I’m in high school and I have a lot of friends but 99.9% are dudes. I have a crush on this girl in science but she is one of the popular girls(if you know what I mean). How would I approach her if she doesn’t know me that well? Submitted September 04, 2021 at 12:42AM I’m in high school and I have a lot of friends but 99.9% are dudes. I have a crush on this girl in science but she is one of the popular girls(if you know what I mean). How would I approach her if she doesn’t know me that well?

I had a breast lift TODAY, and it’ll take 6 months to heal. Is boobs healing, and therefore being off-limits and then knowing that these boobs have been surgically altered an automatic yuck? Should I wait to date? Should I own it? I will be wearing a sports bra for the next 3 months, lol. Thanks for your input! Submitted September 04, 2021 at 12:43AM I had a breast lift TODAY, and it’ll take 6 months to heal.Is boobs healing, and therefore being off-limits and then knowing that these boobs have been surgically altered an automatic yuck? Should I wait to date? Should I own it? I will be wearing a sports bra for the next 3 months, lol.Thanks for your input!

I’m a woman, so I’m wondering how men feel about pursuing women that they hook up with soon after meeting. Does that affect you wanting to have a real relationship with that person? Does that make them seem more like a hookup than a serious potential partner? Obviously us women can do whatever we want, I’m just wondering because I’ve never hooked up with someone I just met. Submitted September 04, 2021 at 12:44AM I’m a woman, so I’m wondering how men feel about pursuing women that they hook up with soon after meeting. Does that affect you wanting to have a real relationship with that person? Does that make them seem more like a hookup than a serious potential partner?Obviously us women can do whatever we want, I’m just wondering because I’ve never hooked up with someone I just met.

There's this attractive guy in one of my classes who sits next to me, and I would like to impress him. However, I am not good at flirting because I'm either too obvious or not obvious enough. What's the perfect way to flirt with a guy without being too obvious or annoying, but without being too confusing? Submitted September 04, 2021 at 12:50AM There's this attractive guy in one of my classes who sits next to me, and I would like to impress him. However, I am not good at flirting because I'm either too obvious or not obvious enough. What's the perfect way to flirt with a guy without being too obvious or annoying, but without being too confusing?

A lot of advice given by the community is that the longer you delay in showing interest, the more complicated it will be to get out of that friend's zone. It is not a very honest thing to be friends with her if you are interested in something else, and well, in the future I would like to at least have the opportunity to try it with her. I have a crush, who at the moment is in a long distance relationship, and I think she is very cute and cool, but I respect the relationship she is creating at the moment. She is becoming a good friend, but she is becoming a Robin from HIMYM. Obviously I've given her indicators of my interest and everything. I don't look bad and I'm quite attractive with my character, but again I'm late.... Submitted September 04, 2021 at 12:51AM A lot of advice given by the community is that the longer you delay in showing interest, the more complicated it will be to get out of that friend's zone.It is not a very honest thing to be fri...

Do all 3 of them spin? September 04, 2021 at 12:27AM

Heck yeah I did! It was the Jr. Broadway version so I also got to sing Elsa’s other solo songs like Dangerous to Dream. (I’d highly recommend that song or the Broadway musical in general for any Frozen lovers who haven’t seen it.) September 04, 2021 at 12:21AM

Is it weird to plug myself??? I'm not a youtuber, but I do stream on Twitch. I'm actually a vtuber. I mostly play visual novels, otome games, and gacha games. https://www.twitch.tv/lottiestarshot September 04, 2021 at 12:19AM

That's so awesome. Did you get to sing Let it go? September 04, 2021 at 12:19AM

Ok so, for me it's kinda like this overwhelming need to want to hug/cuddle/kiss one specific person. Now I say "one person" but I usually end up with several crushes at once until I actually get into a relationship. I do want to point out that I am overly romantic (I have literally given a girl a teddy bear as a way of telling her I like her) so ik I'm probably not the best to compare yourself with but thats how it is for me. September 04, 2021 at 12:16AM

I'm going to sound paranoid but I don't think so. I've had gonorrhea before and the way my dick feels is exactly the same. It's got a burning on the tip and my sex drive plummeted plus it's hard to get hard. She also fingered my ass and the next morning I had explosive diarrhea. If I got hiv from this I'm done. I didn't even go for a happy ending, but it was so in the moment I just accepted it because it felt good. The lady didn't use her saliva like I've read from others, but I strongly suspect she doesn't wash her hands. After I ejaculated she cleaned me up and then pretty much immediately started massaging me. She also went back to get more lube while jerking me off, which at hindsight seems pretty obvious. I'm so fucked. Submitted September 04, 2021 at 12:29AM I'm going to sound paranoid but I don't think so. I've had gonorrhea before and the way my dick feels is exactly the same. It's got a burning on the tip a...

Alright, I get how this sounds. This is not a humble brag - it's something I'm really worrying about. I'm a 22 year old guy, and my girl is also 22. We have great sex, but my sex drive is far higher than her's. Ideally and realistically, I would like to have sex 1-2 times a day. However, we only have sex maybe 3-4 times a week, and it's GREAT. We are present, connected, and in the zone when we're doing it, and we finish together almost every time. But I've noticed that if I make her cum every time, she'll naturally be less turned on and will not initiate sex for longer than I like, and often reject it (although not in a negative sense). I love her to death, but I've found that when I finish, and I don't get her to finish, she'll want sex far sooner than usual, which is great for me. I am seriously considering not making her cum every time (and yes, I have pretty conscious control over it, as I've known her and her body for years), so tha...

Hi, I'm a 17M and I'm gonna have sex with this girl in a couple of weeks, though it's not my first time. I've been trying to prepare by making sure I can put condoms on correctly and to see if they fit well. I've been practicing with Skyn original condoms which have a nominal width of 53mm, though there's some horizontal wrinkles in the condom when it's on and it doesn't easily roll all the way down to the base of my penis. For reference my girth is 12cm (4.72'') throughout aside from right at the bottom where it's about 12.3-12.5cm (4.84 - 4.92''). So technically I'm within average girth and the condom should fit well. I've heard condoms should be easy to roll down all the way to the base with one hand which isn't the case when I try with this one, as I need two hands to get it over the very base of my penis and even then it rolls up a bit. I'm thinking of trying Skyn large condoms which are 56mm but I'm not sur...

My (F20sHL) boyfriend (20sLL) has issues initiating sexual stuff, he says it is bc he is shy and unexperienced. So I asked him if he even wanted nudes from me (i was feeling very insecure, thought he didn't want me bc im ugly) he replied that he probably wont ask for them bc sex is rarely on his mind, but i could send them whenever. See, the problem is i have sent random pics and its pretty 50/50 on if it will lead to sexting or if he will just send a heart emoji and basically ignore my lame attempts at seduction. Ok, so maybe direct random nudes isnt working. What should I do? How do I initiate sexing?? Whenever I try i feel like im either not obvious enough (goes over his head) or im too direct and it makes him awkward. TLDR: how do you initiate sexting and send pics to a low libido person without feeling like a needy pervert? Submitted September 04, 2021 at 12:43AM My (F20sHL) boyfriend (20sLL) has issues initiating sexual stuff, he says it is bc he is shy and unexperien...

30 years old. I'm straight, married, and awhile back discovered Futa porn. You can look up someone like "Steve Carson Futa" to see what I'm talking about. I honestly don't understand why, but seeing an incredibly hot woman with gorgeous curves, the works, packing a thick hard cock is a MASSIVE turn on. I can't control it, I just get to want to grab that big juicy cock and maybe even suck it, fuck her and jack her off at the same time, or vice versa? Why is this turning me on? I literally do not get aroused AT ALL with anything else in this realm. Submitted September 04, 2021 at 12:48AM 30 years old. I'm straight, married, and awhile back discovered Futa porn. You can look up someone like "Steve Carson Futa" to see what I'm talking about.I honestly don't understand why, but seeing an incredibly hot woman with gorgeous curves, the works, packing a thick hard cock is a MASSIVE turn on. I can't control it, I just get to want to gr...

(Still young, I know.) I’ve always wanted a serious relationship yet I’ve never been in one or had anyone I was seriously interested in reciprocate. I don’t have problems socializing or flirting, but I’m a bit reserved. I’ve slept with 8 different women (all ONS; I don’t tell anyone this obviously) from my senior year of HS through the first two years of college, with a few of those girls being the one to initiate so I’m pretty sure my looks aren’t the issue. I’ve come to realize sex isn’t a super high priority for me as I feel like I would enjoy it much more with an emotional connection. Most girls I’ve been interested in liked me as a friend and wanted to hang out, but were never interested romantically. I’m in a pretty good spot in life with a good job, friends, hobbies, and goals and aspirations I’m working on. I’ve always been skinny and have recently gained some weight which I feel really good about (135lb). I do have a history of depression, anxiety, and ADHD from HS/early col...

18M here. I have 1 only friend. He’s pretty popular, so he knows a lot of people. 2 months ago, he invited me to a birthday party. It wasn’t even his party. He had a girl friend who told him “maybe someone won’t come, so you can invite your friends”. And so, he instantly thought “woooah wait a sec, i got this very insecure introvert friend that will surely love to be at a party with unknown people” Went there. Didn’t talk that much. Ofc made some small talk with someone… joked a bit and so on. There was this girl that kept staring at me. She was pretty fit and tall ( let’s say 5’9, I’m 6’3 ) and wore a nice dress. But i didn’t like her. Me and my friend go away before. The next day, i meet the girl friend of my friend, and she tells me “you got a secret admirer from yesterday’s party” and i asked her “who’s she?”… she basucally made a face like this 😏 and said “who knows…”. Ofc, she told my friend about her. And i don’t even know if she’s the girl that was staring me. And so, I...

I'm a guy in my mid 20s getting back into dating, and I worry that I'm being too boring or playing it too safe while chatting with people on apps. Usually, I comment about something on their profile/prompts and go from there, but I've noticed that I sometimes get too quickly into the "where are you from/what do you do for fun/what brings you into the city" type questions or small talk. I don't really have this problem as much when I meet people in person because I feel like it's a bit easier to get into a rhythm or go on fun tangents face to face than it is through text, but with the way everything works with OLD, this is the first step to that. When I have hit it off with some of the women I've matched with, the messages seem to flow really easily and it feels like we're both excited to chat with each other so I almost don't have to think about what to say. Other times, there's someone who seems really interesting at a glance but gettin...

I didn’t have a cool auntie but I did have older sisters who were truthful. How about you? Remember, if you can’t ask your mom, you can always ask Auntie! Submitted September 04, 2021 at 12:14AM I didn’t have a cool auntie but I did have older sisters who were truthful. How about you? Remember, if you can’t ask your mom, you can always ask Auntie!

Im a male (16) and I have noticed this girl for years and just now I have gotten a class with her and she was put with me to work on an assignment. We conversed a bit, and I happened to realize I had her added on Snapchat. She went 40 min without responding and explained without me asking why she takes long to respond. Going to ask her to hangout for Labor Day this Monday. Am I going in the right path? I really like her and I want something close between us (relationship). Submitted September 04, 2021 at 12:16AM Im a male (16) and I have noticed this girl for years and just now I have gotten a class with her and she was put with me to work on an assignment. We conversed a bit, and I happened to realize I had her added on Snapchat. She went 40 min without responding and explained without me asking why she takes long to respond. Going to ask her to hangout for Labor Day this Monday. Am I going in the right path? I really like her and I want something close between us (relationship...