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I(18m)gave her (18F) my number, but she hasn't texted me. What should I do?

So I worked a few weeks at a summer camp with this girl. We got along pretty well. I was assigned to work with her a lot so we had many interactions. I thought she liked me a bit but I have to admit she gave some mixed signals. The positive signals were that she was perfectly fine spending time alone with me. For example because we worked together I taught her 1 on 1 how to do a lot of things. Also at the end of the two weeks she wanted to hug me like twice which I thought was weird. From my experience women only act that way with their own gender. But she also had some negative signs. One time when I was going to add her to a photo sharing app that my other coworkers and I shared I asked for her number so I could send her the invite. She said she didn't have her phone on her and she didn't have her number memorized. So I saw her last week at an fall event. We talked a bit and had some positive interactions. When I was leaving I gave her my number. It's been a few days an...

Is he not interested anymore?

(35F) (58M) I randomly met someone while walking my dog one day and he asked me if I’d like to get coffee or lunch sometime. We exchanged numbers and 5 days later we went out to dinner. Prior to those 5 days, he called me everyday for 4 days and we would just talk for about 10 minutes. Obviously talked with him on the day we went out on our date. He called me the next day. Then I didn’t hear from him for a day then he called me everyday for 3 days. I sent him a text of a picture of something I made on Saturday and he replied quickly. We exchanged a few texts. He had plans Saturday so I didn’t want to bother him. I haven’t heard from him since then pretty much. I’m unsure if either he lost interest, was only looking for a hookup or maybe he felt I wasn’t interested since he was the one initiating the phone calls. Sometimes I feel confused on what to do here because of how “men should be taking the lead” “if he wanted to he would” I really have no problem making a call or whatever but I...

(19m) in a transitional phase in life should I be pursuing dating or my passion?

So I've mingled around with a few girls and nothing ever came of it and dating is honestly starting to feel boring and hopeless right now idk if it's just poor choice of women or me being focused on other things I've been on a self improvement journey I've quit drinking and working on quitting weed and porn doing good so far and I'm pursuing my dream of becoming a pro athlete in muay thai and it takes up a lot of time I feel like any time I've tried talking too a woman I'm interested in I end up getting friend zoned I went on a date with a girl I saw on Instagram and she canceled halfway through the date cause she got nervous and maybe a month or two later she hit me up again and we had a one night stand and she never spoke to me again another girl I talked too about a month thought it went well so I made a move and put my arm around her and we cuddled and watched a movie then the morning after I got ghosted I feel like my time is more well spent pursuing m...

Ayazhan Alibayeva and Feruza Kayumova

If you come across either one of these two women online and they ask you for money do not give them any. They are both scammers they will just take your money. Submitted October 25, 2023 at 12:13AM If you come across either one of these two women online and they ask you for money do not give them any. They are both scammers they will just take your money.