How can I get a free copy of our marriage certificate in Kentucky. We've lost our certificate, We've lost a lot of our things. We try and try to walk a straight line and we keep getting shit on and what do we do we keep walking a straight line. We both don't have family or friends that we can count on. We both had a bad childhood, Mine I can't talk about it, It HURTS to BAD. I've told my husband some of the things that happened to me but not all of it I can't get the words out without crying. We've had SOOOOO many anniversaries and we wasn't able to do anything for each other on our anniversary, but we were together that's actually the best gift. Heck we haven't been able to go out to Dairy Queen because of our money situation. Our 15th anniversary passed this year and couldn't do anything, I am wanting to surprise him by replacing our marriage certificate. But the sad part is I'm trying to find a place to get a free copy or at least...

Next month is our 25th anniversary. I do not love him anymore. He does not even care about himself. When I ask him to go to the doctor for existing health problems he has, he refuses saying marriage is so miserable or some other similar statement, he would rather die. If I stand up to him and point out that what he just said is hurtful to me and/or our children, he blows up angry. He has a heart problem he was born with that needs follow up and a thyroid problem. The thyroid problem will weaken his already damaged heart if he does not have it treated. ​ This is just 25 yrs of bad memories. We had a few good years, but now they are just bad again. I am not going to divorce. He does not even know this but I have something going on neurologically that will get worse and will eventually be completely disabling and I will die. Ok, not today or tomorrow, we are talking 10+ years from now. I tried to tell him before but he literally never listens to me. This has been a long time problem. H...

We're 48 and we got together when we were 23. We met when we were like 21. She's still foxy as hell too. Submitted April 13, 2019 at 04:51AM We're 48 and we got together when we were 23. We met when we were like 21.She's still foxy as hell too.

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My girlfriend is generally never horny throughout the day and always wants us to have sex before bed. I'm the opposite, I am always horny first thing in the morning and generally cannot be arsed by bedtime. How do we sync that? Submitted April 12, 2019 at 09:52PM My girlfriend is generally never horny throughout the day and always wants us to have sex before bed. I'm the opposite, I am always horny first thing in the morning and generally cannot be arsed by bedtime. How do we sync that?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and he’s the only person I’ve been with. As of the last two years or so we’ve noticed an excessive amount of discharge only with PIV. It doesn’t bother either of us, it’s just a little embarrassing to me. There’s no odor or pain at all, just a lot of thick white discharge. It’s obviously not a yeast infection, so I’m at a loss. I can’t find anything about it online. I always work myself up trying to find answers online, I either end up thinking I’m infertile or pregnant from what I read, ha. I have endo and just recently started birth control pills to stop having my period and was really hoping it might help, but it hasn’t. Submitted April 12, 2019 at 10:25PM I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and he’s the only person I’ve been with. As of the last two years or so we’ve noticed an excessive amount of discharge only with PIV. It doesn’t bother either of us, it’s just a little embarrassing to me. There’s no odor or pain a...

I bet this exact post appears on /sex every twenty minutes, but I'm gonna post it anyways. Threesome discussion time! ​ My girlfriend (21F) and I (24M) were swiping on her tinder, trying to find girls for her to hook up with (I'm into it, even if I'm not involved), and one of her matches (cute, mid-twenties) suggested a threesome. My girfriend and I have discussed that before, we're both into it. Hell yeah. I've never done one before--other than an abortive MMF in college where the other M couldn't get hard (understandable)--so I'm excited, but it also seems like it could be pretty awkward. If I wear a condom with the unicorn, but not with my girlfriend, is that (relatively) safe? Alcohol--yea or nay? Any good ideas on positions? They're both submissive--anyone have tips on dominating two girls at once? We all like the idea of me and one of the girls "ganging up" on the other and being forceful/dominant with her, anyone have experience ...

This is probably a stupid question. When I masturbate just with clitoral stimulation, if my bladder is about half full I find I have stronger orgasms that are a little easier to achieve, especially if I tense my lower abdominal muscles enough to put a tiny bit of pressure on it as I draw close to finishing. If it's too full it's uncomfortable. And if I'm using anything inserted, then it's incredibly uncomfortable and a no go (probably because of whatever toy I'm using jabbing my full bladder). Anyone else? I'm curious as to why this would be physiologically. It's a little annoying because now when I wake up in the morning and have to pee a little I'm also super horny. Submitted April 12, 2019 at 10:49PM This is probably a stupid question. When I masturbate just with clitoral stimulation, if my bladder is about half full I find I have stronger orgasms that are a little easier to achieve, especially if I tense my lower abdominal muscles enough to p...

I'm a 24F, I'm using a throwaway account cause I'm scared and embarrassed. I was masturbating earlier and stupidly tried to use a big object when I wasnt very lubricated, a hair brush , I used a sock as a barrier and I got it in and I think I went too rough. It's been 3 hours and I'm kind of spotting, and my vagina feels weird and "loose" and like its falling or slipping. Only thing I could find is prolapse. But I heard it's rare to do during masturbation, I'm scared and have no health insurance. Has anyone experienced this before? Submitted April 12, 2019 at 10:57PM I'm a 24F, I'm using a throwaway account cause I'm scared and embarrassed.I was masturbating earlier and stupidly tried to use a big object when I wasnt very lubricated, a hair brush , I used a sock as a barrier and I got it in and I think I went too rough.It's been 3 hours and I'm kind of spotting, and my vagina feels weird and "loose" and like...

So basically she squirted on the backseat of this car that isn't mine, and I haven't noticed any stains on the seats and I mopped it all up soon afterwards. Luckily the seat material is such that no stains were made. I noticed however that a lot of fluid drained through the seat and soaked the floor under it. Now I'm really worried about any smell that might appear because if it does I'm fucked since this isn't my car. Any experience? Help please. Submitted April 12, 2019 at 11:59PM So basically she squirted on the backseat of this car that isn't mine, and I haven't noticed any stains on the seats and I mopped it all up soon afterwards. Luckily the seat material is such that no stains were made. I noticed however that a lot of fluid drained through the seat and soaked the floor under it. Now I'm really worried about any smell that might appear because if it does I'm fucked since this isn't my car.Any experience? Help please.

I can make myself orgasm easily. I don't do it that often. Maybe a few times a week or a few times a month. I know I am definitely orgasming and climaxing. It feels like, pretty good, for a second, then instantly I feel 'is that it?'. And by pretty good, I mean on a level of satisfaction of popping bubble wrap to the best massage of your life, it's a 2/10. I'm a girl and I can have as many orgasms as I like (well, the most I've had in one sitting is about 25 and the average is 2-8) so I'll try to have several until it "feels right" but it's never that great. I'm not sure what to do. Submitted April 13, 2019 at 12:07AM I can make myself orgasm easily. I don't do it that often. Maybe a few times a week or a few times a month. I know I am definitely orgasming and climaxing. It feels like, pretty good, for a second, then instantly I feel 'is that it?'. And by pretty good, I mean on a level of satisfaction of popping bubble wr...

(Crossposted from r/ProstatePlay ) Just your average gay guy here, I subscribed to r/ProstatePlay like 2 years or so ago because I wanted to know how to stimulate my prostate on my own but I lost interest in trying, not because I couldn't find my prostate/couldn't get any pleasure out of it but because I actually did find it and I've found that my prostate is not sensitive enough for me to wanna go through the trouble of trying to do it everytime I masturbate. But I just wanted to pass along some of the things I learned on my journey. Its not going to be an exhaustive list of everything you've probably already heard before, nor do I have a link to some long ass dissertation I made on it. I only really have a few things to say: First of all you've probably heard that the prostate is walnut sized, its actually not or at least mine isn't. I think this description only really applies to those men who are over 40 as the prostate tends to grow with age. My prosta...

After smoking two joints, I was feeling very good and decided that I would be even better with an orgasm. what surprised me is that I not only got better, I had a very different orgasm from the ordinary, much longer. it was not just a climax as usual, but after the climax my body felt an explosion that wouldn't stop, and moved by itself. I thought of sleeping but my legs still twitched, my vagina too, sometimes. It lasted a long time not only in my mind, I looked at my watch and I saw that half an hour had passed, I thought to myself, "I've been having an orgasm for 30 minutes." as this time passed, I realized that I was no longer so sensitive and decided to try again, after all, why not increase something that already seemed surreal? behold, at this second climax I can swear that I saw white lights almost blinding me, and I had my eyes closed. it was very intense, and continued to linger for another half hour until I finally fell asleep. several times in this proces...

Ok so I’m a M(25) and my gf F(24) and I have been exploring some new stuff sexually lately. I’ll be first to admit that my sex life prior to meeting her was been pretty vanilla. (Missionary, with occasionally letting the girl on top.) Something my gf really wants me to do is go to town on her doggy style. But every time we try I have a hard time keeping my dick in. We have tried a couple different ways and none of them seem to work very well. We have tried it standing up with her again a wall. This has not worked well because there is a pretty significant height desperately between us, me being 6’ 0”and her being 5’ 4”. Which has made me need to bend down a little which is super uncomfortable and really takes me out of it. -The other way we have tried is in bed. Which seems to be the better of the two for me but I have a hard time keeping it in and accidentally poke her in the butt which puts her out of it. Any advice to help fix this issue would be greatly appreciated. Also we ...

I was previously insecure about an ex-girlfriend using her vibrator. This insecurity has lucky been eradicated and I feel I have matured tremendously sexually thanks to you guys. However some people still struggle with their SO’s (particularly males but I suppose anyone) being insecure about masturbation or toys. My tip is if this comes up as an issue, something that might help is giving your toy the same name as your SO. Or even telling your SO you think of it as an extension of them. My current girlfriend did this in the beginning of our relationship and I thought it was a great way to try to relieve any security I had. Cheers, love you all. Submitted April 13, 2019 at 01:35AM I was previously insecure about an ex-girlfriend using her vibrator. This insecurity has lucky been eradicated and I feel I have matured tremendously sexually thanks to you guys. However some people still struggle with their SO’s (particularly males but I suppose anyone) being insecure about masturbat...

This has been going on for weeks and whenever I masturbate i always find myself thinking of the same girl. I've met her before and she's very nice (not to mention a VERY nice body). I've had issues with and still struggle with jealousy. Whenever I see her in real life I cant stop myself from thinking how much happier my boyfriend would be with her and I despise her for it, but when I get home and start masturbating shes the only thing that fills my thoughts. I've talked to my boyfriend about how I feel inferior to her and he has reassured me several times that he would rather be with me, but I never really believe it. I have never told him I think about her when I masturbate, and I dont intend to. Does this mean I'm a lesbian? When me and my boyfriend have sex I always enjoy it but when I'm alone masturbating I always think about her. Is there any reason this may be happening ? Submitted April 13, 2019 at 01:37AM This has been going on for weeks and whe...

I’ve definitely been attracted to women but when I’ve never met a woman who I can picture myself going down on. I also really hate being fingered and the idea of fingering someone really creeps me out. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. Maybe I’m just a straight person living in denial and will forever be confused? Submitted April 13, 2019 at 01:55AM I’ve definitely been attracted to women but when I’ve never met a woman who I can picture myself going down on. I also really hate being fingered and the idea of fingering someone really creeps me out. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. Maybe I’m just a straight person living in denial and will forever be confused?

I’m not sure if this is the correct sub so if it’s not, please point me in the right direction. From the age of 5-8 I was sexually assaulted by two teenage neighbors whose parents use to babysit me when my parents were away. I feel my parents didn’t notice anything wrong due to my sibling being in/out of the hospital a lot during this time. If they did notice, they may have attributed it to my sibling’s hospitalization or our frequent moving (military family). I didn’t tell anyone and I honestly can’t remember how I lived my life throughout elementary school. I feel like I maybe didn’t understand what was happening and I just...logged it away in my mind. Maybe there is something to the theory that your mind protects you from certain things. It wasn’t until 6th grade when I had my first boyfriend and he tried to kiss me did I experience that fear again. My fear doesn’t come in panic though or tears. I feel it comes as compliance and numbness. The same way I responded to the sexual ass...

For reference, I'm a 16 yr old lesbian. ​ I've been masturbating since I was 10 years old, but recently I've felt especially frustrated and unsatisfied by fingers alone. A few months ago I was settled, I wanted to buy a vibrator, I traveled alone into town, visited boots and came out with a purple durex bullet, it's a cheap, short, and ineffective thing, but it was also probably the best purchase I have ever made. If I'm honest, though, I badly crave an upgrade, something larger and more powerful, the problem, however, is that I can't just walk out and buy a proper vibrator without an ID, and I can't buy one online without a bank account of my own. I have a very open and honest relationship with my mum, we're both sex-positive people and she's wonderfully supportive of my sexuality and exploration, she has no problem with the idea of me having sex now that I am legally able to, I'm about 80% sure that she would be ok with buying a vibrator o...

So my boyfriend has had blue balls for about 6 hours as we started sexting back and forth this morning and when he finally got home from work we did the deed and afterwards he is still hurting and nauseous. Is it dangerous to have blue balls that long? Submitted April 13, 2019 at 02:48AM So my boyfriend has had blue balls for about 6 hours as we started sexting back and forth this morning and when he finally got home from work we did the deed and afterwards he is still hurting and nauseous. Is it dangerous to have blue balls that long?

Let me start by saying that today was unusually great for me. I had a light day on the job, completed a vigorous workout, had a delicious dinner and then watched a funny movie with my new boyfriend over a couple glasses of wine. Basically, the definition of an amazing day for me. After feeling so good and drinking, naturally, I wanted to have sex. My boyfriend protested, saying he was too tired, but once we got to bed we started to tease each other and one thing led to another. I got super aroused, we started doing it and it felt AMAZING. I was super into it and feeling myself too. I would say that dirty talk is one of my strengths and so I started talking dirty. I thought I was doing a fantastic job, too. I felt like he was ready to come at any moment. And then I made a crucial error--I said something using the exact phrase from the comedy movie we had just watched. It was a stupid mistake and I'm sure the wine had plenty to do with it. My boyfriend lost his erection and immed...

My boyfriend has difficulties cumming during sex. He was able to cum in me once in a while but in the last 5-6 months, he can only reach an orgasm through a handjob. I think he stopped trying to orgasm during sex because he "just never gets to that point" so I just give him a handjob to finish him. When we first noticed the issue, he'd try not to masterbate for a bit before we did anything. It seemed like he was actively trying to make himself cum during sex and it would work occasionally. Now it seems like he doesn't really care and would prefer to finish through a handjob. We still enjoy having sex but I wanna know if it's appropriate to voice my concerns to him because I know that pressuring him can make this situation worse. It does make me feel a little self-conscious, but I never really told him because I know it doesn't really help him. Now I just don't know if I should leave this problem and continue to have sex this way, or if I should try to e...

I'm seeing my boyfriend in the first time in almost a month and he's coming over to mine, any ideas on what I should do or how I should surprise him? Submitted April 13, 2019 at 07:31AM I'm seeing my boyfriend in the first time in almost a month and he's coming over to mine, any ideas on what I should do or how I should surprise him?

I’m interested in just having a sexual relationship with a women. I’m not so interested in talking, going out, or doing anything unless it’s sexually charged. I wish I was but I’ve tried and I lose interest very quickly. My mind seems to be hyper focused on sex and at this point I’m giving up on trying to act as if it’s otherwise. So, how do I go about finding that type of relationship? Hitting women up and directly asking about sex doesn’t seem to be too appreciated 😬. So I’m not sure what to do. I don’t want to go about tricking women into thinking I’m looking for what they’re looking for just to get that little bit I’m actually interested in. Any ideas? Is there anyone experienced with this that can give any tips? Submitted April 13, 2019 at 07:35AM I’m interested in just having a sexual relationship with a women. I’m not so interested in talking, going out, or doing anything unless it’s sexually charged. I wish I was but I’ve tried and I lose interest very quickly. My mind...

I started online dating a few months ago. So far I have been on three dates and I talked with someone on the phone. All these experiences have been underwhelming. The first guy was very good looking but very immature. Second one offered me a casual relationship and this is a no go for me. Third guy tried getting touchy after like one hour into the date. Fourth guy I spoke to on the phone turned out to be personality wise not what I was looking for at all. So in my fourth month of online dating, this is where I am at. I live rather rural, but still, there are a lot of guys to potentially match with. However, many of them do not even respond. Of the ones that do respond I often do not feel any chemistry with while chatting. So only a few remain that I actually feel like going on a date with and this is what it has boiled down to so far. So I have hit a little low in my online dating endeavours. I am still getting new matches, of course as this is how it works, but as I said, some do...

Is it normal for guys to NOT ask you out and then get mad at you (and hold a grudge) for going out with another guy? Apparently the last guy that I eventually went out with was hitting on me for years me but I completely missed it because he never actually asked me out and we rarely spent time together. I always interpreted his behavior as being a clumsy drunk. Submitted April 11, 2019 at 10:06AM Is it normal for guys to NOT ask you out and then get mad at you (and hold a grudge) for going out with another guy? Apparently the last guy that I eventually went out with was hitting on me for years me but I completely missed it because he never actually asked me out and we rarely spent time together. I always interpreted his behavior as being a clumsy drunk.

UPDATE: I just finished having a face-to-face with my friend. She took it very well and was graceful in accepting the information and grateful I was the one to share it with her. Unfortunately this was not a shock to her as it's a long-standing pattern of behavior, except it has gotten more blatant as time has passed and she wasn't aware it had started again. I hope it's the kick in the pants she needs to finally kick his ass to the curb. Just set up OLD accounts again after a 6-month break (first 4 of that I was seeing someone). Matched with a guy on Sunday, and we've been texting since then. He asked to meet me, so we set a time for last night at a local brewery. I wasn't super gung ho about the guy but he seemed a nice enough person to me to meet and get back into the swing of dating. He told me ahead of time that he could only stay for about 45 minutes because he had to go home and make dinner for his daughter. This seemed fair enough and I didn't think mu...

Tell me some good news. Tell me about your happy place. Tell about some good things in things your life. Big or small, dating related or not, we want to celebrate the good times today! Submitted April 11, 2019 at 11:10AM Tell me some good news. Tell me about your happy place. Tell about some good things in things your life.Big or small, dating related or not, we want to celebrate the good times today!

I’m (46m) a cross between nervous and embarrassed to bring this up, but in regards to dating and relationships, I feel incredibly disconnected. Let me explain... 1) I would love to find someone in a situation where we complete each other. 2) I’m not sure I’m attracted to anyone. I’ve used OLD apps and I rarely swipe anyone. Obviously, it’s a numbers game, but I wouldn’t waste my time with anyone I wasn’t into. 3) Conventional modern femininity doesn’t do anything for me. I just don’t get the whole long hair, make up, flamboyant fashion thing. Well that’s 90% of the whole pool! Ultimately, I would rather be single than end up with the wrong person. What’s going on? Do I need therapy? Is this normal? Am I asexual? I have a happy, stable and creative life, but I feel so disconnected when it comes to relationships. Submitted April 11, 2019 at 01:37PM I’m (46m) a cross between nervous and embarrassed to bring this up, but in regards to dating and relationships, I feel incredibly ...

Interested in people's opinions and experiences with this. Have been seeing someone through OLD for a little while and we slept together for the first time this week, and it was TERRIBLE. Completely selfish on his part - no foreplay, no technique, just missionary for 5 mins and he was done. He's almost 40, I understand being inexperienced or nervous but he's had plenty of relationship experience and seemed completely confident the whole time. I don't think it would be possible to “train” him to be better at this point would it? Of course communication is important and I could work on it but honestly feel like it would take a huge amount of work, given the starting point is such a disaster. Has anyone had a similar experience and it improved drastically? Would talking to him about it make him put in more effort or would it just make him defensive? Or does he know he's terrible and just doesn't care? Since my 30s I've had some of the best sex of my life, bu...

After a date with someone you didn't like, how do you communicate your disinterest? What if they just message you enquiring about your day or something, just trying to carry on the conversation? And what if they ask you for a second date? Do you send them a message communicating that you felt no spark? Do you ghost them? What is the appropiate way to move forward?I am looking for real life practical advice the way people actually do it. Submitted April 11, 2019 at 02:19PM After a date with someone you didn't like, how do you communicate your disinterest?What if they just message you enquiring about your day or something, just trying to carry on the conversation?And what if they ask you for a second date?Do you send them a message communicating that you felt no spark? Do you ghost them? What is the appropiate way to move forward?I am looking for real life practical advice the way people actually do it.

Thus far in my life I have always chased attractions that are immediate - I normally only date people that I am immediately attracted to and excited by. I've had a lot of fun doing this but I've also learned that following this attractions are not always good for me. I tend to be attracted to and excited by men who are not 100% available in some way - meaning emotionally distant, living far away, not looking for anything serious, etc. I was in a long term relationship with someone who was not emotionally available to me and when it ended I decided to change my ways and start following healthier attractions. I've heard a lot about attraction being developed slowly over time. I'm currently dating a man who is 100% available.. he likes me, he is emotionally intelligent, not hung up on any exes, very honest and open, and has room for me in his life. I am attracted to him and I do enjoy spending time with him.. but I don't feel that CRAZY attraction that I was so used ...

Who here has done a singles cruise or other such excursion (like the events on match)? How was your experience? How much did they make you participate or not? Did you go alone or with friends? Etc. Submitted April 11, 2019 at 04:58PM Who here has done a singles cruise or other such excursion (like the events on match)? How was your experience? How much did they make you participate or not? Did you go alone or with friends? Etc.

For me to come to reddit talk about this stuff means I'm pretty insecure when it comes to dates and relationships. TLDR: never had much luck dating in the old times, life became complicated in the last few years but I was feeling positive and happy single and fixing it, then girl shows up, gives multiple signs and then becomes silent for no reason as I was about to ask her out. When I was younger I didn't have much confidence asking girls out. I would eventually, after developing enough trust and confidence, but for me that takes time. I don't fall for a girl quickly and when I do it means I really like her but I need time to slowly build my approach before I can ask her out or try something else. But I was also very oblivious to flirts and I am amazed at the girls who actually tried in the past and I totally missed when I thought nobody would want anything to do with me, only realizing a long time after that. A few cut me off completely out of the blue and I didn't ...

Edit: Thank you everyone for your advice. I think I will try a second date and see if I feel differently knowing what I am going into. Those that commented that the picture being misleading may have been part of the issue - I think you are correct, that must have been part of it. I did arrived expecting someone physically different than I met, and the right was with me all evening. To make things clear, I have no intention of letting things advance beyond a kiss if I still felt no spark. I thought I made that clear but I guess not. While I am fine with a hook up she obviously was not looking for one and I would not betray anyones trust by engaging in casual sex with someone who believed it was more. Also, I have no reason to suspect sex would even occur on a second day with her. When I said kiss I did mean only kiss. The question was, purely, is a kiss ok to allow to test chemistry or is it, too, a breaking of trust? For those commenting that I am dating too soon, that may very wel...

What do you have planned for the weekend? Dates? Quiet time? Time with friends & family? Submitted April 12, 2019 at 11:11AM What do you have planned for the weekend?Dates? Quiet time? Time with friends & family?

Long time lurker. Figured I would disclose that. Ha. I've been out of a 4 yr relationship since Nov 2017. My ex is my boss. He dumped me 2 days before Thanksgiving. We were living together and I moved out the next day. Pretty sure he was not expecting that from me. Please allow me to vent or ramble... I worked my ass off for him and he dumped me...The stress of the job got to me and I did not know how to shut off once I left the office and I seriously thought that when we weren't talking about work, things were good between us. NOT. I was in major denial about our relationship. Seriously in major denial. We had sex maybe 5 times the last year we were together. I blamed the no sex on his weight and bad hip. Come to find out from him, he didn't want to have sex with me because I was always angry. Ugh. I know that in order for me to completely be able to move on, I should no longer work for him but I like everyone (well not everyone) that I work with and love the freedom th...

I'm just wondering if any of you have a crush on someone you know (not like celebrity crush). IF so, have you tried reaching out somehow? What's stopping you from reaching out? Submitted April 12, 2019 at 03:32PM I'm just wondering if any of you have a crush on someone you know (not like celebrity crush). IF so, have you tried reaching out somehow? What's stopping you from reaching out?

I (42F) have no idea what dating options exist beyond OLD. I’m one of the biggest cities in the US and I have no idea where to meet someone. Submitted April 12, 2019 at 06:18PM I (42F) have no idea what dating options exist beyond OLD. I’m one of the biggest cities in the US and I have no idea where to meet someone.

When I was in my 20s I found that guys that liked me REALLY liked me. I knew off the bat they were interested in my l me. Now that I am in my 30s and my dating pool is divorced/ with kids etc I feel like they don't show as much interest. Are they just over it? Or could it be me that's changed? Submitted April 12, 2019 at 08:08PM When I was in my 20s I found that guys that liked me REALLY liked me. I knew off the bat they were interested in my l me. Now that I am in my 30s and my dating pool is divorced/ with kids etc I feel like they don't show as much interest. Are they just over it? Or could it be me that's changed?

So for all genders. What hobbies do you find attractive in a partner? Which ones do you fuck no? Just curiois. Mine are writing, calligraphy, smoking a pipe like an old man, and obsessively reading. How do those stack up ladies? Any red flag hobbies? I look down on men of my age who build models. Glue huffers... Submitted April 12, 2019 at 08:11PM So for all genders. What hobbies do you find attractive in a partner? Which ones do you fuck no? Just curiois. Mine are writing, calligraphy, smoking a pipe like an old man, and obsessively reading.How do those stack up ladies? Any red flag hobbies? I look down on men of my age who build models. Glue huffers...

I(33m) met this woman (30f) at a bar a couple weeks ago. We exchanged numbers and texted throughout the week. This past Sunday we had our first date, spent the day together, and she ended up spending the night. This girl was all over me the entire time. Told me she was looking for something serious, to have a family, etc. we texted throughout the week, with both of us initiating, but she was distant. Very straightforward replies, no emotion, flirting, etc. Now it looks like she’s blowing me off this weekend? Normally I would think she’s not interested, but this girl couldn’t have made her interest more obvious. What gives? Is she just playing mind games or what? Submitted April 12, 2019 at 07:57PM I(33m) met this woman (30f) at a bar a couple weeks ago. We exchanged numbers and texted throughout the week. This past Sunday we had our first date, spent the day together, and she ended up spending the night.This girl was all over me the entire time. Told me she was looking for som...

Ok, I know I know I know ... but I just want some thoughts and what better place to get them than from all you honest people on the internet?? ​ So I (46M) have been dating off and on since my separation/divorce (Was separated for 4 years been divorced for a year and a half). Now dating at this point in my life is far from what I really wanted but these are the cards I have been dealt. In that time I have dated on and off ... had a decent relationship with a gal who is 40 but that ran its course. I find I am just more drawn to younger .. I am not talking 20-ish but honestly prefer women late 30's to early 40's. When I do try to date my age or older its like hanging out with my mothers bridge friends and its just ... bleh. ​ So curious to hear thoughts/opinions/stories from both sides of the sexes on this. Submitted April 12, 2019 at 09:18PM Ok, I know I know I know ... but I just want some thoughts and what better place to get them than from all you honest people on ...