That's annoying. I'd be pissed if that happens to me or around me. Pretty interesting. Thanks and i hope you're ok! November 07, 2021 at 12:41AM

Feel free to wear them, don’t let aphobes stop you from being who you are. November 07, 2021 at 12:41AM

Lmao I love that there's literally people willing to clear this up but the people coming up with this cannot imagine actually talking to people to leaen about their experiences. No, better come up with whacky hypotheses that you don't ever try to falsify. That's how people leaen new things, right? November 07, 2021 at 12:39AM

I don't think it's gonna go bad because they do care about me but i'll still try to come up with a backup because issues November 07, 2021 at 12:37AM

Me, an aro/ace switch: :( November 07, 2021 at 12:34AM

Recently me (21M) and my girlfriend (20F) recently had a talk about how she wanted to take our sex life "Further". We have been dating for over 2 years now. First one year long distance, then we moved together for a year and are now back to long distance until summer when she moves back to me. Sex has been great, but we can only really knock ourselves out fully because of roomies and parents, she lives alone though. My "problem" is that i am very vanilla. I can do loads of positions aswell as face sitting and i feel comfortable when we do it. My girlfriend however started out very vanilla. Now after 2 years she does alot of stuff in bed now and recently said she wanted to maybe try something like bondage. I am generally an open person and could try this. However i dont feel anywhere in me that i really want to do it, but i will probably try it out for her sake and just to explore more. She also asked if there are any things that i have never tried that i want. The...

I love dirty talk. Last night, I hooked up with a suspecting new partner. There’s great chemistry and enthusiasm. He has a very small member so I’m not sure if “you’re so big/thick/deep” is really appropriate.. Any ideas on what I can say without referencing size? Submitted November 07, 2021 at 12:43AM I love dirty talk. Last night, I hooked up with a suspecting new partner. There’s great chemistry and enthusiasm. He has a very small member so I’m not sure if “you’re so big/thick/deep” is really appropriate.. Any ideas on what I can say without referencing size?

I (29M) used to have quite an unhealthy relationship with sex from my early 20s until about now. I've been in a couple relationships but everytime one of them ended, I would struggle with the break up and find comfort in casual sex with strangers. This eventually got out of hands as I would sleep with someone different pretty much every 3 days, it's what made me feel like I was in control of at least one aspect in my life as I would struggle with every other aspect in my life (work stress, smoking too much weed, issues with friends etc.). I found comfort in one night stands but would always feel even more emotionally unstable the morning after. I eventually realised I might have a sex addiction. 6 months ago I moved countries as I needed to change my environment to emotionally fix myself and it worked. The issue is that in those 6 months I met a couple people that I really liked but I couldn't bring myself to have sex with them, I block. I feel it would be much easier sle...

As title suggests. It's evidently not ED: I'm seeing someone new right now and I definitely made more progress than ever before (first oral (received), footjob, squirt etc.) but IDK if it's the act of putting on the condom, or the stress of penetration, but I always lose my erection "when it's time to do the deed". TBH it doesn't bother me that much, but if you had the same problem, how did you get over it? Being ace might have something to do with it, I mostly think it's stress + condom Submitted November 07, 2021 at 12:47AM As title suggests. It's evidently not ED: I'm seeing someone new right now and I definitely made more progress than ever before (first oral (received), footjob, squirt etc.) but IDK if it's the act of putting on the condom, or the stress of penetration, but I always lose my erection "when it's time to do the deed".TBH it doesn't bother me that much, but if you had the same problem, how did yo...

I finally get used to having certain behind closed doors sex bc reddit is stupid and I was flirty afterwards to get told I'm an idiot. Submitted November 07, 2021 at 12:56AM I finally get used to having certain behind closed doors sex bc reddit is stupid and I was flirty afterwards to get told I'm an idiot.

Two weeks ago, I asked my coworker's number as I had interest in her.. she said she's seeing someone but not in a relationship and that it goes toward the direction of a relationship.... but she wanted to staty in touch with me.. one week later I still didn't get her number. So I met her again on the last day @work(as I was quitting) and expressed my feelings for her.... she didn't want to go out on a date with me(fine by me as I liked her as a person and wanted to stay in touch with her) later she said that she was so busy that she forgot to give me her number and at the end she gave me her number... so I waited one week and texted her on her birthday today.. it's been more than 12 hours, she didn't respond... how should I interpret this? Thx for answers... Am I wasting my time or overthinking? Atleast a Thanks from her would have been suffice...... Submitted November 06, 2021 at 11:56PM Two weeks ago, I asked my coworker's number as I had interest i...

I [23m] want to hear your opinion on what kind of person you think I am and how I could improve my dating scene. So never been in serious relationship, professionally getting befriended and rejected since 2012. Spent majority of my time studying and doing my own projects, alone. Still live with parents because they are willing to support me thru my university days (started masters degree) and to be honest I don’t see anything wrong with that. After graduation I plan to move to Nederlands, to hopefully work as a GA plane mechanic. In my “lonely” days I managed to get PPL, learn to play trumpet professionally and work on all types of planes, as well as do a lot of construction type works, and electronics repair. Currently unemployed, with my dad help, trying to start our own business. I think that everything will come as time goes by, and it’s just my time to find someone haven’t come yet. But due to this COVID situation life happens mostly at home, and a lot of parasite things come to...

I’ve been talking to this guy from Germany that I met at vacation. We hung out and had a lot of fun for like 5-6 days. We’ve ever since kept talking, to the point that we want to meet up in Berlin (I am from Sweden). The issue is he keeps me on read all the time, he doesn’t really talk to me nor makes any effort to reply sometimes but when we talk about meeting up he’s all for it? He’s confusing me so much. I don’t know if he likes me or not? Or is he just playing mind games with me? :( Submitted November 07, 2021 at 12:09AM I’ve been talking to this guy from Germany that I met at vacation. We hung out and had a lot of fun for like 5-6 days. We’ve ever since kept talking, to the point that we want to meet up in Berlin (I am from Sweden). The issue is he keeps me on read all the time, he doesn’t really talk to me nor makes any effort to reply sometimes but when we talk about meeting up he’s all for it? He’s confusing me so much. I don’t know if he likes me or not? Or is he just p...

uhhh hi,, I'll just get straight to the point because there's alot to read So i met this guy from Belgium. We met in class and he peaked my interest so i asked him if he wants to be friends. We went to a café the next day to get to know each other and it went pretty well, i accidentally hit my shirts strap off from my body while talking and flailing my hands around he immediately looked away while i fixed it (ig he did it to be respectful and not see my boobs lol) about a week and a half later we had a sleepover at his place where we first played very agressive uno (swearing, joking, pushing around, play fighting etc.) He even bit me at some point (lightly in a joking way) as we grew more comfortable and the night was approaching we decided to watch movies and i threw him on his couch and asked if it's alright to cuddle and he seemed excited to do it, so we cuddled for hours, had tickle and poke fights and laughed alot. He even wrapped his legs and hands around me at one ...

So I matched with some older women in my area and I will likely move to Utah or Wisconosin at least before end of the year. We matched on hinge and I would like to meet them and same time excited about moving out of state what should I do? Submitted November 07, 2021 at 12:16AM So I matched with some older women in my area and I will likely move to Utah or Wisconosin at least before end of the year. We matched on hinge and I would like to meet them and same time excited about moving out of state what should I do?

Me (M51) and wife (F46) are slowly building up a repertoire of BDSM and power play dynamics. I’m the sub she’s the Dom. I’m not so much into pain (a little bit) but more about dominance and letting her be in charge, bondage, dirty talk, pegging and such. We’re new and need ideas about what to do. Are any out there that have been in the same place and can offer up ideas? Submitted November 06, 2021 at 11:12PM Me (M51) and wife (F46) are slowly building up a repertoire of BDSM and power play dynamics. I’m the sub she’s the Dom.I’m not so much into pain (a little bit) but more about dominance and letting her be in charge, bondage, dirty talk, pegging and such.We’re new and need ideas about what to do.Are any out there that have been in the same place and can offer up ideas?

Sometimes I find myself fantasizing about a woman who I don't particularly find attractive or interested in, but just play around with some ideas in my mind. Would women here say this is common for them, or is this more related to my gender or self? Submitted November 06, 2021 at 11:18PM Sometimes I find myself fantasizing about a woman who I don't particularly find attractive or interested in, but just play around with some ideas in my mind.Would women here say this is common for them, or is this more related to my gender or self?

I’ve lost a lot of weight, and hate the way my body looks. During sex, I always wear a shirt. Occasionally, if the guy wants boobs, I will take off my bra and lower my shirt. It’s definitely turned some guys off, but not all. Ladies: anyone wear tops during sex, and refuse to take them off? Men: do tops during sex turn you off, or can you look past it, and enjoy the sex? Submitted November 06, 2021 at 11:24PM I’ve lost a lot of weight, and hate the way my body looks. During sex, I always wear a shirt. Occasionally, if the guy wants boobs, I will take off my bra and lower my shirt. It’s definitely turned some guys off, but not all.Ladies: anyone wear tops during sex, and refuse to take them off?Men: do tops during sex turn you off, or can you look past it, and enjoy the sex?

I have a pretty good idea how to clean down there already. But some extra tips would still be helpful. I have a big fear of my sexual partner finding I smell bad. I take care very good care of my hygiene but still have my worries. Submitted November 06, 2021 at 11:28PM I have a pretty good idea how to clean down there already. But some extra tips would still be helpful.I have a big fear of my sexual partner finding I smell bad. I take care very good care of my hygiene but still have my worries.

So basically, there’s a character in a fantasy show I really like who is a werewolf and I find it really hot. Not even the transformation aspect necessarily but mostly when he was like half-man half-wolf, the pointy teeth and yellow eyes… how he would growl and whimper and nip like an animal. I’ve always known I find pointy canine teeth VERY attractive but this adds a whole new layer. I have no idea how to introduce this into the bedroom but I definitely like it, especially the whimpering, seeing a manly man showing vulnerability while also being strong and animalistic….. 🤭🤤🤐 would any guys want to do this with a girl? I would 100% wear a little shepherdess costume if a wolf man wanted to chase n devour me 🐑 huff pufffffff Submitted November 06, 2021 at 11:31PM So basically, there’s a character in a fantasy show I really like who is a werewolf and I find it really hot. Not even the transformation aspect necessarily but mostly when he was like half-man half-wolf, the pointy t...