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Good Way to Ask a Girl to be Your Girlfriend

So me and this girl have been seeing eachother for over a month now and we clearly like eachother a lot we kissed once and we want to make it official but she said she wants me to ask her out in a really romantic way and i honestly have no idea how to do it, i’m 19 she’s 17 Submitted November 02, 2019 at 12:08AM So me and this girl have been seeing eachother for over a month now and we clearly like eachother a lot we kissed once and we want to make it official but she said she wants me to ask her out in a really romantic way and i honestly have no idea how to do it, i’m 19 she’s 17

Bad vibes?

Alright I started chatting with this girl on tinder. Not much back and forth before I got her number and texted her. We haven’t met yet but we had plans to today which fell through on my part and decided we could put them off for a upcoming day. I have had people who I gave seen in the past and she just gives me vibes of someone who I use to date that passed away and just the thought of it gives me bad anxiety to where I don’t even want to go see her. I think she is a lovely girl and all but I feels extra weird. I’ve never been able to compare my past partner with someone current and it really for whatever reason makes me nervous. Advice? Submitted November 02, 2019 at 12:10AM Alright I started chatting with this girl on tinder. Not much back and forth before I got her number and texted her. We haven’t met yet but we had plans to today which fell through on my part and decided we could put them off for a upcoming day. I have had people who I gave seen in the past and she just gi...

Is it realistic to go for a guy who is way out of my league?

This isn't about looks, I'm talking about social class...basically he's part of the nobility (England) and I'm just a regular girl (AKA a commoner lol). He said he's really attracted to me and I feel the same, and we're going on a date soon, but I know how the world works and his family will never approve of me. Would it be pointless? P.s. this is a throwaway account because I don't want family/friends knowing about my situation just yet Submitted November 02, 2019 at 12:14AM This isn't about looks, I'm talking about social class...basically he's part of the nobility (England) and I'm just a regular girl (AKA a commoner lol). He said he's really attracted to me and I feel the same, and we're going on a date soon, but I know how the world works and his family will never approve of me. Would it be pointless?P.s. this is a throwaway account because I don't want family/friends knowing about my situation just yet

Feeing so stupid: heartbroken over being ghosted

I really fucking like this guy [26M] I [27F] was talking to. Now it’s been almost 2 days of silence on his end. He hasn’t even opened the last text I sent him, even tho he’s active on social media and has obviously gotten it. So I’m pretty sure I’m ghosted. I just feel stupid for letting myself feel something for him. I just want to get over this stupid pain. Fuck, I feel stupid.. for getting attached so quick and actually believing this could be something special, when it clearly wasn’t Submitted November 02, 2019 at 12:14AM I really fucking like this guy [26M] I [27F] was talking to. Now it’s been almost 2 days of silence on his end. He hasn’t even opened the last text I sent him, even tho he’s active on social media and has obviously gotten it. So I’m pretty sure I’m ghosted. I just feel stupid for letting myself feel something for him. I just want to get over this stupid pain. Fuck, I feel stupid.. for getting attached so quick and actually believing this could be something ...

So people were asking about my long distance bf cheating because I talked about blowing a guy, here's an update

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/dl0lix/my_16f_longdistance_boyfriend_16m_almost_cheated/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/dqbur0/update_i_blew_a_guy_and_now_he_just_wants_to_be/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share The two posts that confused people ^ I broke up with the boyfriend I had but I still have feelings for him. This guy came along and said he had feelings for me pretty much just to get me to blow him. Sooo, that's the update. Now I feel gross and kinda hate myself for everything I don't know where to put this, soooo, sorry Submitted November 02, 2019 at 12:22AM https://ift.tt/2WxXioc two posts that confused people^I broke up with the boyfriend I had but I still have feelings for him. This guy came along and said he had feelings for me pretty much just to get me to blow him. Sooo, that's the update. Now I feel gross and kinda hate myself for everythingI don't know where to ...

New guy I’m dating couldn’t get erection twice and I’m wondering if it’s me...

So I just started dating after a year and a half. I met this great guy and we have amazing chemistry. I told him he was the first guy I’ve been with in a long time and after about 10 minutes he went soft.. he said he just wanted to cuddle. The next morning we tried again and it happened again and he apologized and we kissed and cuddled and I asked if He wanted me to go down on him and he said no. I’m not sure how to feel. I think he felt bad but I just acted like it wasn’t a big deal. It did hurt me and made me feel bad.. Has anyone been through this before? Is this a red flag? Thanks guys! Submitted November 02, 2019 at 12:23AM So I just started dating after a year and a half. I met this great guy and we have amazing chemistry. I told him he was the first guy I’ve been with in a long time and after about 10 minutes he went soft.. he said he just wanted to cuddle. The next morning we tried again and it happened again and he apologized and we kissed and cuddled and I asked if H...

/u/Undercoveridot on That’s one way of explaining it.

Lmao November 02, 2019 at 12:23AM

/u/Mangobunny98 on I feel bad about having a winning edge in No Nut November.

I've decided to try it just to see how it goes. But before I was like do I even masturabate once a month on a regular basis? November 02, 2019 at 12:22AM

/u/BluudLust on Parvati in The Outer Worlds is ACE!!!

Totally agree. And wonderfully articulate and thought out response. They really shot themselves in the foot with the setting. Should've gone for some communist uprising plotline.. that way you could see yourself having to decide the lesser evil. They somewhat touched on that theme throughout the whole game, but never really explored it. Looked like the wanted to quite often, but we're too scared to get into politics. November 02, 2019 at 12:21AM

/u/Allyian05 on Watch out, allos

This could be a video of me. November 02, 2019 at 12:18AM

/u/Undercoveridot on Walked around school with this. Don't know if anyone caught on...

Nice but when I was scrolling o only saw 2 colors and thought the white was tan so I thought you colored your middle finger purple to constantly hold on a thanos middle finger November 02, 2019 at 12:18AM

How do I break up with my boyfriend nicely without hurting his feelings?

Alright so my boyfriend of 4 months said that If I wanted we could try sex he’s very sweet and funny so I said yes when we got to bed and he took his shirt off he was kinda chubby not fat but chubby and I got pissed at him for it so I made a excuse not to do it tonight but idk how to break up with him I’m mad at him for not telling me he’s chubby he wears big jackets all the time and never told me his weight I don’t like chubby guys they are gross so how should I break up with him? Tl:dr my boyfriend didn’t tell me about weight when we almost had sex so now I don’t want to date him how should I break up with him? Submitted November 01, 2019 at 10:50PM Alright so my boyfriend of 4 months said that If I wanted we could try sex he’s very sweet and funny so I said yes when we got to bed and he took his shirt off he was kinda chubby not fat but chubby and I got pissed at him for it so I made a excuse not to do it tonight but idk how to break up with him I’m mad at him for not tellin...

I’m (F18) doubting my compatibility with my boyfriend (19) after entering a LTR, but I have plane tickets booked to go see him

TL;DR at the bottom Need some advice and other opinions. I’ve been with my bf for 10 months as I met him when he was backpacking in my country in February and basically ever since I met him we spent all our time together and it was really great at the start. Ever since then he’s been back in his home country for about 2 months and since I’ve been able to step back and have a look at our relationship I’m genuinely started to get worried we’re not that great for each other after all. It kind of seems like we have different ways we look at life and want to spend our time. In my free time I’m trying to incorporate creating things like drawing, music, reading, spending time in nature, basically trying to avoid looking at a screen. But my boyfriend loves to live a ‘chill’ lifestyle in everyday life and every time he tells me all he did all day was eat, sleep and watch Netflix my heart sort of sinks. When he was with me I didn’t realise how lonely I felt because I spent a lot of my time ...

"Facial bone genetics"

https://ift.tt/2ozAhES Submitted November 01, 2019 at 11:14PM https://ift.tt/2ozAhES

A guy on my facebook who constantly complains about women but claims he’s the perfect man.

https://ift.tt/2WwQmYE Submitted November 01, 2019 at 11:16PM https://ift.tt/2WwQmYE

God that escalated

https://ift.tt/34lUgGs Submitted November 01, 2019 at 11:40PM https://ift.tt/34lUgGs

/u/space_fern on We need a clothing aesthetic!

Right! I'm an idiot and forgot places can be like, 40° November 02, 2019 at 12:09AM

/u/darkwavewitch on We need a clothing aesthetic!

No offense but I'm gonna go ahead and veto the coats. Florida is not a coat-friendly place. Scarves might work though. November 02, 2019 at 12:05AM

/u/FireFoxx3793 on That’s one way of explaining it.

Celibacy: Door is painted shut November 02, 2019 at 12:01AM

I need advice, how do you know if a guy genuinely like you or just messing around?

So, I met this guy online and he lives so far away. There’s timezone too, we’ve been talking for more than a month, he always text me during work hours but when he is home he stopped or the quantities of text will lessen, he will be so distant on weekends and my text will be ignored. It makes me anxious, he often asked for my selfie nothing sexual just my face and I told him I was sexually assaulted and grow up in a culture where sexual topic isn’t widely and openly discussed. And he apparently, thinks physically touch important, he knows everything and said he respect me and like me more as a person than just sex. But been telling me he has wet dreams with me, several times. And I don’t know how to react and it’s awkward for me as well. And I can’t stop wondering whether he sees me as a person or just sexually attractive. But, I also wonder why would he stays for a month and more if he wants to have sex he can do it with someone who lives near him. But, the inconsistency text always ...

Fear of being the rebound

I (25,F) have noticed I have a fear of being the rebound. It's to the point where If I meet a guy I find attractive and go on a date my attraction almost instantly turns off the moment they tell me they left a long term relationship or a marriage. It doesn't matter if it ended a whole year ago. I had a guy tell me his last relationship lasted 8 years and that he's still friends with his exes, they just grew apart and broke up 3 years ago. Both the length of the relationship as well as the "still friends part" sent me into a mini panic mode and immediately knew It was not going to work out between us and that died down fast. I absolutely avoid divorcees too. Is this normal? Does anyone else experience this? And to what capacity and how has it affected your life? Submitted November 01, 2019 at 11:49PM I (25,F) have noticed I have a fear of being the rebound. It's to the point where If I meet a guy I find attractive and go on a date my attraction almost in...

Incredibly shy girl and I have been talking for a while, but I’m not sure if I’m making any progress?

We’ve been talking for a few months, and we hangout every few weeks, and while I have shown interest in her (flirty memes, flirtatious messages, invited her out to the movies (not often)), I don’t feel like I’m making any progress relationship wise? We marathoned shows, we game together when we are both free (very rarely), she recently invited me and her childhood friend to come help her out with her room. She sometimes compliments me behind my back (very rarely will she compliment me to my face)). Her childhood friend keep telling me that I’m doing incredible progress, but I don’t know if I feel it? And I don’t know if I don’t feel it because she’s very shy, or because I’m dense? We often talk about depression together We’ll soon have a 40+40 minute car ride together, to go celebrate our friends birthday. Do you peeps have any advice to give? I’m very confused. I don’t like having feelings for someone, so I don’t know if I should just quit trying to go out with her, or if I shoul...

What are some opinions on a senior in high school (17M) dating a freshmen in high school (14F)

I’m not trying to be creepy or take advantage of her. It’s just that she’s the first girl who hasn’t stopped talking to me because of my weird sense of humor or my sarcasm. For once, I can talk to a girl and have a normal conversation and be my true self around her. The problem is that she’s a freshmen and 3 years younger than me. I need some advice and don’t say like “age is just a number” stuff. I need real advice. Submitted November 02, 2019 at 12:09AM I’m not trying to be creepy or take advantage of her. It’s just that she’s the first girl who hasn’t stopped talking to me because of my weird sense of humor or my sarcasm. For once, I can talk to a girl and have a normal conversation and be my true self around her. The problem is that she’s a freshmen and 3 years younger than me. I need some advice and don’t say like “age is just a number” stuff. I need real advice.