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Do y’all think this meant anything?

Today, I was training at the community center. After 4 hours, I was laying on the ground and this girl from my school walks over, stands over me, and asks “Down for the count, huh?” and then stepped over me and walked away. What do y’all thinks meant? Submitted March 18, 2022 at 04:20AM Today, I was training at the community center. After 4 hours, I was laying on the ground and this girl from my school walks over, stands over me, and asks “Down for the count, huh?” and then stepped over me and walked away. What do y’all thinks meant?

Help please

Soo there’s this girl that works at a dispensary I go to and she has been my tender a couple of times and we’ve had small conversations here and there, last night I decided to ask for her number… so I go into the store and I’m waiting in line, I look up from being on my phone and she’s looking at me and smiles at me I smile back and this rush of anxiety hit me, my hands started shaking, and I started to overthink everything, so she calls me to her register everything went normal but I just couldn’t ask for her number when I would think about asking her the anxiety would get worse. There was a lot of people in there too so that made the anxiety worse. She speaks a different language that I also speak idk if it’s weird to ask for her number in that language, I feel like it would be easier and less stressful. Submitted March 18, 2022 at 04:21AM Soo there’s this girl that works at a dispensary I go to and she has been my tender a couple of times and we’ve had small conversations her...

I hope this is the right place for this… (long post)

I met a girl 17 years ago… when we started talking (like every night on the phone) she was 18 and I was 25. We became great friends and grew very close, but because of the situation I had to scale back the contact and she did not like that. A few months later we started talking again and it dwindled because she went off to college. Over the years we would keep in contact and see each other when she came home. She then moved away again for her master’s degree and eventually landed in NYC. I would visit periodically (I’m originally from there - lived in FL for a long time) and we would go to dinner, catch a show, etc. Our friendship never blossomed passed that, although each time we saw each other the connection grew stronger. Fast forward to December 2017… by this time I moved to Texas and she was bouncing between our home area and NYC. When we were both in FL we would always set some time aside for each other, usually dinner and we would spend hours together. Well this dinner was ju...

Is he into me or just being nice?

I’ve been working at a company for about 6 months. It’s a seasonal position and my last day is next Friday. I’ve noticed a very handsome man that works in the warehouse area and I work in the office. When we see each other it’s always just a simple hello or good morning. We had a short conversation through the company’s chat system a couple of weeks ago and literally that’s the most interaction we’ve had. But today when I logged in I had a missed message from him that said “We barely met and you’re already leaving :(“ I wasn’t sure how to take it, if he was just being nice or might be interested. Any advice on this? I would definitely like to get to know him more especially since we won’t be working together anymore. Submitted March 19, 2022 at 12:14AM I’ve been working at a company for about 6 months. It’s a seasonal position and my last day is next Friday. I’ve noticed a very handsome man that works in the warehouse area and I work in the office. When we see each other it’s...

I hate dating apps with a passion. Any advice on how to find potential partners in real life?

I’ve tried Tinder, Hinge, OkCupid and I’ve come to the conclusion that dating apps are not for me. The entire process just feels inorganic and frustrating to deal with. The conversations feel forced, there’s barely any level of consistency with these men, and my experiences consist of “great on paper, but not attractive irl” syndrome, where their profile is full of check marks but when I meet in person, I’m just not feeling them. I just want to try dating men irl now as meeting them in person as opposed to website feels more genuine and just makes more sense imo. So please give any tips or advice that you can offer. Submitted March 19, 2022 at 12:16AM I’ve tried Tinder, Hinge, OkCupid and I’ve come to the conclusion that dating apps are not for me. The entire process just feels inorganic and frustrating to deal with. The conversations feel forced, there’s barely any level of consistency with these men, and my experiences consist of “great on paper, but not attractive irl” synd...

Is it normal for a guy to get mad when I tell him I don’t want flowers?

We’re not dating anymore, but I want to ask this question for when I date other guys in the future. This guy and I were not official only dated a month, but from my side I thought it was going to be there. So one night we were cuddling and talking, and I was talking about how I didn’t know what Marigolds were. The conversation then led to me saying “Just for future reference, don’t buy me flowers as I don’t know really how to take care of them”. He got very mad at me, and told me “I wasn’t gonna buy them for you in the first place” in a very harsh tone which made me almost cry. He ended things with me a week after that. I’m pretty inexperienced with dating, him being my first in a lot of things. That scenario has been making me wonder for months since it happened, should I tell a guy about my preferences in flowers before or after we officially begin dating? Did I do something wrong by telling him that? Is it normal for a guy to get mad over something like that? Submitted March 19...

/u/Brilliant-Papaya-820 on Being an asexual on omegle is fun 😂 (original language is German btw)

I think discussing psychology mental disorders is pretty fun March 18, 2022 at 11:32PM

/u/TShara_Q on Being an asexual on omegle is fun 😂 (original language is German btw)

Well, that sounds like a lovely time to me... March 18, 2022 at 11:30PM