What’s the last vacation you went on and had great sex ? Now everyone knows what goes on in hotel rooms ? Do you care ? Or do you just fuck all over the room as well? I’m curious to hear everyone’s answers here Submitted January 04, 2020 at 10:17PM What’s the last vacation you went on and had great sex ? Now everyone knows what goes on in hotel rooms ? Do you care ? Or do you just fuck all over the room as well? I’m curious to hear everyone’s answers here

Hey r/sex . My partner [F] and I [M] are really into intense, tease and denial handjobs, but are looking for techniques that are a little more exciting than just pumping my cock up and down. Lately, she has been holding my cock in one hand and rubbing the base of my head in a circular motion and it absolutely drives me wild. We have found that latex gloves work well for us during these sessions because she does not have to reapply lube as much and definitely adds a fun femdom power dynamic. What are some of your favorite handjob or general tease and denial session techniques that absolutely drive you/your partner wild?? Thanks, hope everyone is having a great day! Submitted January 04, 2020 at 10:19PM Hey r/sex. My partner [F] and I [M] are really into intense, tease and denial handjobs, but are looking for techniques that are a little more exciting than just pumping my cock up and down. Lately, she has been holding my cock in one hand and rubbing the base of my head in a circul...

Me and my GF’s (18) relationship has been in trouble for a while. We’ve actually been dating for 5 years. We were really young, we didn’t even try sex until we had been dating for over 2 years. At that time it was horrible but we didn’t care as much about it. Now we’re older, it’s much more important now and it’s hurting our relationship. The entire relationship is amazing except the sex. We just aren’t compatible. We’re both into way different things. I’m much more sensual, slow and passionate and she’s just straight up wild and rough. To save time, we tried everything. The relationship is at a cross road. I’m an attempt to save it we agreed to open the relationship. It’s a little awkward now. I think maybe we just don’t have the experience maybe. If we leave to go off to meet with someone we just kind of tell each other and say an awkward bye. When we get back we just try to act like it didn’t happen because we don’t know how to act. I still think of her too when I’m with another wo...

Hi all! I'm sure there are plenty of posts about this but thought id type one out for my own personal experience. As the title says, I'm a 24 year old male virgin, and it's starting to really get to my head. I've got a good group of friends, I feel rather outgoing in my personal life but it feels as if this is one thing holding me back. Grew up in a rather christian home, and it was kinda looked down upon in my high school years. After graduating college (lived at home which didn't help) it seems even harder. From anyone with this experience, did you ever feel anxiety about if you lost it, how the person would judge you/dump you for being a virgin? I worry I'll finally end up having sex and the person ends up leaving me due to bad sex. Idk, maybe thats just me being paranoid. Anyway, would love to hear anyone's opinions/advice for when the time comes. Thanks! Submitted January 04, 2020 at 11:20PM Hi all!I'm sure there are plenty of posts about t...

Hey everyone. I’m a 20 year old lady who wants to abstain from sex until marriage for personal reasons. And it’s not my plan to get married before 25... obviously sexual frustration is a huge problem for me. I’ve been abstaining from porn for some time to not trigger that hungry side of me and I can say it’s working but still there’s something that’s missing and we know what that thing is. Any ideas you have that you think will help me? Any advices? I’d really want to hear your experiences if you went through similar cases :) Submitted January 04, 2020 at 11:25PM Hey everyone. I’m a 20 year old lady who wants to abstain from sex until marriage for personal reasons. And it’s not my plan to get married before 25... obviously sexual frustration is a huge problem for me. I’ve been abstaining from porn for some time to not trigger that hungry side of me and I can say it’s working but still there’s something that’s missing and we know what that thing is. Any ideas you have that you th...

I don’t really do anything when I have sex with him he mostly does it cause he’s very rough and just wants me to lay down and take it or doggy as well but I do want to ride him so bad and he wants it too but honestly since I’m just used to laying there and him doing all the work, I know it will be a little hard for me to ride him especially on the bed lol! I’m also thick and I haven’t ride dick in a while! Give me some advice or ideas on what to do? And any other positions or things that will make him go crazy. Submitted January 04, 2020 at 11:26PM I don’t really do anything when I have sex with him he mostly does it cause he’s very rough and just wants me to lay down and take it or doggy as well but I do want to ride him so bad and he wants it too but honestly since I’m just used to laying there and him doing all the work, I know it will be a little hard for me to ride him especially on the bed lol! I’m also thick and I haven’t ride dick in a while! Give me some advice or ideas...

As a single male whose sex life can be described as dismal at best, I have found myself wondering what it would be like to pick up a Magic Wand and spend an hour or so having as many orgasms as I wanted. I know men have things like pocket pals that are super-duper realistic, and it helps if you heat them up in warm water, but regardless I am a bit envious of females for having a nervous system that allows them to climax multiple times in a row. It sounds so effortless compared to what you have to do to have a good solo orgasm as a guy. I'm just saying, you can't simply ejaculate and have a good climax. You have to build the tension and sometimes you finish too early and the whole moment is spoiled because now you must wait a few days to try again. Submitted January 04, 2020 at 11:27PM As a single male whose sex life can be described as dismal at best, I have found myself wondering what it would be like to pick up a Magic Wand and spend an hour or so having as many orgasm...

So just now, I was on call with my girlfriend, and she was describing how she was going to stroke me, and she made a movement with her hand similar to how you would masturbate someone, but it actually started to feel good when I just sat there and watched her do the motion. So what's going on? Submitted January 04, 2020 at 11:29PM So just now, I was on call with my girlfriend, and she was describing how she was going to stroke me, and she made a movement with her hand similar to how you would masturbate someone, but it actually started to feel good when I just sat there and watched her do the motion.So what's going on?

Do you think my Girlfriend is gonna end up pregnant? I’ve posted on here before about this, but I deleted the post because I left out some details. On New Years Eve my Girlfriend and I were having sex and we wanted to change positions, so we also changed condoms. I took the condom off and asked her to get closer to my face and I did oral on her.. (Sorry for all the information) so my penis was exposed to the air for at least 30 seconds. I can’t remember if she gave me oral too, but I don’t think she did. Anyways, I changed the condom, but as I was putting it on (hadn’t started rolling it yet) I realized it was on backwards, so I flipped it around and rolled it on normally. We had sex, I pulled out before I ejaculated and then didn’t have a worry in the world, until I started thinking back to it. I didn’t ejaculate fully until we were done having sex.. but I’m worried about pre-cum. If I had pre-cum while using the old condom, then there would probably still be some on the tip of m...

For quite a time I have been craving using an anal / rectal speculum on myself (for all those wonderful things you can imagine to do with it not least with combining other toys), and in the previous few days I have researched the topic quite thoroughly. I've gone through all the types of specula, their sizes, uses, as well as purchase options. Ebay and Amazon seem good sources with Alibaba offering rarer elsewhere unavailable models albeit for a higher price. Now, I have to say that my hole doesn't stretch very far: the maximum diamater I have been able to insert (of a butt plug) has been almost exactly 2 inches, with a probability of spreading a teeny weeny further, however, I have not had a toy to test it yet. Based on this I'm trying to ascertain which toy would suit me well. Have to also bear in mind that I'll need to operate it with my two hands alone, which means it should stay deep and firm enough and allow an easy spreading and locking mechanism. Although my ...

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I had a vasectomy done about a month ago. Soon, I'll be getting tested to see if I'm free of sperm. Question for anyone that has had it done or their SO had it done. How better does it get? SO and I are pretty pumped about it. I think we may be over hyping it too much. We've been together for almost 20 years, 34M and 33F. I'd say, right now, we are at the best point of our sex life. Sure, when we started off, it was constant, but we were inexperienced goofballs. We communicate well and I think this is why its peaking right now. I guess I'm just excited for the fact, the moment doesnt have to halt for condom placement. Submitted January 04, 2020 at 11:39PM I had a vasectomy done about a month ago. Soon, I'll be getting tested to see if I'm free of sperm. Question for anyone that has had it done or their SO had it done.How better does it get? SO and I are pretty pumped about it. I think we may be over hyping it too much. We've been together for alm...

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My (22F) first "relationship" (friends with benefits) solely revolved around sex. When we made plans, we were 100% going to have sex. We didn't talk much. He didn't get to know me. I didn't get to know him. This relationship lasted over 3 years (with on and off periods). Now when I'm on my period and can't have sex or am not in the mood for sex, I feel worthless to my S/O. It's almost as though I have a hard time believing that someone could want to be with me for reasons other than sex. My current SO is definitely changing this view of mine. But I'm curious, does anyone else feel this way? What are some things you've done to change this view? Did you ever tell your new partners/SOs that you felt this way and how were you received? Genuinely curious. Submitted January 04, 2020 at 11:52PM My (22F) first "relationship" (friends with benefits) solely revolved around sex. When we made plans, we were 100% going to have sex. We didn...

Posted this but it got removed for some reason so few people saw it, thank you guys for all the related stories, i didn’t respond to every comment but I did read every comment :). This morning she came to my apartment having not talked to her since what happened. I could tell she was lowkey excited to see me, but we both acted like nothing happened, there was some obvious sexual tension. After I had been there for like 30 minutes, I told her I had to change because I had a doctors appointment soon. She walked into my room when I finished changing, looked me in the eyes and said that she loves me. I didn’t say anything when she went in to kiss me, but right before she was about to kiss me, I felt way too overwhelmed and told her I had to go. I felt so bad after I left, so as soon as I came back the first thing I did was kiss her, and then we had sex. again. It was f*cking amazing. I 100% am in love with her, thank you guys for making me realize :) Submitted January 04, 2020 at 11...

This debate arose during a reunion between a bunch of us and there were multiple different reasons for their answers. So, I thought I’d bring it to Reddit. Submitted January 05, 2020 at 12:01AM This debate arose during a reunion between a bunch of us and there were multiple different reasons for their answers. So, I thought I’d bring it to Reddit.

there's a guy that I like that I just recently discovered likes me back (woo), what are some subtle flirting moves to build tension/make him more interested? Looking for subtle things to build the tension like touching his back when I pass behind him, biting my lip when concentrating/in serious conversation, etc...) thanks! Submitted January 05, 2020 at 12:01AM there's a guy that I like that I just recently discovered likes me back (woo), what are some subtle flirting moves to build tension/make him more interested?Looking for subtle things to build the tension like touching his back when I pass behind him, biting my lip when concentrating/in serious conversation, etc...) thanks!

I get a few erotic massages every year and honestly it makes me feel amazing. It´s one of the most amazing things I have done. If you have the option try it. Submitted January 05, 2020 at 12:01AM I get a few erotic massages every year and honestly it makes me feel amazing. It´s one of the most amazing things I have done. If you have the option try it.

Sorry if this gets asked alot, I didn't see anything in the FAQ for the sub. The wife and I enjoy occasionally watching some porn, but I'd say a good 50% of the time the act of searching for a vid that both of us like is such a chore that it almost ruins the evening. On the other hand the times we do find a good vid it makes things really hot. I've tried searching on my own time for this stuff but I either suck at searching or there just really isn't any good couples oriented stuff out there. I'm not nearly as knowledgeable or familiar with online stuff as I should be. We managed to offload the kids tonight on her parents, so Id like to have a special night, and seeing as how we've been in a bit of a slump here lately I think that of we can find some good stuff and have a nice hot night that maybe we can spark things back up a bit. Any advice would be very much appreciated. I'm a big fan of blowjobby stuff and she really likes the DP/gangbang scene, in ca...

im a female that has discharge quite frequently, seemingly every day/every other day - ive always had it, its white & never has a smell or anything weird about it. whenever my boyfriend & i have sex/do anything sexual, he sees this & says im "creaming". do women actually cream, or is it just vaginal discharge?? i never feel any different when he says im creaming, & im 90% sure its just discharge, but i also dont wanna tell him otherwise because im also pretty certain it turns him on 🤷🏼‍♀️ am i creaming or just experiencing normal discharge, & what/how do i tell my boyfriend if its just discharge? Submitted January 05, 2020 at 12:16AM im a female that has discharge quite frequently, seemingly every day/every other day - ive always had it, its white & never has a smell or anything weird about it.whenever my boyfriend & i have sex/do anything sexual, he sees this & says im "creaming". do women actually cream, or is it just vag...

I’ve started getting prompts to try FB dating. It’s like they know I’ve semi-recently single even though I never changed my status. Have you tried Facebook dating? How’s the experience been? I’m mostly afraid of who I’d match with. FB seems much more personal than the other apps! Submitted January 04, 2020 at 11:47PM I’ve started getting prompts to try FB dating. It’s like they know I’ve semi-recently single even though I never changed my status.Have you tried Facebook dating? How’s the experience been? I’m mostly afraid of who I’d match with. FB seems much more personal than the other apps!

So I’m going to seem like a relic but when a guy you kind of know in real life comments on your Instagram photos, maybe twice, does that mean he’s insterested in me? He never “likes” the bikini or full mirror clothing shots I post but mostly car selfies. He commented on a birthday post I made and wished me many years of happiness....with some innocent emojis and exclamation points. I think he’s still in his upper 20s... I have no idea of how I strain flirting works... Submitted January 05, 2020 at 12:09AM So I’m going to seem like a relic but when a guy you kind of know in real life comments on your Instagram photos, maybe twice, does that mean he’s insterested in me? He never “likes” the bikini or full mirror clothing shots I post but mostly car selfies. He commented on a birthday post I made and wished me many years of happiness....with some innocent emojis and exclamation points. I think he’s still in his upper 20s... I have no idea of how I strain flirting works...

I'm very certain this is online dating's next big problem, and not enough people are talking about it. It's not really a new one, but it's one that's growing: It's basic, everyday people who aren't professional models or anything and don't even live in larger cities using dating apps to boost their Instagram followers and trying to obtain influencer status. Right now, I use Hinge and Bumble and have been noticing it along my search with profiles that often feature the person's Instagram handle in their profile. They aren't escorts, and they aren't fake profiles. Visit their Instagrams, and you notice they're normal people nearby who have public IG profiles, and every picture is of them working out at the gym, taking selfies, and posting thirst traps attached with a dozen hashtags. Today, one of them matched with me on Hinge and the only reason I engaged was because she had a full profile written with every indication that she was looki...