not a throwaway because i’m just not capable of caring right now. i’m so numb from depression that the only thing currently supplying me with serotonin is my hitachi right now. i’ve had 10-15 orgasms today. i never thought i would use masturbation like this. magic wand vibrators are INSANE. Submitted August 20, 2019 at 11:59PM not a throwaway because i’m just not capable of caring right now. i’m so numb from depression that the only thing currently supplying me with serotonin is my hitachi right now. i’ve had 10-15 orgasms today.i never thought i would use masturbation like this. magic wand vibrators are INSANE.

19 F I’m a Virgin and me and my boyfriend have been getting handsy and we were making out and he said what are the chances you will give me head and I had to play it off as being hard to get because I have never given head before and never touched a dick any advice I am very lost Submitted August 21, 2019 at 12:01AM 19 F I’m a Virgin and me and my boyfriend have been getting handsy and we were making out and he said what are the chances you will give me head and I had to play it off as being hard to get because I have never given head before and never touched a dick any advice I am very lost

So im 32 now, and i think last night my gf and i (4 years together) had the best sex we ever had. What we did differently is during sex i asked her to tell me what she was fantasizing about, and that opened up to her talking about having another girl in bed and what she would do and what she would want me to do to her. At one point i asked her to masturbate with her dildo for me (Which i have never seen her do) and i jerked off and played with her tits while she did it. I know this is maybe common for other people but its new for us, we were usually pretty vanilla. Also we talked about other of our fantasies and i think we will try some of them soon. Submitted August 21, 2019 at 12:01AM So im 32 now, and i think last night my gf and i (4 years together) had the best sex we ever had. What we did differently is during sex i asked her to tell me what she was fantasizing about, and that opened up to her talking about having another girl in bed and what she would do and what she woul...

So my girlfriend has developed a flirting/sexual relationship with a co worker(female). Being a male I have no problem with girl on girl action. I actually thought since she is going to be fucking a girl she would want to include me in this. Like letting me participate in a threesome or watch them play around. I know the other girl and she is open to trying a threesome ( “ not opposed” ) Turns out my girlfriend for 4 years doesn’t want me to have any part of the relationship. Is this weird? I love my girlfriend and I feel as I’m just going to be a side piece. 4 years compared to a girl she just met... I should always come first Submitted August 21, 2019 at 12:02AM So my girlfriend has developed a flirting/sexual relationship with a co worker(female). Being a male I have no problem with girl on girl action.I actually thought since she is going to be fucking a girl she would want to include me in this. Like letting me participate in a threesome or watch them play around.I kno...

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So I (26F) am in a long distance relationship with an amazing guy (41M). We clicked on almost every level right from the start, and have a beautiful energy connection. Communication isn’t the best via technology options, but in person and through phone calls we talk nonstop. I’ve pretty much have gotten over the lack of texting, and am learning how to break the habit and focus on better myself and what I do in my free time. Now I’m a very sexual person, always have been. Him, he doesn’t seem to have as high of a sex drive, but we still have incredibly stimulating sex. Now onto my struggle. I used to take photos of myself and have professional bedroom photos done. Loved the way it made me feel and the response to them from others. Obviously I don’t send those to anyone else anymore, just my man. But his responses are so lame. Simple “hot” “you look pretty” kinda responses. Nothing drawn out, nothing else to follow up, no specific comments at all. It usually makes me feel rejected in a...

For the first several years of my life, my father molested, raped, and beat me. Then, when I went to foster care for the next few years, I experienced more sexual assault. Then for most of my teens, I was promiscuous or took up offers from certain older folks to let them do stuff to me for money or just because I was depressed, etc. Now, as an Adult, my sexual tastes have become odd and not common at all, so it's hard to have them fulfilled. I'm just frustrated and upset I guess. Thanks for letting me vent this little bit. Submitted August 21, 2019 at 12:20AM For the first several years of my life, my father molested, raped, and beat me. Then, when I went to foster care for the next few years, I experienced more sexual assault. Then for most of my teens, I was promiscuous or took up offers from certain older folks to let them do stuff to me for money or just because I was depressed, etc.Now, as an Adult, my sexual tastes have become odd and not common at all, so it...

Heya, thanks for taking the time to read this. This is probably the most minor thing in the world right now but it's really getting me. I'm 27, M. The last two days I tried to have sex with my girlfriend (whom I love very much and is very dear to me) I couldn't maintain an erection. Rather, the first day I couldn't and then today I couldn't shake it out of my head that it was going to happen again and it happened again. Both nights I made sure she came because I am not a gargoyle and I get immense full body pleasure from seeing her finish. Possible stressors causing this: I start a new job next week that I am nervous about. I am supposed to meet her parents for the first time soon. I did not get a lot of sleep Saturday, Sunday, and Monday night. Indications it is not physical and just me being a putz: I jerked off today no fuss no muss. I haven't done that in about a week because I have been too busy. Could not jerking off make me not get hard? Is it just st...

Had a blowout with mine recently... fairly certain he doesn't get tested and I made a comment about how it is my business to know what else he is doing, for my sexual health. His response was "I'm responsible. I use protection. I shower." It was just kind of a dick response that has been rubbing me the wrong way.... do you require yours get tested if you know they're sleeping with others? Submitted August 21, 2019 at 12:24AM Had a blowout with mine recently... fairly certain he doesn't get tested and I made a comment about how it is my business to know what else he is doing, for my sexual health. His response was "I'm responsible. I use protection. I shower."It was just kind of a dick response that has been rubbing me the wrong way.... do you require yours get tested if you know they're sleeping with others?

My friends like to think of it as colors or light, whereas allosexuals like homo, bi hetero etc were kinda like visual light. And A specs are like ultraviolet and infrared, not really visible and harder to detect, but still colors and definitely still in the light spectrum... Not sure if you guys will agree with it, but I do August 21, 2019 at 12:28AM

I'm sex positive, in that it's cool that others have it, and I'm okay having it with my girlfriend. But I absolutely can't stand it in movies/tv shows/anything like that. It's gross, disgusting, turns me off. It's horrible. Ruins a lot of good movies for me. It's okay in porn though. Also hate sex jokes, hate crude/lewd comments, hate "guy talk" or really gross commentary about how allos are bangin, hate all that. August 21, 2019 at 12:19AM

Oh I never thought of it that way...I always assumed it was to attract attention. I didn't think it actually aroused people August 21, 2019 at 12:09AM

Pretty sex neutral when it’s fiction- I don’t mind references to sex or sex scenes in books/tv/movies etc. But I do get extraordinarily uncomfortable when I’m confronted with it irl/when it involves people I know; for example, personal stories of friends, thin walls in my building allowing me to hear most of what goes on, even things like condoms in the trash. August 21, 2019 at 12:09AM

I'm female, sex repulsed asexual and grey-aromantic. I am aesthetically more attracted to females than males, but only romantically attracted to males (which was a challenge to figure out thanks to my aesthetic attraction towards women being stronger), and not romantically attracted to anyone 100% of the time. It took a few years to figure out, but I think I've found labels that suit me now, though I was as confused, or even more confused than you before. Editing to add that I do want a relationship with a man, but a type of a QPR, though I do want a romance in the relationship on some days and not others. August 21, 2019 at 12:09AM

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Oh wow i will look into that thank you so much!!! If you dont mind me asking what are you female or male have or are tou in the same situation as mine as well? August 21, 2019 at 12:05AM

That’s exactly how I feel. No problem with the idea of sex or other people having it, but I would never do it myself. August 21, 2019 at 12:05AM

I'm somewhat sex repulsed. I am fine with fiction and reading about/seeing sex (though the more real it is, the less I like it - fictional stories that I read being awesome and porn being weird and somewhat uncomfortable), but when it comes to thinking about involving myself in sexual acts, it disgusts me. I'm not as bad with it as you, but would still never consider sex. While allos can have difficulty understanding, many aces are sex repulsed and those that aren't, tend to understand and not think we're weird. At least that's my experience. August 21, 2019 at 12:02AM