What does it mean if after an orgasm you don't really feel relieved and instead you feel you could still be going on and going forward? Submitted February 20, 2020 at 11:34PM What does it mean if after an orgasm you don't really feel relieved and instead you feel you could still be going on and going forward?

We've been struggling with this for a while now and need help. What are some ways to make sex more passionate instead of just having sex. We don't want it to just be fucking, we want to make love. Submitted February 20, 2020 at 11:34PM We've been struggling with this for a while now and need help. What are some ways to make sex more passionate instead of just having sex. We don't want it to just be fucking, we want to make love.

I(23m) have been dating my girlfriend(20f) since past 14months. We have great sex life and other things we are compatible. So recently my girlfriend found out about Webcamming shows and wanted to give it a try She did her first show about a month and a half ago which she didn’t get fully naked but partially Nowadays when she does these shows she doesn’t shy away from being naked at all and fucking herself for free public Webcam shows Is there a need for a concern guys ? Or should I just go with the flow Submitted February 20, 2020 at 11:41PM I(23m) have been dating my girlfriend(20f) since past 14months. We have great sex life and other things we are compatible.So recently my girlfriend found out about Webcamming shows and wanted to give it a tryShe did her first show about a month and a half ago which she didn’t get fully naked but partiallyNowadays when she does these shows she doesn’t shy away from being naked at all and fucking herself for free public Webcam showsIs ther...

More specifically—are there any ingredients in my lube that I should avoid? Submitted February 20, 2020 at 11:42PM More specifically—are there any ingredients in my lube that I should avoid?

No I dont take pictures pictures of girls without consent if thats what some of you would think. But I wont mind if a woman accidentally flashes her pristine white knickers infront of me! Well anyway as my title says.. me 37M and my SO 34F are into this routine as it makes for great sex aftewards.. She would put on a nice black dress for the night not too short or revealing some thing you can wear at the office! And she would be sitting accros the table from me and would cross and uncross her legs and at times I would get a glimpse of her white knickers!! White just looks more of a turn on under a black dress because of the contrast! Its sort of a foreplay roleplay thing..they Is this kink weird or too borring? Submitted February 20, 2020 at 11:43PM No I dont take pictures pictures of girls without consent if thats what some of you would think.But I wont mind if a woman accidentally flashes her pristine white knickers infront of me!Well anyway as my title says.. me 37M and ...

I (16f) let my (16m) boyfriend go down on me. It was my first time ever. It wasn’t bad. But it didn’t last long due to other circumstances. A little backstory. So I was sexually assaulted when I was nine. It’s been hard for me to see people the same since and have any attraction at all. I did have a liking towards this one guy but he took advantage of me and didn’t even care when I told him about my past beforehand. In fact he pressured me into stuff that I don’t wanna mention. My current SO is my first real boyfriend. And my god is he perfect. Literally everything I could ask for. But there’s one thing. Our relationship is a secret due to the fact that his family is strictly Jehovah’s Witness and doesn’t allow him to date. And if they found out about us they would kick him out and he would be disfellowshipped and disowned completely. Despite the circumstances he still wanted to date me. It’s now been four months and we are really happy. I told him about my past and he’s been taking ...

Watch a movie or TV show, search online for the hot chick in it, find naked photos, do your business. It's a simple enough process. Been an internet staple since the AOL days. Here are naked photos of that girl you were looking for. Straight-forward. Mrskin, celebritymoviearchive, nudography, phun forums, et cetera et cetera. Then with Reddit - /r/watchitfortheplot , /r/celebnsfw , and a litany of others. Over the last few years though, I've seen a growing number of "let me tell you about how I want to jerk off to this celebrity" subreddits. These subs are getting bigger and show up in my search results. Sidenote - if I can remove subreddits from my search results I'd love to hear it, I personally do not want to read about dudes jerkin off. Yes, obviously they are, but I don't want to read or hear about it. Aside from my personal desire to not hear about how some dude is "strokin his cock" to whatever TV show he's watching (in the submission...

Hey. I personally really like sexting even though I’m not very good at it any advice I have honestly no idea what to say especially to guys what do guys want to hear when defying or just dirty talk? Help!? These are two things that can completely kill the mood and I don’t want to mess up that badly please send some advice and help my way thank you Submitted February 20, 2020 at 11:48PM Hey. I personally really like sexting even though I’m not very good at it any advice I have honestly no idea what to say especially to guys what do guys want to hear when defying or just dirty talk? Help!? These are two things that can completely kill the mood and I don’t want to mess up that badly please send some advice and help my way thank you

I’m young and my boyfriend is the first person I’ve done ANYTHING with. I love him so much and he is incredibly patient, caring, and understanding with me as I learn about my body, too. But since being with him, I’ve faked my orgasms because I felt like I couldn’t and that I was broken, and I wanted to make him feel happy and fulfilled. He approached me about it about a month ago and I felt awful, but he wasn’t mad at me. He just wants both of us to have a good time together. I love him so much and I feel so awful that I lied to him and let him down. Now I’m trying to figure out my body and it’s so hard to orgasm with my fingers (I understand his pain now). I learned to orgasm by rubbing against a chair with my clothes on with some markers underneath. I think I rub too hard because I can’t get off when my boyfriend rubs me, fingers me, eats me out, etc. So I’m going cold turkey on the chair rubbing to see if I can gain some of that sensitivity back. I read things on here that said t...

I’m 18F and it is really bothering me to the point where I cry about it. I love the idea of sex, I have things that turn me on. I love masturbation. It’s not that I have no sexual feeling, but whenever I am touched by a guy I physically recoil. I don’t do it consciously and I don’t know why it happens but even when someone kisses me I instinctively lunge away. When I lost my virginity the foreplay he did on me did nothing and when I was giving head he told me after a few mins to give up because I just wasn’t getting it. The whole time my brain was screaming at me that it was wrong. When he ate me out I just...felt nothing and he got upset about that. I tried to fake and orgasm to get it over with and he was not impressed. I wasn’t wet so during intercourse it hurt and I was physically shaking throughout. He kept offering to stop but I said he could just finish. He did and then left and blocked me and said I was weird. I hate it because was physically attracted to him but it didn’t......

Just wondering if anyone knows some dating sites that you aren't required to post your face up for a 10 miles radius when you make an account. Trying to go a little incognito.... Don't want people in my locale to see this. Cheers Submitted February 20, 2020 at 11:53PM Just wondering if anyone knows some dating sites that you aren't required to post your face up for a 10 miles radius when you make an account. Trying to go a little incognito.... Don't want people in my locale to see this. Cheers

So I was just edging when I got the idea to finger the part underneath the balls and somehow out of no where came this amazing feeling that I haven’t had before And I cummed a lot 10/10 would recommend Submitted February 20, 2020 at 11:57PM So I was just edging when I got the idea to finger the part underneath the balls and somehow out of no where came this amazing feeling that I haven’t had before And I cummed a lot10/10 would recommend

I got divorced mid last year. I hate being alone but this is the longest i have ever been single by choice and I’m proud of myself. Prior to marriage I would jump from relationship to relationship because after I’d break up with someone or vice versa someone else would want to date me right away. So this time I’m like I got to process everything and stayed single. What I want I feel like is impossible to find :/ My dream dude would be a Business minded musician or minister that we could travel the world together doing missionary work and ministry together with my contribution being music & ministry. I joined eharmony like 2 weeks ago and got no hits. I did meet one minister and we almost met today but were too far apart. I feel like I am on some black list don’t date her list either that or guys want the young ones and think I’m ugly after I hit 30 lol. I think I look pretty good for 38 everyone thinks I’m mid 20s still. I do not get it. Submitted February 21, 2020 at 12:17AM...

Hey awesome people. Been scrolling a little because I was nervous to post but everyone here seems pretty chill and relaxed. I have some questions and I'm definitely seeking answers. 23(m) my wife is a sub. Like almost 100%. Not that I mind, I love eating her out and pleasing her. Now she wants to try new things, such as bandage. Of which I have no experience with, but I could use some advice on the topic. And if some other subs would also mention things that they would suggest for me to try with her (consensually of course) that would be great. Thanks for your time! Have an awesome weekend! Submitted February 21, 2020 at 12:02AM Hey awesome people. Been scrolling a little because I was nervous to post but everyone here seems pretty chill and relaxed. I have some questions and I'm definitely seeking answers. 23(m) my wife is a sub. Like almost 100%. Not that I mind, I love eating her out and pleasing her. Now she wants to try new things, such as bandage. Of which I have n...

Long story short I hooked up with M22 last year (we met off tinder but we’ve been talking online for a year or so before meeting) around this time, and the again near the end of last year. He texted me he was interested in hooking up after the first time, but after the second time we havent talked since. We still have each other on social media, would it be a good idea to message him or should I just let it go? Submitted February 21, 2020 at 12:04AM Long story short I hooked up with M22 last year (we met off tinder but we’ve been talking online for a year or so before meeting) around this time, and the again near the end of last year. He texted me he was interested in hooking up after the first time, but after the second time we havent talked since. We still have each other on social media, would it be a good idea to message him or should I just let it go?

I just realized it must be seriously distracting to him when I sometimes share naughty thoughts or pics when I think I look good. I can't imagine he can concentrate on things if I really get into the mood particularly with his favorite topics. Should I stop? He hasn't really given me any negative feedback but maybe I should be more polite? Submitted February 21, 2020 at 12:12AM I just realized it must be seriously distracting to him when I sometimes share naughty thoughts or pics when I think I look good. I can't imagine he can concentrate on things if I really get into the mood particularly with his favorite topics. Should I stop? He hasn't really given me any negative feedback but maybe I should be more polite?

Please do not comment if you are not going to try to help with the problem I am asking about. My partner (18) recently told me that when they and I (20) have sex I get so wet that to feel anything due to lack of friction. I can not cum from sex, so this is not from cumming or arousal level (I still get wet when unaroused so long as I'm having sex.) Cutting out most if not all of our foreplay doesn't seem to help because it has absolutely nothing to do with how turned on I am it just happens. I would like to have sex without needing to wipe off with a towel and without penetration being less enjoyable and have less sensation for not only my partner, but myself as well I just didn't mention it until he had a problem as well. I have seen a doctor and I am anatomically fine, have no STI's or anatomical abnormalities and my hormones are fine in my bloodwork. My vagina is also narrow and short, and my partner is average sized (actually slightly big for me.) My pelvic floor...

For those of you who have dominant partners, how did you find them? Was it something that you learned how to do together, or did you specifically look for someone who is dominant, and if so, how? And for those of you who are dominant, how do you seek out submissive partners? Asking because I have been dating casually looking for someone who is dominant and I, more often than not, end up with people who are apprehensive about being dominant (or who aren't domineering enough to put me in my place). Submitted February 21, 2020 at 12:16AM For those of you who have dominant partners, how did you find them? Was it something that you learned how to do together, or did you specifically look for someone who is dominant, and if so, how?And for those of you who are dominant, how do you seek out submissive partners?Asking because I have been dating casually looking for someone who is dominant and I, more often than not, end up with people who are apprehensive about being dominant (or ...

I'm talking to a girl I like and it feels like the responsiveness has dipped. Sadly I'm the type of person that this kind of makes me panic a little. If she's still responding that means she still wants to talk but I'm not sure, part of me wants to ask if everything is alright. I'm always worried in the back of my mind that maybe I messaged too much or I said something that was unappealing and that I lost the momentum and that it will be over soon. Submitted February 21, 2020 at 12:01AM I'm talking to a girl I like and it feels like the responsiveness has dipped. Sadly I'm the type of person that this kind of makes me panic a little. If she's still responding that means she still wants to talk but I'm not sure, part of me wants to ask if everything is alright. I'm always worried in the back of my mind that maybe I messaged too much or I said something that was unappealing and that I lost the momentum and that it will be over soon.

To give a bit of back story, I’m 22 and the girl is 26. We met at this past Thanksgiving. This girl, let’s call her ‘Amber’ is my dad’s friends daughter. She’s very good looking, great body and doing well financially. She actually came with her boyfriend lol. So, later during the day she comes up to me and strikes up a conversation and at the end asks for my number. I give it not expecting too much and figuring she was just being friendly. The next night however, she texts me and invites me out to DC with her and her girls. She says she has a hotel and everything. I end up going with a friend of mine to find that it was just her and all her friends bailed. We ended up having a good time just the three of us and at the end me and my friend head out. I decline the invitation to spend the night there ( I’ve come to regret this). Since then we’ve stayed in contact( mostly from her reaching out) trying to make plans to go out to a club/ festival type event. Couple weeks later amber tells ...

I’m 17, never been in a relationship, and struggle a lot with my self-esteem, insecurity, and lack of motivation/discipline. I’m struggling to make it through school and take care of myself, even though I’m fairly smart. I’ve been feeling lonely and needy for a relationship for maybe a year and a half at this point. It used to make me very sad/upset, but now that I’ve gotten used to it (and am on antidepressants) it isn’t as violent an insecurity. But I still feel it, and it can get me down sometimes even when I know I shouldn’t be worrying about it. I’ve had a couple girls sort of interested in me, but it went nowhere and they quickly lost interest. Nothing makes me worried more than reading about people who sound just like me still struggling with these problems past 20, or past 25, or 30. At that point it seems terrifying. I don’t know if I could handle feeling like this for a whole decade, or longer. It makes me scared thinking about it, just the idea of growing up and never impro...

before I start, sorry if I say something wrong bc english isn't my first language. so, I'm 18 (F) and there's this guy, 23. I've just seen him once, last week, at my college's library. he's from the same course of my friend, and they have a class together but he never talked to her until that day. so, I was with her and I asked she to borrow me a pen, she didn't had one, and he offered me his pen. we talked for a while but not that much bc he was going to have a test and he needed to study. when he was leaving, he said to me that I didn't had to give him the pen back at that moment, that I could give it to my friend and she would bring it back to him later. I gave him the pen back anyways and said goodbye. my friend said that she thinks that he was interested in me and that he was looking at me in a sweet way, but I'm not sure. haven't seen him since that day. tomorrow I'll go to my friend's class, and I'll try to talk to him in th...

I [27F] am half Chinese and half Dutch, but grew up most of my life in the UK. I have been seeing a Dutch guy, Luis [32M], for the last two months. He has been in the UK for a long time as well. Recently, he made a rather ignorant, borderline racist, comment. He was telling me about his frustrations towards a person in his co-working space. He then said to me, “even though she is mixed like you, you two wouldn’t get along at all”. That comment really stumped me, and I asked him why he needed to bring our races up. He immediately dismissed me and said “That’s not what I meant”, and continued on with the conversation. I confronted him again and told him that what he said was inappropriate and warranted an apology and discussion. In the end, he understood where I was coming from but still said I was “sensitive to these things” and that he got defensive because he knows that he “isn’t racist at all”, oh, and that he knows what it feels like because he is “vegan and gets ignorant commen...