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Is it okay to ask your crush if she wants to start dating you on your first "date"

So lemme explain this real quick. I asked my crush out if she wants to go see a movie and she said yes. She has also told me several times that she likes my personality and that im really kind to her and stuff. And after we go out of the cinema and get some food i want to ask her if she wants to start dating with me. I am also kinda scared of being rejected. This is also our first time going out (only us 2 without any friends or classmates). Please tell me if its right to ask her on our first "date" or sometime later. Submitted December 31, 2019 at 12:17AM So lemme explain this real quick. I asked my crush out if she wants to go see a movie and she said yes. She has also told me several times that she likes my personality and that im really kind to her and stuff. And after we go out of the cinema and get some food i want to ask her if she wants to start dating with me. I am also kinda scared of being rejected. This is also our first time going out (only us 2 without an

Today’s Lesson

Stop being always available to people who are just there for you when it’s convenient for them. Submitted December 31, 2019 at 12:22AM Stop being always available to people who are just there for you when it’s convenient for them.

Is this clear flirting?

I went to a wedding yesterday of my cousin and a women from the other side I caught looking at me. Then we went to a house of the father in laws and there I noticed when she spoke I listened in a crowd and she kept looking at 1-2 people and then looking at me. Then after she was behind me and she came along at what we were looking at, held my arm leaned over and her head came on my shoulder briefly. I was going to ask for her number but then someone asked me to leave with them abruptly. To me that last bit was a clear intent, women don’t do that unwillingly. Thoughts? I am going to find a way to contact her and talk to her I heard she is 18f and I’m 25m. Submitted December 31, 2019 at 12:22AM I went to a wedding yesterday of my cousin and a women from the other side I caught looking at me.Then we went to a house of the father in laws and there I noticed when she spoke I listened in a crowd and she kept looking at 1-2 people and then looking at me.Then after she was behind

Long post: Need help on being motivated to continue dating/searching for a partner.

Long story short, I'm finding it difficult to go out of my way to try to use dating apps or do things that may involve romantic interest/events, or try to branch out. I just lack the motivation these days. Random facts about me that may aid you in giving me tips: I have been warned that Reddit may not be the best place to be upfront about things without being heavily judged, but I feel stranded with nowhere else to look for advice. Please try not to make presumptions about me and be friendly/well mannered. Physical aspects: Male, low mid-20s, above-average looking, did some modeling too (on the side, not my career), a bit over 6 feet tall. Asian. A bit on the thinner build, not "skinny" by any means. Objectively I believe I am decently attractive. I'm no Hollywood star of course, but I'm definitely not very unattractive either. Decently successful for my age , which has been a variable contributing to my shrinking motivation to date because of time const

Should I do it?

What do you think I should do? This is my first post so bear with me pls. I'm 17 and I'm dating for the first time. She's really adorable and supports me and I don't have nothing bad to say out about her We will be dating for 1 year in February and our relationship is pretty great We are in the same class and we are together every day because of that. I'm writing this because sometimes I get this feeling that I shouldn't be dating. I'm on holidays and away from home. I've come to realise that there is some limits when interacting with other people that you have to be cautious when you are in a relationship and I feel like I'm too young for that. Like, in my age is a bit suffocating at times being in a relationship and maybe I if I was single I would be able to enjoy my young years. I'm don't know if I want to break up with her, but I know that I can't do it in person cause I don't want to see her cry or hurt. But I don't want t

Love

"Hey, we've been talking for a while. And i kinda like you. We should date maybe?" She said. Random woman who he had been talking to. Random woman to fill the void. A big gap, no amount of success or happiness could fill. Each day was same, empty, grey and silent. The colours that once painted this world vivid had all disappeared, wiped off with his own hands, destroyed by his own demise, destroyed by his inabity to act. There when the void was about to filled, when another tried upon his heart, he realised, that love is present, always and throughout him. He muttered the words of love, words of sacrifice," I shall love in perpetuity.i shall love till i forget what love is not. I dont need to let go. For love stays in my heart, not in my mouth or in the state of my being. Let me be alive or dead, walking or immobile, happy or unhappy, i will love. And when her time comes, let her marry a man who keeps her happy, let her live a satisfied life. Let her walk the path h

30 going on to.......

I'm 30 years old/male been in 2 long term relationships. Had to breakup with one due to the fact I found out she was cheating on me and I don't give cheaters a second chance. The second one broke up with me because she felt that I deserved better and tried everything from therapy and to talking about the issues. I tried so hard to want her to stay but she left. Thus has been 1 year ago. I met my exs from old jobs. I like chatting and joking around and having intellectual conversations. I have never done internet dating because for one I don't know who is on the other side and two I enjoy face to face interaction instead of texting. What should I do? I am ready to move on but i do not know where to start. Thanks Submitted December 31, 2019 at 12:09AM I'm 30 years old/male been in 2 long term relationships. Had to breakup with one due to the fact I found out she was cheating on me and I don't give cheaters a second chance. The second one broke up with me becau

Jumped the gun on this one buddy

https://twitter.com/no9mi/status/1207680081809805313?s=21 Submitted December 30, 2019 at 11:39PM https://twitter.com/no9mi/status/1207680081809805313?s=21

"Confess to this nice guy..before it's too late"

https://ift.tt/39kc2x0 Submitted December 30, 2019 at 11:40PM https://ift.tt/39kc2x0

There are nice guys in the comment section as well.

https://ift.tt/2QwlDZ7 Submitted December 30, 2019 at 11:48PM https://ift.tt/2QwlDZ7

So close. I was nearly blessed with the knowledge of all the ways I am going wrong trying to find a decent man, but alas, the Nice Guy of Instagram did not have the time to invest to wisen me

https://ift.tt/2MGXYEg Submitted December 31, 2019 at 12:09AM https://ift.tt/2MGXYEg

saw this on snapchat, dont even know what to start with....

https://ift.tt/2QbRuPZ Submitted December 31, 2019 at 12:10AM https://ift.tt/2QbRuPZ

/u/SafetyHoodie on So what are your thoughts on this, I don’t know why the post was removed from r/lgbt and r/bisexual but anyways what’s y’all perspective

Correct. Thank you. December 31, 2019 at 12:14AM

/u/SafetyHoodie on So what are your thoughts on this, I don’t know why the post was removed from r/lgbt and r/bisexual but anyways what’s y’all perspective

Nope because it's riddled with terf logic. You can be sexually/romantically attracted to women/women aligned people, while being romantically/sexually attracted to two or more genders(which does not include men). What's so hard about this? Get this terf, bi/pan/lesbian-phobic shit out of here and do some research please. December 31, 2019 at 12:09AM

/u/SchemingPnda on Coming out to you guys as nobody is listening! 🖤💜

Im so happy for you and that you finally feel comfortable for being you!! I understand it can be hard coming to terms with being ace (lord knows I still am) but youre never alone and everyone here and on other ace forums are here for you whenever you need. As for friendships Im so sorry to hear that some of your friends are unaccepting of you but it seems like you know who you are and are sticking to your feelings and beliefs its inspiring, but if you feel alone and want to meet other like minded people I suggest giving the AVEN forums a try They have a section where people from all around the globe organise meet ups with other aces and Im sure that there are more aces than you think nearby who will understand and accept you. Or there are also ace dating apps like AceApp which help aces find romantic or platonic relationships. Just remember to keep being you!! ♠️ December 31, 2019 at 12:08AM

/u/ArrayToGo on Got some new stickers! Slowly coming out through my stuff

Cat Mint Studios on Etsy. They have loads of stickers, and the cat pride ones includes an aromantic one as well! They're currently closed for the holidays, though. December 31, 2019 at 12:05AM

/u/Puzzlehead222 on So what are your thoughts on this, I don’t know why the post was removed from r/lgbt and r/bisexual but anyways what’s y’all perspective

Bi lesbians can’t exist because bisexuality and lesbianism and two different sexualities. Bisexuality refers to a person being attracted to two different genders, usually referencing the binary but it doesn’t have to. A bisexual person can be of any gender. However, lesbian refers to a cis gender woman being attracted to other cis gender or people she perceived as other cis gender women. Does this not make sense? December 31, 2019 at 12:01AM

/u/Alice-789 on So what are your thoughts on this, I don’t know why the post was removed from r/lgbt and r/bisexual but anyways what’s y’all perspective

bi lesbian can refer to bisexual lesromantic or biromantic lesbian December 30, 2019 at 11:59PM

/u/akanix42 on Please help me understand if I experience sexual and romantic attraction

OMG thank you! I feel that idemromantic (a subcategory of quoiromantic) fits me perfectly. December 30, 2019 at 11:58PM

/u/Puzzlehead222 on So what are your thoughts on this, I don’t know why the post was removed from r/lgbt and r/bisexual but anyways what’s y’all perspective

It’s not valid that literally doesn’t make sense. December 30, 2019 at 11:58PM

/u/SafetyHoodie on So what are your thoughts on this, I don’t know why the post was removed from r/lgbt and r/bisexual but anyways what’s y’all perspective

It's in the last paragrahph. I'm not debating this though. I explained in my comment to op. Bi lesbians exist. Not up for debate and that's exactly what op tried to do. December 30, 2019 at 11:56PM

/u/TheUltimate00 on Coming out twice

Yeah, you know I never thought about it but it's someone else's fault for asking me what the ring is for, it's not something that'd get an "OmG wHy ArE yOu PrEaChInG yOuR sExUaLiTy AaAaAaAhHhHhH" December 30, 2019 at 11:49PM

/u/Alice-789 on So what are your thoughts on this, I don’t know why the post was removed from r/lgbt and r/bisexual but anyways what’s y’all perspective

I now again consider the term bi lesbian valid December 30, 2019 at 11:48PM