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My ex keeps stalking my friend's

my ex, which i have broke up with about 2 years ago is stalking my friend's Instagram accounts through "story" function. She sees nearly every post. I don't think it can be called stalking, because the stories are not private, but knowing that she types their names manually every day to see their updates, feels odd. I guess part of me misses her and finds it sad that she couldn't let me go after all this time. I guess we never had closure. 2 years ago, after we broke up, i blocked her everywhere, and the friends she stalks, she doesn't have any relations with them, she just heard about them through me. How do i reach out and catch up with her without making this weirded than it is? Submitted May 03, 2022 at 11:46PM my ex, which i have broke up with about 2 years ago is stalking my friend's Instagram accounts through "story" function. She sees nearly every post. I don't think it can be called stalking, because the stories are not privat

UPDATE: women I just met being really forward. Her girlfriends told me to stay away from her. Not sure how to handle

Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/ugx5y8/women_i_just_met_being_really_forward_her/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf TDLR: an emotional moment for me seeing all the in depth responses. this has given me a different outlook on the people I date in the future and hopefully this posts helps both men and women recognize red flags. Daren told me Jayden did cheat on her last boyfriend(that she did lie about her being cheated on) he old me that she “isn’t girlfriend material.” Jayden did make out with another guy not even 10 minutes once I left the bar. He told me he’s seen so guys go down this road with Jayden. Some of the responses were kind of a slap in the face which maybe I did need lol. I talked to Daren today and he told me that she did cheat on her boyfriend last year. She sleeps around a lot(no judgement) and has mental health issues that are pretty severe. He told me he didn’t want to go into details for the sake of her priv

I’m not sure if this is a good or bad sign from a guy

I have kinda a crush on this guy. I feel like what he said shows he likes me as a person. But it makes me question if it means I’m not someone he would be interested in. Because he did say “you two”. He has a lot of girls as friends and is just friends with a lot of people in general. And he introduced me to one of his friends at a party who is super super pretty. He said something like “my two favorite ladies” to introduce us. I can’t remember exactly what else he said. But if a guy introduces you like that does that shows he’s not interested in you in a relationship way vs friend way Submitted May 03, 2022 at 11:50PM I have kinda a crush on this guy. I feel like what he said shows he likes me as a person. But it makes me question if it means I’m not someone he would be interested in. Because he did say “you two”.He has a lot of girls as friends and is just friends with a lot of people in general. And he introduced me to one of his friends at a party who is super super pretty

Boyfriend (25M) talks to girl best friend a lot

I’ve (21F) been dating my bf for about 3 months now. I had a conversation with him a few weeks ago about how he answered his friend’s call in the middle of our video call. I thought it was rude, and his reasoning was that she was leaving out of town for a couple of days and won’t be able to contact each other during and was sorry. I brushed it off then but i was just thinking about it today and it’s bugging me the fact that she needs him for emotional support constantly and doesn’t have or go to other people. He even told me that she once called him, crying, saying how much he misses him, etc ??? I do think men and women can be friends but it doesn’t sit right with me. I know they talk (text, call) a lot because he tells me stories about their friendship once in a while and I’m supportive and never make a fuss about it. They’ve been friends since university and she lives back in his home country. Should i talk to him about what i feel? Submitted May 03, 2022 at 11:57PM I’ve (21

Should I confront her or go along?

So about a month ago I matched with a girl on Tinder. We texted, and a week later we go on a first date, a really amazing date, I loved it, she told me she loved it. Then a week later we go on a second date, a bit underwhelming in my opinion but she enjoyed it, I thought I might still give her another chance because we had such a good first date. She tells me she's going out of town for the week so she will text me when she comes back to arrange something. From her Instagram stories I understand that she left for a couple days and not a full week, but she didn't text me to tell me she was back. I didn't really confront her but I innocently texted her to know what's up and get confirmation that she was back in town, and she was pretty cold by text so this conversation didn't really last. It was the last time we talked. She was cold, she didn't try to arrange something, so I moved on. And today she texts me like nothing happened just asking me if I wanna go out

/u/CarTight3686 on what's your favorite song that reminds you of the feeling if being an ace

Thanks for the suggestions. You seem to have a very interesting playlist 👍 May 03, 2022 at 11:14PM

/u/birdboxbin on In case anyone needs to hear:

That’s fair May 03, 2022 at 11:11PM