I(18m)gave her (18F) my number, but she hasn't texted me. What should I do?

So I worked a few weeks at a summer camp with this girl. We got along pretty well. I was assigned to work with her a lot so we had many interactions. I thought she liked me a bit but I have to admit she gave some mixed signals. The positive signals were that she was perfectly fine spending time alone with me. For example because we worked together I taught her 1 on 1 how to do a lot of things. Also at the end of the two weeks she wanted to hug me like twice which I thought was weird. From my experience women only act that way with their own gender. But she also had some negative signs. One time when I was going to add her to a photo sharing app that my other coworkers and I shared I asked for her number so I could send her the invite. She said she didn't have her phone on her and she didn't have her number memorized.

So I saw her last week at an fall event. We talked a bit and had some positive interactions. When I was leaving I gave her my number. It's been a few days and she hasn't texted or called or anything. I assume this means she definitely isn't interested but I thought it's weird that she didn't at least text me a little bit. I know one of her siblings well and she is good friends with my sister. She texts her all the time. i thought that if she viewed me in the friend zone at least she would talk to me a bit. But she hasn't.

What do you all think? I'll be seeing her again in a week and a half. Should I take this as a sign not to pursue her or is this normal. A detail I forgot to mention is that she was pretty quiet and reserved. So maybe she is nervous about sending a text? What should I do?



Submitted October 25, 2023 at 12:07AM

So I worked a few weeks at a summer camp with this girl. We got along pretty well. I was assigned to work with her a lot so we had many interactions. I thought she liked me a bit but I have to admit she gave some mixed signals. The positive signals were that she was perfectly fine spending time alone with me. For example because we worked together I taught her 1 on 1 how to do a lot of things. Also at the end of the two weeks she wanted to hug me like twice which I thought was weird. From my experience women only act that way with their own gender. But she also had some negative signs. One time when I was going to add her to a photo sharing app that my other coworkers and I shared I asked for her number so I could send her the invite. She said she didn't have her phone on her and she didn't have her number memorized. So I saw her last week at an fall event. We talked a bit and had some positive interactions. When I was leaving I gave her my number. It's been a few days and she hasn't texted or called or anything. I assume this means she definitely isn't interested but I thought it's weird that she didn't at least text me a little bit. I know one of her siblings well and she is good friends with my sister. She texts her all the time. i thought that if she viewed me in the friend zone at least she would talk to me a bit. But she hasn't. What do you all think? I'll be seeing her again in a week and a half. Should I take this as a sign not to pursue her or is this normal. A detail I forgot to mention is that she was pretty quiet and reserved. So maybe she is nervous about sending a text? What should I do?

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