I don't want him to get the idea that me not needing an orgasm, means that I don't want a long sex session with lots of foreplay. I want pleasure...how do I make my feelings clear? Submitted October 28, 2019 at 11:45PM I don't want him to get the idea that me not needing an orgasm, means that I don't want a long sex session with lots of foreplay. I want pleasure...how do I make my feelings clear?

So here goes a second try to my first post. Apparently my first one seemed like I was trolling and fake. I was married to my ex wife for some of 20yrs. She treated me like total shit. Wouldn’t fuck or suck me. One day I had just about had enough and started scrolling on Craigslist personal ads, (this was like 6yrs ago) I was looking for hookups and the women all seemed like hookers always wanting “roses” for services. In my curiosity I came across a few pages with guys. Never being into this before I checked it out. After chatting with a few guys and jerking off to cams and pics I finally figured I wanted something a little more, so I posted an ad. I met this guy and we met at a shack of a hotel not too far from Chicago . First time we figured it was just a meet and greet, 2 guys hanging out having a few drinks, and as soon as I walked in we both got naked and rubbing out dicks together. After a few drinks he was sucking me and off me to him, after a shower quick shower together we we...

i recently got dumped by my boyfriend - who was my first. we were each other’s firsts and he made me feel really beautiful even if i always believed i was fat and ugly. i’m still in heartbreak but honestly? i think some fun can help me with that. i’ve been a sexual person and my breakup shut that off because i always thought my ex would be the only one who’d ever love me emotionally and sexually. i got tinder and matched with a lot of people. the pictures i used were both recent and not recent - i edited a little bit to touch up (like acne or bad makeup). i was so surprised to have people find me cute. right now im talking with this guy who wants me to come over to his place and hookup. i was honest with him and i told him i have no experience with casual sex and he said he’d be willing to meet with me beforehand to get more comfortable. what should i do? im sexually inexperienced bc my ex and i were long distance. im not used to having sex with someone who isn’t patient or is figu...

I have a four bedroom house in a Surburb on the outskirts of London and I let this woman rent a room in my house in exchange for sex and general tidying and cooking my dinners etc. I previously had two women renting a room in exchange for sex and just general housework and cooking etc but the other woman managed to scrape up enough cash to put a deposit on a flat and she left on her own accord and I let her go freely, so why is everyone saying what I'm doing is wrong and a form of slavery and rape if they aren't forced to do anything and are free to go whenever they please? I'm not a charity why should I give away my rooms without receiving anything in return? Submitted October 28, 2019 at 11:49PM I have a four bedroom house in a Surburb on the outskirts of London and I let this woman rent a room in my house in exchange for sex and general tidying and cooking my dinners etc. I previously had two women renting a room in exchange for sex and just general housework and ...

Things with this guy I’ve been seeing have been heating up faster than I initially planned. But idk if he thinks I’m a tease for stopping us right before having sex. Also is a tease considered a BAD thing? Submitted October 28, 2019 at 11:52PM Things with this guy I’ve been seeing have been heating up faster than I initially planned. But idk if he thinks I’m a tease for stopping us right before having sex. Also is a tease considered a BAD thing?

I was jacking off 2 days ago and got a pain near my shaft. I found this normal since it usually goes away eventually. However 2 days have passed and it's still there. What could it be (ik its not an std) Submitted October 28, 2019 at 11:57PM I was jacking off 2 days ago and got a pain near my shaft. I found this normal since it usually goes away eventually. However 2 days have passed and it's still there. What could it be (ik its not an std)

Out of the four guys I’ve (19F) been with only two most recent ones have wanted to eat me out. The first two guys I was with before didn’t want to eat me out, one because he didn’t like it, the other because he thought it was gross and too submissive. The latter guy was my most recent ex and he kind of stunted my sexual progression. He wouldn’t touch me and was very rough and demeaning in the bedroom. I grew a bit self conscious of my body and am now self conscious when the receiving pleasure. These two guys I’ve been with most recently have enjoyed performing oral in the past and want to do so on me. One of them being particularly really good at it. That’s the issue too is that I really like it and I actively want to enjoy and receive pleasure from my partner. The issue is that I tend to tense up when receiving pleasure and the focus is on me. It’s so foreign to me after the last guy I was with that I always feel rushed and can’t truly relax. What I’m wondering is how to get over ...

I tried a bit ago and he popped my hymen but had to stop because it still hurt, so is there any (at home) methods to make it not hurt? Is there any home things I can use for masturbation to make it not hurt or anything? Submitted October 29, 2019 at 12:05AM I tried a bit ago and he popped my hymen but had to stop because it still hurt, so is there any (at home) methods to make it not hurt? Is there any home things I can use for masturbation to make it not hurt or anything?

Basically the title. I’m looking for something to watch and spice up the bedroom with boyfriend. Any help is welcome! Submitted October 29, 2019 at 12:11AM Basically the title. I’m looking for something to watch and spice up the bedroom with boyfriend. Any help is welcome!

We’ve been together a year. We have a healthy sex life. He recently brought up wanting to eat me out..& I’m a little nervous because I have a bigger labia, not like the girls in pornos. Very nervous. Submitted October 29, 2019 at 12:13AM We’ve been together a year. We have a healthy sex life. He recently brought up wanting to eat me out..& I’m a little nervous because I have a bigger labia, not like the girls in pornos. Very nervous.

Sorry if it's TMI, but you did ask... "meat and two veg(etables)" is British slang for "penis and testicles". October 29, 2019 at 12:08AM

This. Nothing beats a nice big beanbag. October 29, 2019 at 12:01AM

And then there were two October 29, 2019 at 12:00AM

I still refuse to believe people are like this and it's not just an exaggeration. Like. Seriously? October 28, 2019 at 11:57PM

everyday I think about all of the stupid shit people get themselves into because they were horny. and I feel blessed that I am not a slave to that system October 28, 2019 at 11:54PM

I'm a 28 year old male and I have been seeing a woman who is 18 years older than me for some time now. The thing is I don't see her being 46 years old when I am with her. I always forget about it. She's in great shape and has an amazing body. When we are not together I think about it, wondering why I'm with someone with such a big age gap, and who has kids. The thing is, it sort of just happened. Everything just played out naturally. I admire the way she carries herself, especially with all the life experiences she has been through... the good and the bad. We have a ton of common ground on things and our conversations always flow easily. Everytime we are together it's just a lot of fun. I know for certain reasons it won't be forever and we will eventually have to move on. For some reason though, as weird as it sounds, I feel it's special. I know it seems strange but I'm just curious to know if anyone (specifically men) has dated a woman with such a la...

So a month ago I met and began dating a beautiful and intelligent Persian girl. We are both 30. She is really great and lavishes me with affection but one thing is bothering me. She constantly brings up the fact that other guys around her are hitting on her, interested in her etc and also makes comments about various people being very attractive. Now, I told her that I don’t really experience jealousy as an emotion and she just found that odd but didn’t say much of it. Initially I thought these comments she was making were a sign that she wasn’t taking our dating seriously and wanted to be casual and I was more or less going to accept that for now, but then she has been the one to progress the relationship to being exclusive and wanting to meet my parents and so on. So what gives? Is this some kind of test or is this just her, she likes attention and doesn’t think anything of sharing that with me? Yes I can and will ask her but I was hoping for some insight first. Submitted Oct...

Hello 23m here. Long story short is i was in a long term relationship that ended extremely badly 2.5 years ago and made me lose most of my friends, and i needed time to heal afterwards so i waited a couple of years to try and find myself. When i decided to get back into the dating scene i found it hard, i don't know where i whould go to meet new people and the few times i do meet someone i have no idea what to do, or i miss out on hints and signs that they like me. I've tried tinder but found that its only filled with people seeking attention/money or just flings. I was wondering if i could get some advice on how to get back into dating Submitted October 28, 2019 at 10:43PM Hello 23m here. Long story short is i was in a long term relationship that ended extremely badly 2.5 years ago and made me lose most of my friends, and i needed time to heal afterwards so i waited a couple of years to try and find myself. When i decided to get back into the dating scene i found it har...

I just really need to get this off my chest. I've never been in a relationship before, had a few crushes, but never really talked to any girls in high school so I know there's a bunch of mistakes a first timer would make down below in the plethora of text. On the first week of college, a girl introduced herself to me, and we started walking together to her dorm building after class for a few weeks, just talking about stuff. She eventually gave me her phone number. She eventually started walking to the library with me, where we'd study together, 60% we studied, and 40% we just talked. All in between this, we'd be brushing against each other's arms, briefly touching each other, and even letting our arms just sit next to each other for a while without moving. At one point, she asked me what stuff there is to do around the city since she wasn't from here. She eventually told me she asked me that question because we could hang out one weekend if I wanted to. Later...

I (M34, feels like 65) have hemiplegic migraines, and a fearful avoidant attachment style. I need and wish to get over the emotional unavailablity using a fling. The migraines are from involuntary commitment and outpatient commitment. The fearful avoidant attachment style is from my time in solitary. I'm on the dole in "Caca", a region with 670 prisoners per 100k total population, while England and Wales have only 140 prisoners per 100k total population. Caca is in Eagleland, a high tech heck with a punitive legal culture. It's advisable to leave, any means necessary. I'm lonely, frustrated, friendless, jobless and on the dole, I have an active job search. I met a toxic friend who said he drunkenly lays drunk people, he's gone. I met another guy at a library in the fetid, smoky bistro hell district of the city's downtown, he canceled an appointment, and I cancelled on the next when the staff or the potato flavored artificial salt lick joint threatened to ...

After heartbreak I tend to forget how amazing love really is. I just focus on the negative feelings that I felt at the end, instead of being able to remember how good it felt in the beginning...to be falling for someone. Been 2 years of no relationships due to fear of being hurt again and not really trying, I’m so happy I found someone to experience the joys of love again. 3 dates in so far. Never connected so well, so fast with anyone before. She so nice, funny, caring, sweet, and cute. Our conversations are amazing. I have so much fun anytime she’s with me & get a huge smile anytime I get a text from her. Started developing these feelings after 2nd date, but felt too early to mention so was just gonna go with the flow a bit longer. Well last night on date 3, she said she’s developing feelings & could see this turning into something more serious and hopefully being long term. I can’t express how amazing it felt to know she also had feelings for me. She wants to meet up again...

Hello people of the internet. I'll get straight to the point so I don't waste your time. I want to find a dating app that doesn't require a picture or a phone number (I'm a little camera shy and worried about people I know seeing me on there). Any advice? Thanks Submitted October 28, 2019 at 11:44PM Hello people of the internet.I'll get straight to the point so I don't waste your time. I want to find a dating app that doesn't require a picture or a phone number (I'm a little camera shy and worried about people I know seeing me on there). Any advice?Thanks

I don’t know if I’m picking them badly but every single person I meet only talks about themselves and asks me like 3 questions the entire date. (22F dating men for context) I don’t know if i’m supposed to just interject facts about my life to keep the conversation even?? That feels unnatural but for some reason every man who I meet feels comfortable doing just that. I‘ll end up asking them more and more about themselves because I don’t know what else to do especially when a silence comes on. To experiment, I’ve started waiting and not saying anything in silences in hopes that they’ll turn the conversation to me but they still don’t. I understand being nervous but it just seems like they’re trying to impress me with facts about them when one of the big things I’m trying to figure out is if they actually care about me and the stories I (rarely get to) tell. When they do ask me about myself they just go “tell me about yourself” instead of asking follow up questions to what I talk abou...