I’ve never had sex and I’m afraid to approach it or relationships, needing advice.

I’m 28 year old male and as the title says I’m a virgin, well I actually have gone to an escort at this point. Anyway I’ve always dealt with social anxiety and inferiority complexes so I’ve steered clear and avoided a lot of opportunity’s in the past. I can’t do this to my self anymore, I feel inhuman and incomplete and have suicidal thoughts every day. I’ve been seeing a therapist for a little over three weeks now but haven’t been able to make any real progress there yet. One thing I’m really struggling with is penis size. Mine is 6 inches and a little over 5 inches in girth. I know it’s average, a high average apparently but I just have a hard time believing in those statistics. I’ve seen men staying they’ve been dumped for 5.5” and other average sizes, you see girls post shit about no one under 7 inches, you see women say if any women tells you that she prefers average she’s lying cause women are conditioned to cater to men’s egos apparently. Maybe most people don’t take that shit seriously but I guess couples with my lack of experience/anxiety and also being teased about that body part when I was younger. I may be a grower idk. I also tried going to a prostitute again and wasn’t feeling it so I couldn’t really get it up and she says, you have a nice little cock” like I said it wasn’t fully hard but hearing it be described as little was too much. The first time I went to an escort and she had a lot of compliments about my penis. So I guess there’s a lot going on here mentally for me, but this fear is holding me back from even trying to get better and start pursuing sex/relationships and just generally go out of my comfort zone. So idk what you guys can tell me that’ll really help, I guess I just want some reassurance from guys that have average sized dicks, that it’s okay right? You feel satisfied with sex and your partners seem too? I know this probably seems juvenile and ridiculous, I think I developed what’s called small penis syndrome. Mentioning the measurements I did most people hear would say that I shouldn’t be worrying I’m sure but I find my self doing so quite obsessively

Submitted September 14, 2019 at 11:42PM

I’m 28 year old male and as the title says I’m a virgin, well I actually have gone to an escort at this point. Anyway I’ve always dealt with social anxiety and inferiority complexes so I’ve steered clear and avoided a lot of opportunity’s in the past. I can’t do this to my self anymore, I feel inhuman and incomplete and have suicidal thoughts every day. I’ve been seeing a therapist for a little over three weeks now but haven’t been able to make any real progress there yet. One thing I’m really struggling with is penis size. Mine is 6 inches and a little over 5 inches in girth. I know it’s average, a high average apparently but I just have a hard time believing in those statistics. I’ve seen men staying they’ve been dumped for 5.5” and other average sizes, you see girls post shit about no one under 7 inches, you see women say if any women tells you that she prefers average she’s lying cause women are conditioned to cater to men’s egos apparently. Maybe most people don’t take that shit seriously but I guess couples with my lack of experience/anxiety and also being teased about that body part when I was younger. I may be a grower idk. I also tried going to a prostitute again and wasn’t feeling it so I couldn’t really get it up and she says, you have a nice little cock” like I said it wasn’t fully hard but hearing it be described as little was too much. The first time I went to an escort and she had a lot of compliments about my penis. So I guess there’s a lot going on here mentally for me, but this fear is holding me back from even trying to get better and start pursuing sex/relationships and just generally go out of my comfort zone. So idk what you guys can tell me that’ll really help, I guess I just want some reassurance from guys that have average sized dicks, that it’s okay right? You feel satisfied with sex and your partners seem too? I know this probably seems juvenile and ridiculous, I think I developed what’s called small penis syndrome. Mentioning the measurements I did most people hear would say that I shouldn’t be worrying I’m sure but I find my self doing so quite obsessively