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/u/EatingSugarYesPapa on I just want security questions I can answer as an aroace. I had to reroll like 5 times.

why are questions like that on a password reset website lmao April 01, 2023 at 01:20AM

/u/MaryMary8249 on So you are telling me that other people want to have sex with each other just in sight?

Okay, but, this is like exactly my experience. I can barely believe it. Also nice name <3 April 01, 2023 at 01:19AM

Am I (19f) moving too fast with the guy (21m) I’m seeing?

Here’s the timeline: Matched with him on tinder on feb 6th. Started seeing eachother on feb 16th. He asked me to be exclusive with him on March 14th. He’s indicated he wants to ask me to be his girlfriend. I told him I want a grand gesture so this gives me like a 2 ish week window. But my friends bring up how I’ve technically only known him for a little over a month and becoming official might be too fast. During this month we both started hanging out with eachother a lot, to a point where we see each other every other day. We’ve gone out on dates and met eachother friends too. To me it doesn’t feel to fast, it seems right. But now i’m rethinking everything. Submitted April 01, 2023 at 01:13AM Here’s the timeline: Matched with him on tinder on feb 6th. Started seeing eachother on feb 16th. He asked me to be exclusive with him on March 14th.He’s indicated he wants to ask me to be his girlfriend. I told him I want a grand gesture so this gives me like a 2 ish week window.But m...

/u/Taegeukgies on If sex is the ultimate human experience for allos, will an allo ever be able to have a happy and fulfilling relationship with an ace? I feel like I'm somehow neglecting my loved one and it hurts me so much.

I have an allo friend. we were talking about sex frequency once (because I was shook over reading something that said you should be having sex multiple times a week) and she was like fuck that. Once a month at most. I've got shit to do. She also doesn't view sex as a need and said she could happily go without. if you think about it though, the allos must likely to talk about sex are the ones that love it. if you don't care about sex, why would you bring it up? and those that hate sex are made to feel 'abnormal.' I've seen people questioning if they're ace saying things like "I don't like sex but still experience sexual attraction, am I asexual?" well, no, of course. Ace is all about the attraction side of things, not the desire to partake in sex. I do think, though, that it shows how sex-averse allos may actually feel rejected from the allo community, or, through the massive amount of misinformation about what it means to be asexual, may ac...

/u/CakeHotel on A Streamer I Watch Inadvertently Hurt Me

Just saying how I'd deal with it personally (and, to me, it'd be well worth the ban; I'd even make a donation so that everyone sees my comment). A sexualizing remark backed by arrogance would instantly make me lose all respect I had for that streamer, so I wouldn't mind returning some of the humiliation. (And as OP said, talking to them in private might not even be a possibility.) That said, if OP wants to take a nicer and more patient approach than mine, then more power to them. March 31, 2023 at 11:29PM

Dating when undocumented

What to men honestly think of dating a woman in a American who is undocumented. In my dating experience is so far I feel like men have judged me when I have told them I am out of status in this country. I've been here for about 20 years and had benefited from DACA when it was implemented in 2012. While I'm still here undocumented years later I feel that I am ready to have a family however when I start dating someone and become serious with them and disclose my status. It seems like men run away or seem to just go soon for no reason. My question is do men see me as a risk due to my status even though I have genuine intentions and just want a family and to get married. Submitted April 01, 2023 at 12:16AM What to men honestly think of dating a woman in a American who is undocumented. In my dating experience is so far I feel like men have judged me when I have told them I am out of status in this country. I've been here for about 20 years and had benefited from DACA when...