My boyfriend invited me to move in with him. He owns his apartment. He is older and has a much higher paying job. I am going back to school to further my career. I agree with splitting rent equally in regards to utilities (cable, internet, heat and electricity, etc) since we are both using these expenses equally. In regards to splitting his mortgage payments. We are not sure how to split this. I do not think it is fair I pay half of his mortgage. Especially since it is a decent amount more than I am currently paying. How do we decide how much rent I pay? Does this include his strata fees? He was thinking half of his strata and mortgage payments. Or 80% of that half. Which is still more than I am paying now. How do we come to a fair agreement? Submitted November 24, 2022 at 01:01AM My boyfriend invited me to move in with him. He owns his apartment. He is older and has a much higher paying job. I am going back to school to further my career.I agree with splitting rent equally in...

So I don’t even know how to begin this post but I’m looking for advice. Ive gotta give some backstory for this to make sense. I have a very good friend, we’ll call her Megan, who I met 7 years ago while I was dating a dumb guy whose best friend Megan was dating. Our boyfriends were also roommates so we saw each other a lot and became very close. The boyfriends didn’t last long but we remained very close after. This ex boyfriend of mine was a rebound after I dumped my long term boyfriend of 5 years. Long term boyfriend and I dated all through college and a little after. I broke up with him because I didn’t know what i wanted in life yet and he was ready to settle down. Long term boyfriend and I talked about doing our own thing and possibly reconnecting down the road so we didn’t leave things on bad terms. Fast forward five years and long term boyfriend gets hired in the city where I live so we see each other a lot. I knew the person who hired him and put in a good word for him. I start...

Agreed! Also for hair, I love bald or loooooooooong hair haha November 24, 2022 at 12:37AM

I have a crush on this friend that we only hang out bc of our mutual friends. When we first started hanging out I was pretty open with him, initiated conversation, made jokes etc (despite the fact that i’m an introvert) and felt like we were vibing but nothing ever happened. Fast forward now (after more then 6 months of this on/off) I feel like my social batteries have run out and I kinda started to ignore him because it feels forced to be playful, for lack of a better word. I still like him and want to let him know but my girlfriends say I shouldn’t straight up tell him and flirt instead. One of them that’s in our friend group basically told me she couldn’t possibly tell I like him by the way I’ve acted, even though I thought I was pretty obvious.. so, Males, pls help. Would you be put off if someone straight up told you they liked you? Or is it better to flirt in a more obvious way and test for sparks? I should mention he is also a bit shy, tho friendly and kind. Submitted Novem...

Tell him hes sexually attracted to dogs and stand by that November 23, 2022 at 11:08PM

Voices, if that counts. November 23, 2022 at 11:08PM