Amen. Also hetro-romantic here. Male attention is a hell of a drug May 22, 2023 at 01:17AM

My partner (m 48) is a well known sex therapist in our area and I (f 33) develop software/websites and run my own business. We met in 2017. We are driven, intellectual, and sensitive people, but we are just not getting along. I’d love some help. He is stoic. I am expressive. He has “fatigue.” I can stay up for 98 hours straight working on something. He could have sex once a month and be fine. I want it 3-5 times a week. We were poly and he shut it down to mono 2 years ago. Then I gained 20 lbs and he said he wasn’t attracted to me. We barely have sex now and always in the dark. I’m directly writing this post after he walked in on me masturbating - he hasn’t before. I was going to be very quick after my shower. He left the room after giving me a kiss. And is now watching American Idol. He didn’t ask to join. He didn’t invite me to watch Idol with him. I feel like he’s avoidant and just want to understand how to handle him better because he’s bright, funny, and practical, and wort

WAIT... I knew about cake.. I literally know what it means.. but I was today years old when I realized what that song meant... Omg 😭 May 22, 2023 at 12:08AM

I am 30 years old man who haven't been in a relationship before for multiple reasons including some kind of social anxiety + traveling! Used online dating for 2 years and been to many dates but no relationship because me or them didn't want to continue. This is my only way to talk to/approach women in life and I gave up Submitted May 22, 2023 at 12:16AM I am 30 years old man who haven't been in a relationship before for multiple reasons including some kind of social anxiety + traveling! Used online dating for 2 years and been to many dates but no relationship because me or them didn't want to continue. This is my only way to talk to/approach women in life and I gave up

My stomach and intestine and their burning pain after eating would have somethign to say about that. May 21, 2023 at 10:14PM