27F here. For me I enjoy sex, but 99% of the time I don’t orgasm through penetration but I like seeing my partner excited and happy so I fake it sometimes. Also me making extra sounds/expressions makes myself more into it as well. I’d like to experience orgasms more and I found some things that turn me on. But still there are times when I just don’t, is it ok to pretend? Guys don’t really seem to know haha Submitted September 14, 2019 at 11:36PM 27F here. For me I enjoy sex, but 99% of the time I don’t orgasm through penetration but I like seeing my partner excited and happy so I fake it sometimes. Also me making extra sounds/expressions makes myself more into it as well.I’d like to experience orgasms more and I found some things that turn me on. But still there are times when I just don’t, is it ok to pretend? Guys don’t really seem to know haha

I’m 28 year old male and as the title says I’m a virgin, well I actually have gone to an escort at this point. Anyway I’ve always dealt with social anxiety and inferiority complexes so I’ve steered clear and avoided a lot of opportunity’s in the past. I can’t do this to my self anymore, I feel inhuman and incomplete and have suicidal thoughts every day. I’ve been seeing a therapist for a little over three weeks now but haven’t been able to make any real progress there yet. One thing I’m really struggling with is penis size. Mine is 6 inches and a little over 5 inches in girth. I know it’s average, a high average apparently but I just have a hard time believing in those statistics. I’ve seen men staying they’ve been dumped for 5.5” and other average sizes, you see girls post shit about no one under 7 inches, you see women say if any women tells you that she prefers average she’s lying cause women are conditioned to cater to men’s egos apparently. Maybe most people don’t take that shit ...

Wife is very attractive, hugely busty 36DD hot. No physical activity sometimes for a year. She really only has me pleasure myself to her. She rejects pretty much all other contact, activity, providing a variety of excuses (i. tired, kids etc.,) If we are ever alone during the day before work she will not stop for a minute even when I beg she will not give in. She has everything: great kids, job, life, house, car, clothes. Never comments about men, privates, or me for that matter and im very attractive. Only time she wis likely to give in is when I cause a major scene maybe while on vacation but still will only do it once then nothing else or if another women scoops me up then she does back to normal when she scares her off and thinks shes out of pic. Doesnt pay attention to sex or get into the moment. Never initiates anything. Wont answer if she is a lesbian wants another man, bbc, gngbang etc. She got mad when I bought a rabbit dildo toy. Having a hot women around you every day is t...

I have also never kissed a girl, held hands with a girl or spent time with a girl doing any activities. I'm just bitter now, I don't really enjoy anything because I'm so frustrated. At this point I feel like I'll eventually get to the point where I'm robbed of joy completely. I haven't spoken to a girl in months, not even a casual conversation, I haven't even seen one. By the time I speak to a girl again I'm going to come off so creepy that I can almost guarantee that all women will despise me! Submitted September 14, 2019 at 11:43PM I have also never kissed a girl, held hands with a girl or spent time with a girl doing any activities. I'm just bitter now, I don't really enjoy anything because I'm so frustrated. At this point I feel like I'll eventually get to the point where I'm robbed of joy completely. I haven't spoken to a girl in months, not even a casual conversation, I haven't even seen one. By the time I speak t...

Hello /r/sex , I'm creating a sex "board game", mostly just for fun with the wife. But I was looking to get some more general ideas to include in it to include new actions into the foreplay or positions. The general theme is to perform actions on one another, with intensity mounting, like starting with teasing/stripping, onto masturbation and finally having sex. Can you guys share a couple of your favorite "moves" when you're doing the deed? Here's some examples, with a escalating order: Removing panties with teeth Caress boobs, teasing and circling but never reaching the nipple Sucking ice-cream out of nipple Kissing only outer lips (pussy) Inserting only the head Since I'm a guy, having input from females would be even better, as I will probably focus this on my perspective. Submitted September 14, 2019 at 11:44PM Hello /r/sex, I'm creating a sex "board game", mostly just for fun with the wife. But I was looking to ge...

I’ve been noticing that I rarely get my bf to finish when we have sex. We’re very much sexually and romantically attracted to each other & we’re also very open about our desires. Our problem is purely physical. I get too wet when we’re doing it PIV which results in him not feeling the friction that makes him orgasm. We’ve both acknowledged that I get too wet after a while, and he tells me that I shouldn’t feel bad because he knows that he’s doing a great job of satisfying me, but I still feel guilty because all I want is to REALLY please him. Is there anything that I can do to make him feel more friction (and less wetness) down there? Thanks to everyone in advance :) Submitted September 14, 2019 at 11:45PM I’ve been noticing that I rarely get my bf to finish when we have sex. We’re very much sexually and romantically attracted to each other & we’re also very open about our desires. Our problem is purely physical.I get too wet when we’re doing it PIV which results in ...

A few years ago my engagement fell apart, the relationship ended, and I found myself single again. The relationship was rather lengthy for me, and I consider it my first actual relationship. Before her (I’m a guy in my mid-20s) I had always just hooked up with random girls I didn’t really know, and enjoyed the fact I had no connection with them. During the relationship though, I learned how fulfilling getting to know one partner and the ins and outs of their body was, and learned to absolutely love having tons of passionate sex with someone I cared about was. Though neither of us were virgins when we started dating, we had a ton of “firsts” with each other because we could be comfortable and engage our interests. Fast forward to a few years after it ended, and though I’ve hooked up with other people, and tried dating other people, I’ve continuously run into a problem: sex just is not enjoyable at all. It doesn’t matter how attractive my partner is, if they’re super good at sex, if I...

Share your story if you feel like it. Maybe will help some younger people not have such high expectations lol Submitted September 14, 2019 at 11:57PM Share your story if you feel like it. Maybe will help some younger people not have such high expectations lol

Hi all, so I'm 18/F. I am in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend, who I love very much. We are also an open relationship, because there's no way we can see each anytime soon. It's because of this, that the sexual spark in our relationship is sort of gone and fading. We still love one another, but because we can't physically show it, we just aren't as eager to get down n dirty and phone sex has always felt weird for me. Ends up making us miss one another more, to the point where it's just a void. And it's hard for me to really open up so much about my likes and dislikes when it comes to sex because I don't have much experience (I'm a virgin.) I DO however have fantasies. And lately I've been exploring things like sex toys, and letting him get in on the fun by detailing all the stuff I do to myself. But I had this idea recently to try and spice things up for when we get those urges, which is to basically catfish him from a fake phone...

Hi. I am writing this because I am a guy in a relationship with a girl that I have decidedly mixed feelings about. Before I explain why, I should explain how the relationship began. Okay, so I recently started my junior year in high school. Given my proficiency in math, I agreed to tutor other students who are struggling in my calculus class. When the year began, three students said they would like me to tutor them. Two were males and one was a girl. The girl is a star on the track team and one of the most popular girls in school. On the first day of tutoring, she said she needs my help in calculus or she might be booted off the team. The teacher even stressed I need to help her! Anyway, on the first day of tutoring, all of us were in the library. Now the girl started complaining that she can't get a boyfriend because she is so consumed with studying and track. I then jokingly said I would be her boyfriend. She then said "OK. Let's do it." The guys in our group sta...

Like the title says, last night we went to dinner for my birthday and she was drinking with our friends. I didn’t because I was driving. So we got home, I get high, we foreplayed, and started getting into it. About halfway through sex, she says to put it in her ass, and she’s never told me that sober. So I started fingering her ass slowly, and she was really enjoying it. So eventually, we started doing anal. Crazy to think something like alcohol can have different effects on the mind and body. Is anyone else like this? Submitted September 15, 2019 at 12:12AM Like the title says, last night we went to dinner for my birthday and she was drinking with our friends. I didn’t because I was driving.So we got home, I get high, we foreplayed, and started getting into it. About halfway through sex, she says to put it in her ass, and she’s never told me that sober. So I started fingering her ass slowly, and she was really enjoying it. So eventually, we started doing anal. Crazy to think ...

So I (21F) recently just lost my virginity to a guy I met on tinder. I’ve wanted to get my virginity out of the way for a long time now so it isn’t a big deal to me. He knew I was a virgin & had never done anything more than making out. We went all the way. He said I was too tight to try more positions & it makes it difficult to hold off on finishing too soon. He did most if not all of the work last time. I was responsive when something felt good but other than that I feel like I was awkward. What are the odds of him wanting to have sex again? Submitted September 15, 2019 at 12:17AM So I (21F) recently just lost my virginity to a guy I met on tinder. I’ve wanted to get my virginity out of the way for a long time now so it isn’t a big deal to me. He knew I was a virgin & had never done anything more than making out. We went all the way. He said I was too tight to try more positions & it makes it difficult to hold off on finishing too soon. He did most if not all o...

How often do you guys have sex? On average we do about 3-4 times a week but I'm always horny and could go for more. (F-22, M24) its crazy I have a higher drive for it than him. Submitted September 15, 2019 at 12:18AM How often do you guys have sex? On average we do about 3-4 times a week but I'm always horny and could go for more. (F-22, M24) its crazy I have a higher drive for it than him.

I was very drunk earlier on, I don't remember much but I remember getting in a cab with this woman. I just woke up now and her leg was wrapped round mine with her head on my chest but when I heard her accent I realised I made the grave mistake of sleeping with an Irish woman, she told me that I was too inebriated to have sex so she gave me a blowjob and I passed out and I apparently agreed to a relationship with her and I wake up to find text messages from her family saying they're pleased their daughter has found someone and they'd like to meet me and in my head I'm thinking MOTHERFUCKER I'VE KNOWN THIS SLAG FOR LESS THAN 4 HOURS. I'm hoping to God this is a prank my mate's have pulled on me because they know I'm proud to be British and that I hate the Irish and I'm hoping she is a prostitute they've paid. Can anyone give me advice? Submitted September 15, 2019 at 12:25AM I was very drunk earlier on, I don't remember much but I rememb...

I've been exercising more, eating well, and sleeping well. I'm excited about my work. The changes I've made (unfortunately at the same time so hard to disentangle): become a morning person (waking up instead of at 10 or 11, at 6 or 7). get a hormonal IUD. It's not just libido / the appeal of sex -- it's the actual feeling of sex when I have it that feels worse too. I used to be extremely horny, and now not. I've read about cortisol levels being higher for morning risers, and that IUDs have impacted some women's libido's but not nearly as much as BC. Anyways, thoughts? I feel alone in all of this and want it back, at least the feeling if not the frequency of the drive. Submitted September 15, 2019 at 12:31AM I've been exercising more, eating well, and sleeping well. I'm excited about my work.The changes I've made (unfortunately at the same time so hard to disentangle):become a morning person (waking up instead of at 10 or 11, at 6...

Same here except I feel like its more mixed. He doesn't loathe me, but he has said that he's still not over me. At least I learned I was aro ace and had a great relationship that just might be my last :P September 15, 2019 at 12:22AM

I just don’t understand men sometimes. I had a crush on a coworker for a while, I thought the feeling was mutual because it just seemed like he liked me. At first I thought he was just shy, at least too shy and awkward to ask me out. But as time went by things got a little awkward between us because you know now I really didn’t know if he liked me or if he was playing me or if he just wanted to be friends. The thing is, it’s not like he politely said he was going out with someone around me so I would know that you know there was nothing between us. He enjoys teasing me and he would always tell me about something that was going on with him. So, you know, I came to the conclusion we’re friends, especially after I heard he had been hooking up with someone. The thing is, this past Friday he seemed jealous of me for training a new employee. He was already mad that I was training someone else a couple of weeks, he was so upset that he even said something out loud in front of one of my cowo...

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Does this mean that the Shakers were the most sexist religious sect to ever exist? 🤔 September 15, 2019 at 12:09AM

Thank you so much. I do really love her. I never knew this kind of love before. It actually scares me lol. I of course will do my best to answer your questions and give advice. September 15, 2019 at 12:02AM

I thing you mean ACEthetically pleasing. September 14, 2019 at 11:56PM