-That we are mutually attracted to each other - hell yes or nothing. -Crazy in love with me. -Medium to high sex drive. -Patient and willing to compromise/be honest. Be a good person. -Have practical plans, and be moving forward in life. (This applies to their living situation, money issues, career, etc.) ​ Anything else I should add/subtract? Submitted October 03, 2020 at 11:58PM -That we are mutually attracted to each other - hell yes or nothing.-Crazy in love with me.-Medium to high sex drive.-Patient and willing to compromise/be honest. Be a good person.-Have practical plans, and be moving forward in life. (This applies to their living situation, money issues, career, etc.)​Anything else I should add/subtract?

So here’s my “story”. In Jan/feb I gotta dm on a s.n site. Ever since then we’ve been talking. Video chatted twice. Never met in person though. With covid and what not it was kinda hard. He lives about 4 hours away too. He seems very caring always giving me advice about things. Even today I was so annoyed by something that happened and he just happened to call and talk to me to where I wasn’t even upset anymore. I told him that I appreciate his calls bc he always knows what to say. I’ll admit I don’t call him as much but it’s not for any particular reason. Basically I’m just wondering if I’m liking him or liking the idea of him. It’s hard to differentiate. Submitted October 04, 2020 at 12:02AM So here’s my “story”. In Jan/feb I gotta dm on a s.n site. Ever since then we’ve been talking. Video chatted twice. Never met in person though. With covid and what not it was kinda hard. He lives about 4 hours away too. He seems very caring always giving me advice about things. Even today ...

Hey, everyone. I’m a south asian male who is 26 and decided it’s maybe time to look for something since im not getting any younger. The issue is that due to being so career focused, I’ve never been in a romantic relationship before. On top of this, I just finished medical school and I’m in an orthopedic surgery residency program and work 80-100 hours a week and this will continue until i finish residency in 5 years. How do i go out and find someone with my limited time? I like to think I’m decently attractive, I’m 6’2, decent facial features and normal BMI while going to the gym 3x a week. Keep in mind I’ve never tried or wanted a relationship until now. I’m in the United States. Thanks in advance. Submitted October 04, 2020 at 12:02AM Hey, everyone. I’m a south asian male who is 26 and decided it’s maybe time to look for something since im not getting any younger. The issue is that due to being so career focused, I’ve never been in a romantic relationship before. On top of thi...

Is he not interested? Am I overthinking? I went on my second date with a guy I’ve been talking to from a dating app for a long time during lockdown. It was nice and he said he’ll be in touch to arrange another date, covid dependent. He’s never been good at replying, he’s a little older and sends weekly long messages instead of back and forth texting, he says it distracts him. Anyway, he told me he’s going away for a few weeks to see some mates. But our date was 3 weeks ago and I haven’t heard from him at all. I sent him a text to see how he’s doing and if he still wants to keep in touch but he hasn’t even replied to that. Could he still be interested, it’s only been two dates? Submitted October 04, 2020 at 12:10AM Is he not interested? Am I overthinking?I went on my second date with a guy I’ve been talking to from a dating app for a long time during lockdown. It was nice and he said he’ll be in touch to arrange another date, covid dependent. He’s never been good at replying, ...

So, I'm 27 F and came out of a six year relationship 2 years ago. It took me all this time and covid to put myself out there again. I come from Europe and maybe I was too young to know how dating really worked but I never thought multiple dating was a thing! And as someone who's introverted and always a little shy at first, OLD was my only option to meet new people. So, I went out with a couple of guys but never really felt that comfortable around them so after the first dates and some texting I dropped them, except this one guy. Dating history: We matched back in May, we texted a little (I wasn't really interested) then he disappeared and texted back again after a month. On my own initiative, I asked him if he wanted to meet up since I was traveling to Florence (we live in the same region and it takes 1.5hrs from my place) and he said yes, and there I had my 'two night stand' at the end of July. It was fun and light and haven't had sex in a long time. But T...

I went on a date with a female I met on OkCupid. I don't really have much success with females due to me sharing beliefs on the purpose of their lives and this is what happened on the first date we went on. I explained over dinner that a super healthy, peaceful and cooperative environment will inspire happiness and achieve maximum reproduction. This controlled environment is very strict as compared to how most people live, because this is what is needed in order for everyone to experience the most pleasure and fulfillment without damaging their body or mind, or harming anyone else. Each man's purpose is to build a house for himself, and attract as many females as he desires to it and live in it and be part of his family. He gets to have all the sex he desires, and impregnates all the females. His reproductive power is maximized, therefore he feels as happy and fulfilled as possible. Each female's purpose is to produce as many babies as she desires and raise them. The rea...

So tomorrow I'm (M23) planning to kiss a girl I've been dating, and I'm just curious about French kissing during the first makeout session. Of course I'll start slow to feel her out before I get adventurous with my tongue. I've kissed a fair amount of women in my life, and it seems like about half of the girls I've kissed don't like tongue action, at least not during the first kissing session. But then others are all for it. I know that it really comes down to personal preference but I'm a bit curious how the ladies of reddit feel about French kissing? For me kisses are quite boring without a little bit of tongue wrestling. Submitted October 04, 2020 at 12:13AM So tomorrow I'm (M23) planning to kiss a girl I've been dating, and I'm just curious about French kissing during the first makeout session. Of course I'll start slow to feel her out before I get adventurous with my tongue. I've kissed a fair amount of women in my life, a...

I’ve been struggling with these so much recently. I don’t have ADD or anything, but they won’t leave. As far as I’ve been able to figure out, having a mantra like “These thoughts are not a part of me” helps a ton. In addition, I like to imagine them as a little crow pecking at my head. The very reason that they’re sticking around is because they are so contrary to who you are and what you want; removing them from your identity and viewing them as an annoying, frustrating, but helpless bother can help a lot. October 04, 2020 at 12:05AM

It’s really kinda scary, looking through this subreddit and realizing that, my entire life, a whole percentage of the populous has the same fashion sense and fashion problems as I do!! Gosh I relate! October 03, 2020 at 11:57PM

As both an ace person and a tabletop rpg player, I am also offended on your behalf. Don’t worry, you’re not being overly sensitive at all, he’s just being a bit dense. October 03, 2020 at 11:48PM

Isn't it sexual and kinky stuff infiltrating D&D that often gets tales of those games promoted to rpghorrorstory territory? Clearly, your friend has no idea what roleplaying means in the nerdy context of D&D. I'd be frustrated too if a friend insisted my evenings of killing undead are somehow sexual or kinky. I don't know what you can do about it if you already tried to explain and he was too boneheaded to listen to a single word. Maybe find the unsexiest session recording from the merry selection of D&D adventures found online like YouTube? :b An actual example might make it easier to comprehend how it's a totally different ballpark from playing a maid in the bedroom or whatever it is he thinks roleplaying means. October 03, 2020 at 11:40PM

This flag is neat, but id like an aroace flag and tell everyone its a sunset iver the sea October 03, 2020 at 11:38PM

It's not uncommon for asexuals to be faced with this dilemma as they're figuring themselves out. It's true that having sex is portrayed as essential in much of society, and it can be difficult to convince yourself that you are valid. But you don't owe anyone sex. If you don't want it, then anyone you're with should respect that. And that goes for any orientation: Gay, straight, ace. You are not obligated to provide sexual pleasure to someone. It's really nobody else's business whether you choose to have sex. Some asexuals are fine with having sex, and even enjoy it. But they're not sexually attracted to anyone. Others are sex-repulsed, meaning they do not want sex and may actually be disgusted by it. Both are totally valid orientations! At the end of the day, it's your body, and you have the final say. If someone can't accept that, then that's their problem, not yours. The important thing is, you have to understand there is nothing ...

Why are you here, then? October 03, 2020 at 11:28PM

It’s Japanese and might not be to everyone’s taste, and it’s not the intended meaning, but “Konoyo Loading” by Reol October 03, 2020 at 11:23PM

is that... duct tape...? October 03, 2020 at 11:17PM

My partner is Ace and I'm Allo 5 + years and going strong! October 03, 2020 at 11:15PM

Eyy, been married to a straight guy for almost three and a half years now. It's a small club, but we're all happy to be in it. Congratulations and I wish you all the best. October 03, 2020 at 11:14PM

i hate my sexuality i am less of a human for being asexual October 03, 2020 at 11:11PM

It's definitely been a difficult area in our relationship. To complicate things, he doesn't want me to try. If I'm making an effort, and not just feeling it spontaneously, he feels guilty. I'm happy to put in the work (that sounds bad, but it's something I want to do), but he doesn't want it if it feels forced. So there's no way to meet in the middle. Fun fact, we've been together since 2008, and I just figured that out a couple weeks ago. October 03, 2020 at 11:10PM

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