Hi all, I'm very new to the dating spade as a 21M, I matched with a girl a few days ago and we hit it off quite well in the texts I decided to ask her if she wanted to meet up this weekend but she said she's not available until January sadly but would really like to do so whenever she can, this isn't a problem for me as I'm only going to be here for 2 more weekends as I'll be going home for Christmas until January when I will be back first week of January, Is it worth me trying to continue this or is she just using it as an excuse not to meet up? Submitted December 07, 2023 at 12:17AM Hi all, I'm very new to the dating spade as a 21M, I matched with a girl a few days ago and we hit it off quite well in the texts I decided to ask her if she wanted to meet up this weekend but she said she's not available until January sadly but would really like to do so whenever she can, this isn't a problem for me as I'm only going to be here for 2 more weeke