I watched a video on youtube about something called the "sexual imprint". Basically the video talked about how women can be imprinted by a specific type of man and lust for that type of man regardless of who she is with in the future. Usually this happens in a few cases; 1) The first 3 men she's slept with. So the first 3 men to make her orgasm or give her a really good sexual experience will be the type of guys she will naturally be attracted to for the rest of her life. If they were all 6'4, slim build guys, she will lust for those kind of guys her entire life. 2) The man is the father of her child. If she let a man impregnate her, she basically finds the man of such high value that she believed he was worth being her mate for life. So the idea is, for example. If I date or marry a woman, however I don't match her sexual imprint, she will most likely cheat on me with the men she wants sexually. Or she will think about other men that she sexually desires w...

So I (M25) have been traveling for work for the past 3 years. My Gf(F25) of 8 years and I are finally going to be moving in together. We have been able to see one another and be intimate every now and again, but it’s always been toned down sex. Mainly because I would either be staying with family or living with a roommate, but recently we have started getting kinkier, choking, deep throating etc. We are excited to start a new chapter in our lives but also so ready to explore this new sexual side of ours! Any advice to give a newly reunited couple ? Submitted January 28, 2020 at 12:20AM So I (M25) have been traveling for work for the past 3 years. My Gf(F25) of 8 years and I are finally going to be moving in together. We have been able to see one another and be intimate every now and again, but it’s always been toned down sex. Mainly because I would either be staying with family or living with a roommate, but recently we have started getting kinkier, choking, deep throating etc. ...

Alright so me and this dude I met on an app about a month ago hooked up for the first time last weekend. It was awesome. Some of the best sex I’ve ever had. However, he is HUGE. It hurts. I don’t know how these girls in porn do it. We had 5 seshes (3 the first night and 2 the morning after) and I felt like it could have been so much better than it was if it wasn’t hurting. He’s just so big that it literally feels like I’m being ripped open and it also makes me feel like I have to pee for some reason. I want to enjoy this to it’s fullest potential but I’m having major big dick problems. I’m hoping that the more we do it the more my vagina will stretch to accommodate him? I don’t even know if that’s how it works. Any suggestions out there? Submitted January 28, 2020 at 12:22AM Alright so me and this dude I met on an app about a month ago hooked up for the first time last weekend. It was awesome. Some of the best sex I’ve ever had. However, he is HUGE. It hurts. I don’t know how th...

Hey reddit so there is this guy i hook up with from time to time and i recently asked him about what he likes in bed and he mentioned that he liked his ass ate, now i want to do that to him but i have never before and i need advice and tricks or anything i should know. Submitted January 28, 2020 at 12:24AM Hey reddit so there is this guy i hook up with from time to time and i recently asked him about what he likes in bed and he mentioned that he liked his ass ate, now i want to do that to him but i have never before and i need advice and tricks or anything i should know.

Weve been together 8 years I've been a stay at home mom almost three and I'm incredibly desperate to have some control over my life and to get out of the house. I'm currently in driving school but I wanted to get a job while I was in driving school and crash with my sister in law who lives in the city on weekends so I could work and have money for insurance and stuff on my car. Is it unreasonable to ask him to watch baby on weekends until I get my licence and then once I get it to watch our son when I work? Our son can fall asleep for him but it's difficult and he really doesn't want to have to put him to sleep but as someone who lives in the country and doesnt work I feel like I'm in a cage going crazy. Tldr;is it reasonable to ask my husband to keep our son on weekends so I can work and crash on my sister in laws couch since it's in another town Edit to add; I totally planned on meal prepping and getting everything set up for them so all he would have t...

Okay. So basically, it's a little complicated. 3.5 years ago I (22 F) met my best friend (22 M) at college. We met during my last semester in student government. I was the student treasurer and he was the student vice president. We were both 3.9/4 GPA students, took our student positions seriously. Outside of that we had differences but that made things interesting and our personalities just clicked. Within weeks of meeting we were hanging out at work and would plan at least 1 or two fun things to do a week together. After the semester when I graduated we both knew we wanted to go to the same school and we were planning on moving in together. But about a month latter his boyfriend of only two months told him he either had to move across the country with him or they would breakup. My bestie decided to move. I was devastated but I tried to not let him know that and just support him. I didn't like his boyfriend, but several conversations showed he wasnt going to give up so I gav...

This story is pretty wildly long but after reading this page for years, i thought it might be a great place to turn to. a few months ago, i (25F) realized that i had always loved my best friend(25M). I accidentally told him how i felt while we were both in relationships and he rejected me. the time following that for me was a lot of longing and obsessing over being with him while also processing the loss of my ex. about a month after i let my feelings out, he broke up with his gf. ((both relationships ending were pretty separate from our relationship and had very valid reasonings)) a week ago that he has been in love with me since the first time he saw me when I was 18 and he was 19. he said it was one of those crazy "when you know, you know" moments. he dreamt about me that night and also wrote a song/ album about all of this longing. he explained to me that he tried to connect our dots since the moment he saw me. spoiler alert, he did eventually find a way to meet me an...

Xpost from relationship_advice. We met on Tinder. We've only been together for 3 months and she's fun to be around and I really like her, but there are some comments she's made that have kind of thrown me off. On our first date, we were walking around town and she asked if I wanted to stop for bubble tea, and I said sure but that I didn't know what it was. She seemed pretty surprised and asked me how on earth I had never heard of boba. There some are other things that she's wanted to do that I'd also never heard of- we got hot pot for dinner once and it was really good! I ordered a coke and put lots of soy sauce on everything, and she kinda raised her eyebrows when I did this but didn't say anything. Another thing was when we got Chinese food at a restaurant and she told me it was "family style" and I said I didn't know what that meant she asked me, "dude are you serious right now?" We were talking about our favorite restaurants and...

I met this girl in college , she was nice, smart and very fun, we started to be very good friends. Since i was quite good in some subjects i helped my friends studying, i have never said no to anybody who asked me for help, and she would ask me for help very often before the exams. We were studying mainly alone when the lessons ended in college, and during this time i got to know her better. Long story short, very similar background to mine, never got a lot of friends, bullied at school and also quite insecure. After some months we became best friends and i am beginning to fell in love with her. Now she had a boyfriend at the time who was very abusive, he had all of her passwords, never allowed her to go out with anybody or even texing anybody. At that point we were very attached, i knew her situation and i helped her when she was at the lowest, during the rest of the year she always asked me to sit next to her in class, on the bus, asking me to study with her and all that kind of stu...

My ex and I were together for about a year when we concluded that it was better for us to be friends. One of the reasons were our attitudes towards work and our current jobs. He's a civil servant who can go home at 5pm. I work in events so my hours are all over the place (incl weekends). Our recurring argument was me getting called in last-minute for upcoming events (for which I'm the lead), having to cancel, him saying I don't value him as a person/his time/efforts, etc, me explaining that there is nobody to fill in my shoes etc. Another point of contention was we were in a LDR and he refused to come see me (because he "didn't like" my apartment). I actually counted and he came to see me a total of 4 times. I went to his about 50 times. He accepted that he should have done better after we broke up. On the other hand, we are very aligned politically, intellectually, and socially and this is what made us attracted to each other. However, different lifestyl...

We’ve been dating since last August. We fell in love very quickly and both make each other very happy. Over the weekend, I was spending some time with his mum and the topic of past relationships came up, she expressed to me how grateful she was that I had met her son and how she hasn’t seen him this happy in an extremely long time. Before me, my boyfriend had two serious but very tumultuous relationships. Both girlfriends treated him very poorly and caused him a lot of emotional pain - he suffered from very bad depression/anxiety. When we first met, he was very open and honest about his troubles - he told me that he feared telling me would cause me to run, but hiding it from me would only cause larger problems in the future. I assured him that it was nothing to be ashamed of and that I wanted to try and make it work, despite his personal battles. We continued seeing each other and I begun to see a difference in him - he thanked me endlessly for making him feel so good about himself a...

I've been with my boyfriend for around 7 months and we've been best friends for just over 2 years. He is a driven, hardworking, kind, generous man, great company, and encourages me to be my best. Some background on our relationship, we met via OLD and after our first date, met up again and he told me that he wasn't ready to date and just wanted to be friends (I took this to mean 'didn't feel the spark'). That was fine with me - I liked his company and we were both at a point of wanting to do lots of social things and enjoy life, after both coming out of a short period of difficulty in our lives. We quickly became very close and spoke every day, meeting up many times a week, doing different activities.  This progressed into what you could call a FWB on/off situation for around 1.5 years, we both dated others at several points throughout this period. Parts of this time were very confusing and hurtful to me, as I'd developed feelings. I learnt about attachmen...

My [25m] fiance [24f] and I just broke up a few days ago after nearly 3 years because of my family, and I'm having difficulties figuring out who's in the wrong here. ​ So I grew up in a large family between my dad+3 kids (including me) and my step mom+2 kids+extended family. Growing up, I got into the habit of being a wallflower, my parents drank a lot during the weekends, I got yelled at a few times really badly, and I was never really an equal to my step siblings in my step mom's eyes (my blood siblings are ~10y older than me and step siblings are around my age). Because of that being predisposed to it, I've had depression since I was 14 and didn't feel like I could tell my family until two years ago when I started getting treatment. Otherwise, I felt it was a rather normal childhood, but with a large household. ​ Eventually, I met my ex-fiance, and she met my family. However, it did not go well, and she was offended by my grandmother asking some judgmental q...

Ugh that game and I do not go along. The only part I have vague interest is the kill part, but mostly it's myself I want to (metaphorically) kill for letting myself get looped into playing it. January 28, 2020 at 12:15AM

hey i play piano hmu if you're up for this :p January 28, 2020 at 12:15AM

Sorry but I had to share my immediate association when I read this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=toyLQzd8HrY January 28, 2020 at 12:13AM

Yay for Brazil! Hopefully the asexuals of Brazil feel more pride, the society has more awareness and that those not realizing their asexuality come closer to finding themselves! January 28, 2020 at 12:11AM

I just imagined how hugging a life-size cabbage would be January 28, 2020 at 12:04AM

Wait a moment, that means gay couples can't have sex. You fuck with gay, you fuck with me... I I don't take any fuck. January 28, 2020 at 12:03AM

And pedophile unmarried preachers, apparently. January 28, 2020 at 12:02AM

That reply screams “Idgaf” and I love it. January 28, 2020 at 12:00AM

Even if they don't accept you immediately, it's better to come out so that they have as much time as possible to accept it. It also helps you by not keeping a stressor on your shoulders. As for the ace ring, is there a friend that would support you? If sob you can ask to send it to their house and you can pick it up at some point. Many people make their ring so it's not unusual to have a painted or hand-made ring. It makes it more special for some people. If you want, I can send you link for a ring that expresses ace and lesbian (I'm gay aroace), if you find a way to get one discreetly. January 27, 2020 at 11:58PM

Aunt depressed due to divorce Implying you'll be sad if you don't get into a relationship. Not sure if I see the logic here. If anything, you would think it's the opposite, where you'd be insulating yourself from being hurt like that. January 27, 2020 at 11:49PM