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I have been having sexual dreams and I don’t know if it means anything.

Hello! I’m am new to this and I’m a 15 year old female and the title explains it all. It may seem strange to my age to be talking about this and I’m sorry, I’m just trying to figure some things out. At least once a week I will have a dream of doing it with a guy or many guys in different positions like missionary or doggy style. I can physically feel everything while having the dream too. I’ve told my friend about this and they said that I have a more kinky side. I also laughed at a sexual joke this kid made and their friend yelled to the whole class that I was a freak. I also heard the saying (I guess) that the shyer kids are the freakiest and yes I’m shy. Again sorry if this was weird. It was weird for me and I just want to know if it’s normal to have/ what it means. Submitted October 23, 2019 at 11:43PM Hello! I’m am new to this and I’m a 15 year old female and the title explains it all. It may seem strange to my age to be talking about this and I’m sorry, I’m just trying to ...

Girlfriend cried when I was looking up vibrators (lesbian)

This is a throwaway account because I worry my girlfriend or her friends might find this. My partner(f) and I(f) have been together for a while and we have sex (ofc) quite frequently. I'm the kinky one, into bondage, BDSM and other stuff such as that and she is always up to try new things. We normally have "vanilla" sex but recently we bought a strap-on for me. She doesn't get off by penetration because it physically hurts for her (we already discussed this together.) I have always fantasized about being vibrated by my partner. So I decided to look vibrators up on my phone and get a general idea of what I would be interested in (I use to have vibrators cause I enjoy masturbation) to use in bed. My girlfriend saw and she got really upset. She started crying and I felt horrible. I don't want her to think she isn't enough because she makes me feel amazing but I'm interested in trying new stuff. We had this problem when buying the strap-on as she said "...

Got a dildo going on about a year now and recently it's a bit sore when I attempt to push it all the way in me

So, I'm 21, never had sex (neither has my boyfriend; we're both asexual, but only sexually attracted to one another) and we both came to the idea that I should get a dildo as to make it easier for me when we both end up having sex with each other. He's pretty well-endowed and doesn't want my first time to hurt and he also wants me to be comfortable with him and his, uhhh, third leg. We both absolutely enjoyed it and I experienced my first vaginal orgasm because of it. We both like to masturbate with one another, so its very stimulating for both of us and I've never had any problems with lubrication or pain due to how wet I get and how comfortable I am with him. In the beginning I slowly built myself into getting used to using the dildo and I did; no pain experienced outside of when I slowly got used to having it all the way in me and practiced riding and such (drives him crazy). However, I had my period and hadn't been able to use it and the last time I did I...

My boyfriend and I tried face fucking tonight and I enjoyed it way more than I thought I would!

Me (28F) and my boyfriend (30M) have been together a little under 2 years. We've had a pretty good sex life for most of our relationship, bar a few months when my depression/anxiety got the better of me. But that's over now and we're better than ever. Tonight we were messing around and I started giving him a blowjob. He was sat on the sofa and I was kneeling on the floor between his legs. I have a pretty strong gag reflex but I've been trying to work on getting more and more of his dick in my mouth recently. He commented on how well I was doing and how it was almost all the way in (it wasn't lol) and I remembered reading that lying on the edge of a bed/surface with your head over the edge makes deepthroating easier. I got up and told him to stand at the end of the sofa while I got in to position. I told him that I was going to lie down, and he could fuck my mouth. He was a bit worried about hurting me, but we agreed that if I needed him to stop, I'd just gent...

Ladies= what’s your favorite part of Sex?

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Do guys usually ask if the sex feels good?

Every time I have sex with this guy he always messages me the day after asking if it felt good for me. I find it really sweet and cute but it’s starting to make me anxious because he asks every time and I always say yeah. But why wouldn’t it ? And then during as well he asks if it feels good for me but like of course it feels good for me, I always say like yes of course, but why does he keep asking? Especially since it’s not like I’m like I don’t wanna have sex with you anymore. Submitted October 24, 2019 at 12:02AM Every time I have sex with this guy he always messages me the day after asking if it felt good for me. I find it really sweet and cute but it’s starting to make me anxious because he asks every time and I always say yeah. But why wouldn’t it ? And then during as well he asks if it feels good for me but like of course it feels good for me, I always say like yes of course, but why does he keep asking? Especially since it’s not like I’m like I don’t wanna have sex with ...

Is it possible to lift up my body while a girl is riding on top of me?

Ok yes, i’m a virgin. but i’m fairly young so i just would like to know. I’ll be jerking off sometimes but i have a fatpad above my penis so some length is gone when my body is completely flat, but if i lift my body a little bit, then i get the length i was missing. so when a girl is riding me, is it possible to lift up that much (especially if the girl is not that heavy) maybe 120 pounds? keep in mind the lift is only maybe half an inch off the surface. thanks. Submitted October 24, 2019 at 12:14AM Ok yes, i’m a virgin. but i’m fairly young so i just would like to know. I’ll be jerking off sometimes but i have a fatpad above my penis so some length is gone when my body is completely flat, but if i lift my body a little bit, then i get the length i was missing. so when a girl is riding me, is it possible to lift up that much (especially if the girl is not that heavy) maybe 120 pounds? keep in mind the lift is only maybe half an inch off the surface. thanks.

Is squirting real

Hello, Me and my gf are medical students and we were wondering if female ejaculation was real. Anatomically, the only explanation we can come up with is it being urine since there are no structures in the female genitalia capable of producing/squirting that amount of liquid. Thanks Submitted October 24, 2019 at 12:17AM Hello,Me and my gf are medical students and we were wondering if female ejaculation was real. Anatomically, the only explanation we can come up with is it being urine since there are no structures in the female genitalia capable of producing/squirting that amount of liquid.Thanks

I (18M) experience very little pleasure during sex

Using a throwaway account for privacy reasons. My problem isn't the lack of a normal sex drive (I'm fairly sure) or lack of attraction to my partner. For some reason, I simply experience little to no pleasure during sex. I've been with a total of two girls in my life, my FWB last year and my current girlfriend starting recently. I've never reached orgasm. The one time I did cum was my second time having sex and it was me masturbating near the end and it was very weak. I think my sex drive is fairly normal. Watching porn gets me aroused if I'm in the mood and I even have a few kinks. Over the summer when I was single I would sometimes masturbate three or even four time a day normally with no problems. Making out with my girlfriend long enough almost always gives me a boner and with a small amount of stimulation I get get or can keep hard. My first time with my girlfriend, I was able to make her cum twice before we stopped because we were just too tired. No mat...

Positions for female orgasm besides me on top?!

I’ve only ever had a full blown orgasm when I ride on top.... but my new guy doesn’t really like it when I grind, just bounce & thus I’ve been having really great but orgasm free sex and I need ideas!! Help a seriously frustrated girl out please! Submitted October 24, 2019 at 12:20AM I’ve only ever had a full blown orgasm when I ride on top.... but my new guy doesn’t really like it when I grind, just bounce & thus I’ve been having really great but orgasm free sex and I need ideas!!Help a seriously frustrated girl out please!

First thought when do with a short guy?

So I've been trying told that when girls look at a short guy (like below average height), and they end up thinking about their size, they laugh because they expect it to be tiny. I'm 5'2 and I'm average down there in length and barely I girth but that's besides the point. Ladies, when you date a short guy, do you expect them to be small down there? To those who have done it with short guys, what were your first reaction to their size? Was it good? Submitted October 24, 2019 at 12:21AM So I've been trying told that when girls look at a short guy (like below average height), and they end up thinking about their size, they laugh because they expect it to be tiny. I'm 5'2 and I'm average down there in length and barely I girth but that's besides the point.Ladies, when you date a short guy, do you expect them to be small down there? To those who have done it with short guys, what were your first reaction to their size? Was it good?

What do you prefer, using a wand or a rabbit vibrator?

Male in my 50s. I’ve come to realize toys are especially useful when I use them to get my partner off (see in my 50s.) I’ve noticed some prefer wands, some rabbits. Women, what’s your preference? Have a favorite, go to toy? Submitted October 24, 2019 at 12:21AM Male in my 50s. I’ve come to realize toys are especially useful when I use them to get my partner off (see in my 50s.) I’ve noticed some prefer wands, some rabbits. Women, what’s your preference? Have a favorite, go to toy?

/u/1cemag3 on Please help

a playstation party is not an actual party. October 24, 2019 at 12:19AM

/u/Apathicary on Please help

Why are those two things connected? October 24, 2019 at 12:16AM

/u/BatsnAlligators on Please help

If you are scared, plan an escape route. Figure out how to get home if that's by your car, a friend, and uber, walking out into the street and to your apartment, whatever. Be willing to be more blunt that him. If he hints, say no explicitly. If he crosses the line after you say no, leave. He might try to guilt you or try to be sly about it. That doesn't really matter. October 24, 2019 at 12:15AM

/u/anonymousposter357 on Romantic orientation

There's a stereotype of aros just being asocial loners, and while that might occasionally be true, having no romantic attraction doesn't really mean you don't crave some form of companionship. October 24, 2019 at 12:11AM

Why would my husband not want to bring cake to work?

Kinda long because I’m a wordy fucker (lol!). TL;DR at the bottom. I had a birthday recently, and a neighbor friend bought a cake for me (so lovely!). It’s too big for two people to eat (we don’t have kids), so I asked my husband to take it into work with him. He reluctantly agreed, but as he was leaving the next morning, he said he didn’t want to take it. Later that day, I texted him about it. He suggested taking off the icing (he doesn’t like it) and putting it in the freezer. I said I was fine with that as long as he was willing to eat all of it (I like sweets but I’m not wildly excited by cake). I also said I wanted him to set reminders for himself because we’re both guilty of putting food in the freezer and not eating it. He didn’t reply to that message, though we later texted about other things. When he got home, I asked if he was embarrassed by the cake. He had previously brought three small cakes from Whole Foods to work (to give to his boss and two coworkers, not the whole ...

/u/anonymousposter357 on asexual, but make it depressed ((TW for dark joke))

Emily Dickinson, is that you? October 24, 2019 at 12:09AM

/u/uncle_SAM98 on asexual, but make it depressed ((TW for dark joke))

I read that too! It was a study done in the 90s. I think there was another one done in the early 2000s with similar results. I wish I knew the names of the researchers off the top of my head, I have it buried somewhere in screenshots... October 24, 2019 at 12:09AM

/u/hylianscum on AMOLED Ace Wallpaper

Thanks! I always have such a hard time getting minimal wallpapers that are also nice to look at. So I made my own to get around that! October 24, 2019 at 12:05AM

/u/solanaceaeplant on AMOLED Ace Wallpaper

This looks so cool and minimalistic. October 24, 2019 at 12:03AM

/u/SafetyHoodie on I was wondering

Thanks! My thoughts are they're valid and I'm glad they have a label :) October 23, 2019 at 11:56PM

/u/phil82245 on Am I truly asexual or is it something else? (depression, autism etc.?)

Good luck with everything. October 23, 2019 at 11:56PM