they're never relevant to the plot or character's either. well i guess the john/dany one in GoT was August 04, 2020 at 11:56PM

Fancy August 04, 2020 at 11:50PM

When I told my priest he said I'd make a good priest because I would have the vow of celibacy in the bag. then we went drinking together. Good times August 04, 2020 at 11:49PM

Tried to look up why the hell they have sex scenes, and I still don't know. August 04, 2020 at 11:46PM

Which post? I want to go over there and show them that you can’t just go around insulting people like that August 04, 2020 at 11:44PM

Yess! I find nudity so "in your face".. Like I've learned to be okay with it, but it's not something I find really hot or anything August 04, 2020 at 11:44PM

Cheater, you knew what asexuality was during your journey. I didn’t figure that out until, like, last month. August 04, 2020 at 11:44PM

Congrats! Mine arrived yesterday August 04, 2020 at 11:43PM

Mb, it’s from a dnd actual-play podcast called The Adventure Zone. It’s done by the McElroy brothers and their dad, and it’s on its third season now. It’s a lot of fun! I’d recommend listening August 04, 2020 at 11:41PM

When I first discovered I was ace I went to confession to ask my priest if it was okay to be ace in the eyes of the faith. I was expecting to be shunned or something along those lines. What I got instead was " l don't see why not. heck you'd probably make a decent priest, you'd have the vow of celibacy in the bag.". We hand a good laugh at that. He's always been a chill dude so I probably should have expected that. We had drinks at the local pub afterwards. August 04, 2020 at 11:40PM

Thanks August 04, 2020 at 11:34PM

No more obscure stuff. Like space shirts (but none that say space-ace, cause that’s a big clue, or have an ace ring, but only wear it at school and keep it in your backpack the rest of the time or something August 04, 2020 at 11:25PM

I don't mind the "lack of" meaning tbh. Its accurately describes me. I lack and have little to no sexual attraction towards anyone. That is very much true lol. Never thought it had anything to do about libido, but rather sexual attraction itself. August 04, 2020 at 11:25PM

I have identified as ace/asexual for 6-7years now. (Recently accepting that I am demi, but still going by ace as a segway into a full explanation of demisexuality, if I feel the other person is willing to listen & learn...) I only explicitly told 2 people I was interested in that I was ace. The first person completely invalidated it with the usual anti-asexual comments and tried to push my boundaries. It was so hurtful and while I'm glad I left that situation, I still haven't fully recovered from that experience... The second person was a little more understanding (they identify as LGBTQIA+, so that was a common ground for us to talk about our identities and experiences). And the further we got into our relationship, I realized that I might actually be demi and told them so. They were happy for me that I came closer to my own truth. (But the relationship dynamics changed since then, which brought on those doubting feelings from past experiences. I'm still recovering...

Most of my crushes were animated lol. I had a HUGE crush on Cody from Suite Life on Deck when I was a teenager. I definitely see where you’re coming from with David Tennant though. I’m glad I’m not the only one who sees him that way when my family and friends are just like “eh, he’s okay” August 04, 2020 at 11:23PM

both!! And I'm still pretty guilty of doing that haha -- I've even had a couple live-action crushes but not on the actors on the actual character. Like I don't give a fuck about David Tennant as a dude (I'm sure he's perfectly nice still idc) but I'd spend the rest of my life with his portrayal of Dr. Who if that character existed irl lol August 04, 2020 at 11:19PM

We’re they animated or book characters? Lol August 04, 2020 at 11:13PM

Yeah I feel you. It’s so easy to call myself boring in front of a lot of my friends. Around Christmas time, the staff at my old job went around town to different bars as a fun celebration for the end of the year and I remember we played Never Have I Ever. I won easily to the point I was bumming everyone out. I don’t think I took a single sip the whole game August 04, 2020 at 11:12PM

omg sooo many crushes on fictional characters August 04, 2020 at 11:11PM

I can’t say I was much different to be honest lol. Though I did crush a lot in fictional characters August 04, 2020 at 11:09PM

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I 33 (f) was exclusively seeing someone 32 (m) for 2 months who I met on OLD from Dec to the end of Jan in NYC. He was pursing me hard, treating me, & telling me I was GF material. I hadn't met anyone I felt so strongly about in years & was thinking we had the potential of having a LTR. He abruptly ended things out of the blue via text (which i appreciated because no one likes being ghosted) Apparently his ex-girlfriend randomly called him & wanted to try to get back together & but he insisted he wanted to remain friends and thought I was great (yeah probably giving me the kind version of the truth but who knows?). We texted occasionally through the end of Feb very platonic/friendly stuff related to our common niche interest in this one particular podcast. He initiated all the texts. I met someone new in early Feb who I'm now in a serious exclusive relationship with. I got a "are you okay covid is so crazy text" from the guy who ended things with me ...