this is something we have definitely had some small arguments about. It's getting difficult, e...

Hey there, I was wondering if the people of this subreddit could give me some ideas and advice? My boyfriend just made me a key to his apartment. He mentioned that I should pop over and hang out before he gets home from work. This would be the first time using the key. We don’t have time for much (I’m meeting his parents and we’re all going out to dinner) tomorrow evening. I would like to surprise him with a teaser of what’s to come after dinner. I was thinking a cheesy petal trail to the bedroom with me waiting on the bed in something sexy. Should I go for that? Have you ever fantasized about that before? what would you include? Submitted April 12, 2019 at 03:41AM Hey there, I was wondering if the people of this subreddit could give me some ideas and advice?My boyfriend just made me a key to his apartment. He mentioned that I should pop over and hang out before he gets home from work. This would be the first time using the key. We don’t have time for much (I’m meeting his pa...

I made out with a guy a few days ago and I now have a cold sore on my lip and I’m worried that it’s herpes. I’ve googled it and I haven’t found a yes or no and answer. Are they the same? Edit: the guy didn’t have any sores and blisters on his mouth. Submitted April 12, 2019 at 03:45AM I made out with a guy a few days ago and I now have a cold sore on my lip and I’m worried that it’s herpes. I’ve googled it and I haven’t found a yes or no and answer. Are they the same?Edit: the guy didn’t have any sores and blisters on his mouth.

I've never orgasmed. I never really knew how to masturbate and I didn't have enough interest to learn. I accidentally discovered it about two years ago when playing out a fantasy of a guy touching my clit. It started out that I would use circular motions and listen to my body, applying pressure and quickening as I felt until I began to feel a tingling sensation. Then I would just stop. Eventually I tried pushing through, as I wanted to feel beyond the tingles. So I continued and I would feel a sudden wave of arousal and goodness and my breath would quicken for 3-5 seconds and then it would go away. After that, my clit would be a bit sensitive, but it is like all the arousal is gone. If I try to continue, it just feels like I'm touching any other part of my body. I've tried stopping before I reach the wave of "goodness", waiting, and then continuing, because I've been told egging it on slowly like that can help reach orgasm. That makes my clit increasing...

I (38M) had surgery to repair a ruptured patella tendon. I have to keep it straight for six weeks in this brace and can’t put any weight on it yet. Any suggestions for sex positions? Any experiences? Thanks Submitted April 12, 2019 at 04:46AM I (38M) had surgery to repair a ruptured patella tendon. I have to keep it straight for six weeks in this brace and can’t put any weight on it yet. Any suggestions for sex positions? Any experiences? Thanks

So after around 3 weeks I finally had sex with my gf again. Did not masturbate during those 3 weeks. But what I noticed when she started giving me a bj, it didn't feel like anything. When I started fucking her it also didn't feel like anything. When I finally came it also didn't feel like anything (almost feels like peeing) I did let out a huge load. I haven't told her anything about it. I'm a bit concerned, I mean it's cool that I can last a bit longer but I kinda wanna feel good too. Help. Thanks for taking the time to read this. :) Submitted April 12, 2019 at 05:09AM So after around 3 weeks I finally had sex with my gf again. Did not masturbate during those 3 weeks. But what I noticed when she started giving me a bj, it didn't feel like anything. When I started fucking her it also didn't feel like anything. When I finally came it also didn't feel like anything (almost feels like peeing) I did let out a huge load. I haven't told her anyt...

We just broke up because we argue about why it isn't happening. I don't know why it's not going in, i don't know what I'm doing. I've looked up vaginas and pointed out the hole and the parts but when it comes to my gf I'm just clueless. It's no frustrating. Plz how do you put it in. Submitted April 12, 2019 at 05:56AM We just broke up because we argue about why it isn't happening. I don't know why it's not going in, i don't know what I'm doing. I've looked up vaginas and pointed out the hole and the parts but when it comes to my gf I'm just clueless. It's no frustrating. Plz how do you put it in.

So I’m the luckiest girl (24) in the world, and I finally found my unicorn. I have a wonderful, loving guy (23)who is going to let me fuck him in the ass. I’m super new to giving any sort of anal stimulation to male partners (so any advice, tips or tricks is welcome), let alone pegging, but what are the best steps leading to the act? We’ve experimented with fingers and a few toys, but there’s been no vigorous movement by any means. He has a vibrating prostate stimulator and a small anal starter, but what now? I feel like we’re missing a step between just fooling around and full on pegging. I just want it it be as painless and as pleasurable as possible for my guy. Like, I said though, any butt stuff suggestions are welcome. Help me, help him, help me. Thanks!!! Submitted April 12, 2019 at 06:06AM So I’m the luckiest girl (24) in the world, and I finally found my unicorn. I have a wonderful, loving guy (23)who is going to let me fuck him in the ass. I’m super new to giving any so...

My boyfriend bought me a fox tail butt plug toy. I’m not sure how I feel about anal stuff but tips to help it all go well and less painful TIA Submitted April 12, 2019 at 06:14AM My boyfriend bought me a fox tail butt plug toy. I’m not sure how I feel about anal stuff but tips to help it all go well and less painful TIA

I'm a dude who, occasionally on a weekend, smokes weed all day while masturbating. I drink coffee and blaze weed whole using a fleshlight so I'm wondering which is better - edge for six hours or fap twice+ for 1-2 hours each time. Yes, I'm a degenerate. Submitted April 12, 2019 at 06:16AM I'm a dude who, occasionally on a weekend, smokes weed all day while masturbating.I drink coffee and blaze weed whole using a fleshlight so I'm wondering which is better - edge for six hours or fap twice+ for 1-2 hours each time.Yes, I'm a degenerate.

She's 14 hours over as I'm writing this. So how long will she have to take it till we're safe again? Submitted April 12, 2019 at 06:27AM She's 14 hours over as I'm writing this. So how long will she have to take it till we're safe again?

Female here! I look at a lot of r/GoneWild posts and a huge chunk of girls have a very clean and shaven vaginal/butt area... Do some girls just come that way or do you shave right before taking a picture or wax? What’s your technique? Submitted April 12, 2019 at 06:36AM Female here!I look at a lot of r/GoneWild posts and a huge chunk of girls have a very clean and shaven vaginal/butt area...Do some girls just come that way or do you shave right before taking a picture or wax?What’s your technique?

how strange is the heart how can a heart be hurt so many times and still be so eager to love it’s still a mystery to me what causes the feeling of wanting to love a person like what makes the attention from a single person more valuable than the thousands of other people I guess the heart starts caring before you’re even aware that u care I’d rather be with you than anybody else but I don’t know if it’s worth waiting and wondering I don’t even understand the reasons for why I feel the way I feel but he makes me so vulnerable and maybe that’s what makes me feel safe because I don’t think anyone knows me like he does and it honestly scares me the effect he has I’m being showered with all this attention and I it makes me want to dive in but I have before and I was left floating but why do I still feel guilty for wanting to move on I guess there’s a part of me that still doesn’t want to let go Submitted April 11, 2019 at 07:58AM how strange is the heart how can a heart be hurt so ma...

Every photograph alone - every smile, every angle the sunlight gleams upon your face speak the million words I want to express to you face to face. Skin to Skin. Scheduled to be my final destination on this journey - with follow throughs and short term goals dispersed in between. Hope is in abundance. You know where I capture a form of ‘tranquility’ these days? In that early peace of the morning - minutes before dawn while facing the window in my hollow room - half awake only shutting my eyes to create. To Focus. The Sketch. My Masterpiece. And while consumed by this blissful silence - I just sink into the painting..I disappear into the stillness - into the oil painted eyes of yours while the natural symphony assembles the morning ambiance. The bird chatter. The early breeze. The drone of the Wind chimes. The Wheels in motion. I open my eyes to view the first rays seeping through the half-shut blinds. Like Treading on heels to color the grand picture of a clear future - our blue ...

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It's 5 am I'm in my bed You and I both know I should be sleeping Especially after my long stupid graveyard shifts But I'm going to surprise you today Gonna see you when you get off of the bus before you go to school I know you'll probably be upset with me for not sleeping But I also know you'll have that adorable smile on your face once you see me waiting for you You know the one The one that makes smile right back at you I need to study for my drivers test I need a car so I can have a cheap way to drive over to see you after you graduate Maybe I'll get some help from my friends I know you don't like me staying out too late with them I'd do anything for you silly I try my best every day To be a better person A better man For you Only for you We've been together for a while We've exchanged quiet glances and serious "I love you"s We've even made love But I'm only starting to realize how much I love you How much I would actuall...

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So, 'bout a month ago this guy from my school randomly texted me in the evening. Turns out he was really drunk, and in the mood for confessing his love for me. I've never ONCE talked to him, so he kinda caught my interest haha. I ended up giving him my snap once he was sober, out of curiosity. He tried to make a bit of small talk, but pretty soon broke the conversation off by asking "streaks?" :)) I thought he must've lost interest once he turned sober. Flash forward 3 weeks to our school-trip to the Czech Republic. He texts me randomly *again* and we start talking casually for a bit. Whenever we passed each other at the hotel he would greet me and initiate small-talk. I started to kinda like him! ..But I also noticed that he's quite shy.. He'd promised me to show me his Norwegian language skills, but seemed too shy to initiate the conversation to keep that promise. Instead I initiated the conversation, and he was obviously still too shy to do it. He the...

I am currently outside of my home country as an exchange student. The time difference is 8 hours, which really sucks, because for most of the regular day all my friends are sleeping. However I really love talking to the girl I have a crush on, so whenever I get the chance I will stay up, sometimes until 4-5 am just to talk to her. This takes a huge toll on my sleep, because I only get 4-5 hours most nights. I usually take a long nap when I get home from school to recharge (2-3 hours). Whenever I get a text or Snapchat from her, my heat skips a beat. It’s the shortest and best feeling ever. I have no idea if she knows, and I don’t know what her feelings are. But I have hope, we are going to be in a volleyball camp together once I get back, and I hope to get closer to her during it. Wish me luck guys :) Submitted April 11, 2019 at 09:18PM I am currently outside of my home country as an exchange student. The time difference is 8 hours, which really sucks, because for most of th...

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So I’ve dated a pair of fraternal twins before, not at the same time or anything like that, when one was physically abusive during a relationship, the other one was my best friend, a person who I could rely on. I’m not dating either of them anymore but I’m still really close to them both. They’re always the first ones to view my story, like every time I add to my story, they’re immediately on it, and yes, I check my story, sue me. Things are a bit awkward now but em, dont want to get too detailed. What’re your thoughts on this situation? Submitted April 11, 2019 at 10:33PM So I’ve dated a pair of fraternal twins before, not at the same time or anything like that, when one was physically abusive during a relationship, the other one was my best friend, a person who I could rely on.I’m not dating either of them anymore but I’m still really close to them both. They’re always the first ones to view my story, like every time I add to my story, they’re immediately on it, and yes, I ch...

So I became friends with this girl and started to like her, she was going away for a semester so I told her I liked her, we were really good friends and she took it really nice but didn’t like me back, so we kept being friends, a month later she started texting me a lot and a friend told me that she liked me, we went out with some friends before she left to say goodbye and so I texted her about us, she told me that she liked me but it was difficult for her because she is not going to be around for a semester, when she arrived to the country she was going to stay in I texted her to tell her to enjoy her semester away, after that we started to talk a lot and by a lot I mean A LOT she always said good morning and good night and I did too it was really fun to talk to someone about my day and she did too, we talked for 2 months every single day but then we started to notice that it wasn’t going to work because of the distance and the time we had to wait so we talked and decided that it was...

My boyfriend has been living across the country since November. I moved into a new apartment in February and he had been planning on moving in when he comes back. He is finally on his way home tonight and I am so excited I can’t stop smiling and crying happy tears. I’m so in love with him and i’ve never thought it or said it out loud before, but I am so in love. Submitted April 12, 2019 at 03:50AM My boyfriend has been living across the country since November. I moved into a new apartment in February and he had been planning on moving in when he comes back. He is finally on his way home tonight and I am so excited I can’t stop smiling and crying happy tears. I’m so in love with him and i’ve never thought it or said it out loud before, but I am so in love.

Around 4 months ago I met this guy that is my boyfriend now. I really like him and I love the way we are when we are together, I think I’m in love. Sometimes I think about how wonderful he is and I cry because he is the most amazing person I’ve ever met. I do not cry of sadness, I think I cry because I can’t believe I found someone like him, and I am so blessed for having him by my side. I really love everything about him, even his flaws. I don’t know what the future has for us, but what I do know is that I love him so much. Submitted April 12, 2019 at 04:22AM Around 4 months ago I met this guy that is my boyfriend now. I really like him and I love the way we are when we are together, I think I’m in love. Sometimes I think about how wonderful he is and I cry because he is the most amazing person I’ve ever met. I do not cry of sadness, I think I cry because I can’t believe I found someone like him, and I am so blessed for having him by my side. I really love everything about him,...

Does anyone here in love with someone with a beautiful heart for years? But you can never have them, so, you ignore them when you meet, because you are afraid that you're going to hurt yourself more. Submitted April 12, 2019 at 04:40AM Does anyone here in love with someone with a beautiful heart for years? But you can never have them, so, you ignore them when you meet, because you are afraid that you're going to hurt yourself more.

I'm going to start this off by saying, yes my SO and I are young but ever since i've known her (these past 2 years) we've both matured so much so I feel like I can say my take on what I think love is. Story time, haHa sorry So my SO [F18] and I[M18] are long distance so we can't be there for each other all the time when times get rough and just a little bit ago it got rough. My girlfriend sadly started to have an anxiety attack and there was nothing I could do because we are 362 miles apart(not that long but it is for us). She started feeling better and called me back after 20 dreadful minutes we began to talk about how she was feeling and how I understood her like no one else ever could. After just speaking to her and knowing she needed something to refresh her, how I have in the past, I told her to go to the pool and just dip her feet into the water, but I had other plans for what I wanted her to do next ;) While she was sitting by the side of the pool we talked a...

There he is! What a glorious specimen! It’s the lost child! The ‘Farewell Kid’! It’s Admiral Dickhead about to attempt his classic swan dive into his own Abyss! The ‘abyss’ that stores all nightmares and HIS defeat! where all social, health, and biological experiments fail! Where pain is recreational! It’s easy to scope while facing the precipice! [ he’s been in his own goddamn crosshairs for years ] Notes: past negative catalysts that perpetuate stagnation while spreading virus are to be further observed the beginning of every week from now until whenever we’ve recently discovered untreated, neglected wood panels bordering the window in his room - Weathered Splintered and Corroded. covered in breathing fungus that’s constructed tiny snot colonies. it’s mold.. dude, it’s mold and he still knocks on it! Politely! Oh, the Superstitions! the Minor Mistakes! The Critical Mishaps! The Human - Error. Yeah, Yeah, Yeah.... Soft Skin: HIS Veins - Sightless Miniature Slacks: Damp and Soil...

I don't know which subreddit to post this on, but anyways yeah middle school stuff. So basically, there's this guy that I used to talk to so so much and we hanged out a bunch. I never told him how I felt and I'm pretty sure he liked me. But then he started talking to me less, and less until our convos were so dry I just gave up. We don't talk anymore. I think it's because he was tired of not knowing how I felt. But what do you people think? (And what's a better subreddit to post this on?) Submitted April 12, 2019 at 06:11AM I don't know which subreddit to post this on, but anyways yeah middle school stuff. So basically, there's this guy that I used to talk to so so much and we hanged out a bunch. I never told him how I felt and I'm pretty sure he liked me. But then he started talking to me less, and less until our convos were so dry I just gave up. We don't talk anymore. I think it's because he was tired of not knowing how I felt. But ...

I met a girl online, on 1st of April. We talked for a while and we found ourselves to be very compatible to each other and shared many similar views. We developed a sort of liking for each other right from the first conversation. We talked a lot more and I think we really did love each other and it all happened very fast. I met her recently and things, kinda went out of hand. Things went south when everybody got to know about it and families were involved. They don't want us continuing our relationship. After that, I started feeling differently about her and I'm not sure if I still feel the same affection for her. I really don't like the way I am right now. The way I feel. She is very upset about the situation and cries her heart out thinking things are coming to an end. I am sad, but I can't say I felt the same way as she does. Am I an asshole? Submitted April 12, 2019 at 06:23AM I met a girl online, on 1st of April. We talked for a while and we found ourselves ...

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I have been single for over a year and a half. I'm a 32 woman- self-employed, get complimented on my looks frequently, people tell me I'm funny and outgoing and overall I feel like I have my shit together. But I can't keep a guy interested during the initial dating phase. I'm dating guys around my age, BTW. What happens is I meet a guy (usually online) we talk for a while, go on a date, and if I am interested then I try to meet up again, but eventually communication drops off, he gets distant and cold and usually ghosts me altogether or I try and match his level of interest to the point conversation just fades away. I feel like the more I'm interested, the quicker they run. This seems like the norm for most of us, right? But here is where it gets confusing. They eventually come back! Usually, a couple months down the line, sometimes even longer, they drop in my DM's on social media or randomly text me asking me out again or trying to restart were we left off...

OK, known this girl from run group for like 6 months. She's really cute. Runs a similar pace as me. ​ So, I decided to do a different group run yesterday. So I was doing my typical social anxiety thing (I prefer doing these things with a few friends) but forced myself to go. And she was there. We ended up running together and chatting. ​ I figured she was about 25. So through chatting I asked her age and she is 33. She didn't ask my age though. I should have gotten her number and didn't. I'm such a fool. ​ So talking to my 49F friend today and she goes "Oh, I have her number, want me to text her". I was like hell no. Should I? ​ Should I get her number next time I see her at running which is probably next week? ​ My worry is making her feel awkward showing up to group runs. Submitted April 11, 2019 at 06:55PM OK, known this girl from run group for like 6 months. She's really cute. Runs a similar pace as me.​So, I decided to do a different ...

Hey folks. I'm a 36 yr old straight female living in a major Canadian metropolis. I've been wading through online dating, and I notice an odd trend where a few men seem really fixated on finding out where I live before asking any questions to get to know me. This is the first or second question they ask after we "match" online. Usually I give a general answer, but I've noticed they always keep asking "where exactly?" and one guy - when I gave him my main street and said downtown, actually asked "what cross street?" . Is this a thing? I've asked why they want to know (thinking, oh maybe they're trying to set up a date.) but get stonewalled as a response. I find it intrusive as a woman, because I feel its best to be careful online, especially when you haven't even met someone in person. If I say, I live in for example, midtown Manhattan and off broadway, why keep asking "what cross street?". I also don't get what wher...

Sorry if that is the wrong place to post it but I feel I feel I will get best and relevant advice here. For all single people like myself, and obviously over 30, how do you plan holidays alone? A bit of background, moved here over 1.5 years ago, still don't have as close friends to travel or plan with (plus all of them have settled down) and just ended a relationship. How do you plan a trip alone, where do you go and is also safe for solo female traveller? I was looking at Turkey, great deals, but quite a few folk just gave me the look when I said I will go alone. Thanks for your help 🙏 Submitted April 11, 2019 at 10:05PM Sorry if that is the wrong place to post it but I feel I feel I will get best and relevant advice here. For all single people like myself, and obviously over 30, how do you plan holidays alone? A bit of background, moved here over 1.5 years ago, still don't have as close friends to travel or plan with (plus all of them have settled down) and just ended...

I'm 32, female and bisexual. I am dating women as well as men openly for the first time in a decade. The last two or so years have been very tough - I was made redundant, lost my apartment, gained weight and was unemployed for about four months before finding work again. When I was finally made permanent full time, my hiring manager resigned suddenly and was replaced by a micro manager and a bully. The next 18 months of my life were a nightmare of anxiety and depression. I finally got out when I was offered a prestigious job with a big pay rise at another company. I started my new job at the beginning of the year - I've also managed to lose 20 lbs/10 kg, bought some new clothes and keep myself well groomed. I started feeling much better and more positive about life, so I decided that I might give dating a try again. At my old job, I had met and formed a lovely, very warm bond with a lesbian in her late 40's - but she already had a partner of several years, so I decided to...

I don't have the best relationship history for all the standard reasons that I've been working through in therapy. I always seemed to fall for emotionally unavailable men and let those sparks and chemistry make bad decisions for me. But now, after taking a break and learning to love the single life, the biggest thing I keep coming back to in what attracts me to a man is intelligence. Obviously all the other things like kindness, respect, generosity are important too, but I like a sharp mind. And as a woman who spent my whole life downplaying my own intelligence around men, I would like to find a man who is attracted to the same thing. I'm assuming this exists but OLD seems like a bad place to look for it. Just wondering if anyone can relate. Submitted April 11, 2019 at 10:52PM I don't have the best relationship history for all the standard reasons that I've been working through in therapy. I always seemed to fall for emotionally unavailable men and let thos...

How can you tell if someone is genuinely interested, and not just lonely or sex hungry? Submitted April 11, 2019 at 10:56PM How can you tell if someone is genuinely interested, and not just lonely or sex hungry?

I'm tapping out for awhile. I have the usual activities of working out, reading, going back to my art hobbies...but what are some new skills/activities anyone has picked up when taking a break from OLD? Submitted April 12, 2019 at 12:14AM I'm tapping out for awhile. I have the usual activities of working out, reading, going back to my art hobbies...but what are some new skills/activities anyone has picked up when taking a break from OLD?

Just curious, what do you think is too soon to meet someone’s children? I know that every situation will be different but just wondering what people’s thoughts are. Edit: I don’t have children of my own. Just wondering if I should be cautious when someone wants to bring their kids around early in dating. Submitted April 12, 2019 at 12:21AM Just curious, what do you think is too soon to meet someone’s children? I know that every situation will be different but just wondering what people’s thoughts are.Edit: I don’t have children of my own. Just wondering if I should be cautious when someone wants to bring their kids around early in dating.

I'm 33 female and single. My older sister 39 bugs me all the time to date and find someone. I'm happy being single and she makes me feel like I can't manage my life without a man or that I can't live my life without someone else. It makes me feel like couples are better than single people which I don't really see it that way. Why is there so much pressure from family and even society?? Why single people stigmatized as lonely and miserable. There's so much more in life than just thinking about being with someone. I'm not against dating but I'm not rushing it either. I'm living my life and if I ever meet someone that's great but I don't want to kill myself and stress about it. My sister thinks I should settle, have a family and have kids and I hate being looked at that. I'm far from being a mother ready to have kids. Does either being in a relationship or being single indicate happiness? or even a factor in being miserable/happy? I'm...

A long time friend/association of mine that I’ve always admired and liked (and thought was fucking hot) found out through the grapevine that I’m recently divorced. I hadn’t seen or heard from him in months and he contacted me to find out if it was true..and it was! I was giddy that he texted. We had a great convo and he asked me out to dinner/drinks for several days later. However, leading up to the date we texted daily. And I’m thrilled to have a date I didn’t have to swipe right for! Fantastic first date. Great convo, lots of catching up, I realize we have more in common than I thought. He leaves the next day to go out of town for work for the next 3 weeks. He continues to text daily and I’m giddy about the whole thing! Effort is matched at this point. We still communicate daily. He got back in town yesterday. I hint that I’d love to get together. He says it’s a great idea but won’t commit to anything. He’s also sick, so I give him that. The texting is still daily, but it’s slowe...