I think it is simply an illusion caused by women posting more pictures/selfies than men. October 06, 2020 at 12:00AM

That's totally valid, you have time to work it out! October 05, 2020 at 11:57PM

The point is that it doesn't matter, just an interesting thing to see. I also felt like there were more ace girls than ace guys, but, thus far, I appear to be wrong. October 05, 2020 at 11:56PM

And yes it is a very happy ace face! October 05, 2020 at 11:56PM

eReaders are awesome, if only for being so much more lightweight and easy to hold up than a traditional book (but also their portability and ease of checking out and returning library books). I can easily just get into a comfortable reclining position and not have to worry about keeping the book open or flipping pages. October 05, 2020 at 11:55PM

Yeah, theres this sterotype if you like rock your a rebel etc yet they can have really positive meanings Im listening to alot of BMTH which has lyrics targeting whats going on in the world right now. But I also listen to motionless in white that have some very sexualised lyrics (one of their songs is called hatefuck). Pop right now has songs like WAP yet its a genre were intoduced to as kids, although its kinda good tik tok is making many nice unknown songs into the charts. October 05, 2020 at 11:50PM

Ok but these pics are hilarious, especially assembled this way. October 05, 2020 at 11:49PM

Oh okay I am not blushing or having heart flutters or thinking about them a ton so I guess I am not experiencing aesthetic attraction. I don't think I am getting sexual attraction either so the analogy sexual attraction without sexual attraction doesn't mean much to me 😂 (it's a bit funny you say this since your flair sounds like you're aroace). This does sound like romantic attraction without me in it though, and only based on looks, if I'm getting that right haha. October 05, 2020 at 11:48PM

A black ring (can be decorated, but primarily color is typically black) that an asexual person wears on their right hand middle finger in order to both show pride in being and discreetly tell others that you are asexual. There is a similar thing for aromantic, except it's right and goes on the left hand middle finger. I have one that has rainbow strips down each side to show that I'm also gay. October 05, 2020 at 11:48PM

Ennit I have that mainly with family members October 05, 2020 at 11:47PM

I’m Demi-girl, so I put not listed above, but feel free to lump me in with the females October 05, 2020 at 11:45PM

I'll just say queer when the specifics are irrelevant to the situation. October 05, 2020 at 11:43PM

Sometimes I wish I could be different. That harbours a lot of guilt. This helps. October 05, 2020 at 11:43PM

I think the answer involves microgravity October 05, 2020 at 11:43PM

aesthetic attraction is, hence the name, legitimately a kind of attraction. it's really fucking weird, like the best way i can describe it is sexual attraction without the sexual attraction? there's ZERO urge/desire for the person in any way, romantic or sexual, but other than that it kinda feels like a crush. you have the blushing and the heart flutters and shit, you think about them a ton, lookin at them gives u that sweet sweet ~dopamine~, but you're not in the picture. you're not sexually aroused by the thought of them, you don't picture yourself with them romantically or sexually, you're disconnected from the infatuation you have with them. you legitimately just wanna look at them forever because they're aesthetically glorious, and nothing more. sounds really dorky but that's what's up October 05, 2020 at 11:43PM

I usually just tell people I’m straight and that I’m “taking a break from dating.” I’m just too lazy to go down that road and explain myself to everyone I meet October 05, 2020 at 11:42PM

So confusing. I’m aro/ace too and I doubt myself sometimes because I’ll see a hot guy and be like “nice I wanna see his abs...wait is that sexual attraction?? oh no” and then another part of my brain is like “well what if he took his pants off” and I’m like “good point! that sounds terrible. guess I’m asexual.” Repeat ad nauseum. October 05, 2020 at 11:39PM

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We can probably all agree that both are seriously wrong and hopefully you will never have to go through either scenario with your partner, but which is worse, as in grounds for divorce because you feel you could not work past it? A) your spouse admits to having (protected) sex with multiple escorts. Their were no emotional attachments it was purely for sexual reasons. They only admitted to it when caught red-handed. B) your spouse admits to having an emotional affair online with a person from another state. They have never met in person before, but your partner feels a strong “soulmate like connection” to this person and had to tell you. Submitted October 05, 2020 at 11:11PM We can probably all agree that both are seriously wrong and hopefully you will never have to go through either scenario with your partner, but which is worse, as in grounds for divorce because you feel you could not work past it?A) your spouse admits to having (protected) sex with multiple escorts. Their w...

Recently separated after 7 years of being with someone I 35F.this separation was coming for a long time I was emotionally detached from him for about 2 years before the separation and we are just waiting to sign the paperwork until the new year for tax purposes. Anyways- I am not really ready to date. I am however talking to another guy. He lives in another state 4 hours away and I’ve known him since I was 12. And we recently just re connected. I really like him. Problem is I can’t help but continue to talk to him even though I know it will never work out, it can never be more. We are planning on meeting up for a couple nights. Idk if I should because I don’t think I can handle knowing nothing more will ever come from this going forward and that hurts. Submitted October 05, 2020 at 11:13PM Recently separated after 7 years of being with someone I 35F.this separation was coming for a long time I was emotionally detached from him for about 2 years before the separation and we are...

So I (33F) match with a guy on Hinge (?M). We text in the app for about 24 hours - going well. He asks for my number - I give it (it's a Google Voice number). Then he texts me and asks to set up a phone / FaceTime date. I'm excited, getting ready to say yes. Then I go back into Hinge to look at his profile so I can remember his last name and save him in my phone and POOF, he's gone from the app. I think this is weird so I text him and ask. I say, I can't see your profile anymore, did you unmatch with me? He says "yeah because I got your number." I find his behavior to be highly weird. There are several reasons that I like to go back and look at a guy's profile and to our in-app chat history. 1 - refresh my memory on what we talked about so I'm not repeating myself. 2 - refresh my memory on exactly what he looks like when I'm trying to find him at designated public location for first date. 3 - looking back at what he put on his profile that I fra...