We just got engaged, been together 13yrs already. The idea of a day where all the attention is focused on us sounds like our personal hell. My mom passed recently which would’ve been the driving force in having a wedding (for her). We have good friends that have known us throughout the years which would be interesting to get everyone together. I guess. But I’d rather just elope & spend that money on a really nice honeymoon somewhere. I honestly don’t see the point in weddings. Especially ones that cost 10s of thousands of dollars. So my question is: those of you who eloped or didn’t have a wedding, do you now regret it? What were your reasons for not having a wedding? Submitted July 05, 2020 at 11:49PM We just got engaged, been together 13yrs already. The idea of a day where all the attention is focused on us sounds like our personal hell. My mom passed recently which would’ve been the driving force in having a wedding (for her). We have good friends that have known us thro...