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/u/wormwormwworm on My boyfriend got mad at me for being ace

Idk... I'm gonna give it some time and talk to him when he's calmed down! Hopefully he'll realise by then how inconsiderate he was being.... :/ September 26, 2021 at 12:24AM

/u/FaliolVastarien on Why are we so disliked?

I agree. They used to even do that to gay people. Like yes homosexual behavior exists but you can't prove that some people actually have that preference despite their consistent words and actions. Stupid. September 26, 2021 at 12:21AM

/u/Turtlen05 on Does anyone else get sad/mad when one of their favourite (Tv show/movie) characters has sex?

No. I mean why should I? Unless the characters are ace and its improper representation then its normal for allos September 26, 2021 at 12:21AM

/u/I_serve_Anubis on I Think I'm asexual

There’s nothing you should do, only what you want to do. Tell everyone, tell no one, run around with an ace flag like a cape, just be content with the knowledge ……. There is no correct answer. It’s whatever you want and will make you happy 😊 September 26, 2021 at 12:19AM

Have you ever requested something sexual that a past lover used to do to you, that you want your current lover to do?

The parter before my fiancé that I am with now, gave the best massages and then would give the BEST oral sex. He said he would spell out the alphabet with his tongue and I would cum so fast. Turns out that was the highlight of our relationship. My fiancé now isn’t big on giving massages but I was wondering how he would take it if I gave him some pointers about how to better please me sexually without giving it away that someone else used to do this for me.. Similar stories or examples? Give me the deets. Submitted September 26, 2021 at 12:46AM The parter before my fiancé that I am with now, gave the best massages and then would give the BEST oral sex. He said he would spell out the alphabet with his tongue and I would cum so fast. Turns out that was the highlight of our relationship. My fiancé now isn’t big on giving massages but I was wondering how he would take it if I gave him some pointers about how to better please me sexually without giving it away that someone else used ...

For those who only use one method of B.C, which method do you use and why?

Why have you decided to only use one method of B.C? And if you don’t use condoms, aren’t you afraid you might get a STD (cause everyone can cheat)? Submitted September 26, 2021 at 12:51AM Why have you decided to only use one method of B.C?And if you don’t use condoms, aren’t you afraid you might get a STD (cause everyone can cheat)?

Casual sex on the autism spectrum

So bit of a backstory, my partner (of 7 years) and I are in a 'hotwife' relationship. I have a huge thing for guys in bands, it really turns me on so We both agreed Last minute for me to meet up with A guy a few days ago and everything went ok (foreplay, no sex) I met a bassist tonight from a local band. We have spoken dirty over messages before. he is so hot and we had sex, but I felt guilty and disgusting afterwards. I can't stop thinking about it and it's making me increasingly anxious. I have Aspergers, anxiety, depression and bipolar. Will I ever be able to get over this? It's the first time I've ever had sex with anyone else other than my partner. I need to know if it's normal to feel like this and if anyone has any advice? Submitted September 26, 2021 at 12:52AM So bit of a backstory, my partner (of 7 years) and I are in a 'hotwife' relationship. I have a huge thing for guys in bands, it really turns me on so We both agreed Last minute...

A question about carnal instincts...

In every relationship I've had, the first time we have had unprotected sex, it's like the guy can't restrain himself from risking making babies. But as the relationship develops, it stops. Even if you beg, they are careful lol. What happens and why is that? Submitted September 26, 2021 at 12:54AM In every relationship I've had, the first time we have had unprotected sex, it's like the guy can't restrain himself from risking making babies. But as the relationship develops, it stops. Even if you beg, they are careful lol. What happens and why is that?

Did I come but did not ejaculate?

Hello people, So I am a guy here and I just came home from a hook-up. I wore a condom and all but trying not to cum I stopped fucking and I felt a little bit like I came but when I pulled off I saw nothing in the condom which appeared intact and I got flaccid really fast. I figured it was one of those rare times that I almost cum/and not cum at the same time when I interrupt my masturbation + I had masturbated 5 times in the last 30-35 hours. But right now I start to get paranoid about the condom having a tiny hole that I did not notice and that there was a leak and I am starting to freak out. Am I overthinking? Submitted September 26, 2021 at 12:58AM Hello people,So I am a guy here and I just came home from a hook-up. I wore a condom and all but trying not to cum I stopped fucking and I felt a little bit like I came but when I pulled off I saw nothing in the condom which appeared intact and I got flaccid really fast. I figured it was one of those rare times that I almost cum/a...

Good sign or not

Two weeks ago I [M25] transferred into a different class in order to make my school schedule work better. Anyways I waited til someone else got to class and asked them what seats were still free. I ended up asking this girl [F22] who told me the seats around her were free. We talked a little, we both transferred from the same community college and she seemed really cool. Since then we've talked pretty much everyday in class and a little bit outside through the online learning platform for the class (she immediately went to me to be partners for a project) This last Thursday I asked her if she was free the next day to get coffee. She said was actually really busy that day so I offered her my number or to find her on Facebook so we could figure something out (that way she wasn't under pressure to give me hers) and instead she just offered to give me her number. I get the feeling this is a good sign but I'm incredibly bad at reading situations like this, so I'm afraid I...

GF doesn't want kids EVER

I(28M) started dating this girl(27F)about two months ago. Things are going super super great. We vibe so well but there is one little red flag. She told me she loves kid but doesn't see herself having one ever. I told her, "hey you say that now, but you never know later in life you might really want to have one" but she tells me nahh no way Im making a long term commitment with this girl I feel like she's the one but that kid topic is really throwing me off a little. Don't get me wrong I don't want any kids now but later in my late 30s I'm sure I would want one. This is the first girl I ever clicked with from the start so I'm thinking breaking up over something like that ain't really an option. What do y'all think?! Submitted September 25, 2021 at 11:52PM I(28M) started dating this girl(27F)about two months ago. Things are going super super great. We vibe so well but there is one little red flag. She told me she loves kid but doesn...

Should I be with this girl?

After my breakup in February, I met this girl online we were good friends and now we are more than friends. We are not in a commitment but we do really love and care about each other. We have had sex and we share a great bond too. The problem is I am kind of stuck, I had my share of heartbreaks in the past and this girl I am with right now she has never been in a relationship, she just had casual sex with 8-9 partners in last 4 years. Can I really trust her if she can fuck with some other guy she calls friend after being high on pot? And the worst part is how she tells me her stories in graphic detail which really bothers me as I have feelings for her now. (All these adventures are before we came together) What I feel is she doesn't resist sex, am I wasting my time with this girl or should I have faith in her ? I am really really confused please help me and yes I had multiple partners too, 5 to be approx but I had a relationship, sex was never the main goal. So again should I b...

Age difference

Hello, I would like to know people's opinion on age range in dating. I'm a 30 year old female, and I was just asked out by a 45 year old guy. He did not look it at all, I would have guessed 37/8. Now a 15-year age range in my twenties would have seemed too much because of the different phase of life, but I'm not sure how I feel about this now. Thoughts? Submitted September 25, 2021 at 11:54PM Hello, I would like to know people's opinion on age range in dating. I'm a 30 year old female, and I was just asked out by a 45 year old guy. He did not look it at all, I would have guessed 37/8. Now a 15-year age range in my twenties would have seemed too much because of the different phase of life, but I'm not sure how I feel about this now. Thoughts?

How can you tell when a guy is checking you out?

And why do guys stare but never ask a girl out or make a move? For context a guy at work I’ve caught staring at me and looking away quickly, I’ve seen him look back at me and look me up and down and our eyes meet a lot at work. Yet he doesn’t ask to hang out and he’s told me he’s single……..? Submitted September 26, 2021 at 12:00AM And why do guys stare but never ask a girl out or make a move? For context a guy at work I’ve caught staring at me and looking away quickly, I’ve seen him look back at me and look me up and down and our eyes meet a lot at work. Yet he doesn’t ask to hang out and he’s told me he’s single……..?

Its not your fault you're having a hard time finding people on Dating apps

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3A4-x38uunw SO I watched this video not too long ago after I finally quit dating apps (Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, Kippo, HUD, OKCupid) And it turns out that MOST dating apps are controlled by a f**king algorithim, TLDR: If you pick someone with tattoos you'll just get recommended people with more tattoos basically SO yeah, hoping I can find the right person, IN person Submitted September 26, 2021 at 12:04AM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3A4-x38uunwSO I watched this video not too long ago after I finally quit dating apps (Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, Kippo, HUD, OKCupid) And it turns out that MOST dating apps are controlled by a f**king algorithim, TLDR: If you pick someone with tattoos you'll just get recommended people with more tattoos basicallySO yeah, hoping I can find the right person, IN person

/u/zaph77 on Found some not so great ace representation in Six Feet Under.

How could they not know that we constantly and uncomfortably make jokes about sex September 25, 2021 at 11:48PM

/u/Minority_Report_ on Finding out you’re asexual

I found out when I was 27, through Wikipedia. Didn't have a problem with it at all. In fact, I was relieved. Can't believe I was walking around all that time identifying as straight. 🤦 September 25, 2021 at 11:47PM

/u/imjayhime on I’m starting to think my asexuality might be internalized racism.

No problem 😁 September 25, 2021 at 11:47PM

/u/imjayhime on Finding out you’re asexual

I thought it was weird that I didn’t feel any sexual attraction to my last boyfriend. He was okay with waiting till marriage (that was my plan at the time), but after thinking about it, I realized that I didn’t even want to do it with him in the future. After we broke up, I wanted to see if anyone felt the same way so I did some research and found this comic from AVEN. It was honestly an eye opening moment for me like “wow…that’s me.” This was in 2018. If I knew what asexuality was when I started dating, things definitely would have been different. There were and still are times when I get sad about it. I’m very romantic and have always dreamed about getting married. I often have doubts that I’ll find that person, but for the most part, I’m proud to be an ace. It’s nice to be a part of a supportive community and to not constantly think about sex haha but it’s definitely annoying that society’s so obsessed with it. I’m sure you’ll figure things out :) September 25, 2021 at 11:47P...

/u/tabelschnasse on Does anyone else get sad/mad when one of their favourite (Tv show/movie) characters has sex?

ugh yes. my favourite characters tend to be the ones without romantic interests. so when they've gone several seasons or movies without a partner and then suddenly they kiss I'm like nooo why must you ruin it! damn you, screenwriters :'( one character that hurt pretty bad was loki... he's my all time fave mcu character and went through several movies and arcs just fine. his character is so well written and his motivations and everything is fleshed out as it is, and in his series he just went full teenager... it just doesn't make sense to me, at all. i was so happy to get to see him again after infinity war (still hurts to this day ugh) but the series just made it worse tbh. two other faves of mine are tuffnut from httyd and krel from 3below. if dreamworks messes it up by giving them romantic interests in some sort of spinoff, i swear i will set fire to their animation building or something September 25, 2021 at 11:43PM