Mainly, you don't have to decide if you fit under the scope of asexuality if you'd rather not put a label on your identity. But if you want to find a community that you can fit in and feel normal with, of course you can identify as asexual if you want! I think not being sexually attracted to anyone is mainly the big thing about being ace. Plenty of ace people still have sex and can enjoy it, and plenty of ace people masturbate. Basically, you can fit in just fine here if you want to, and it's all up to you how you want to identify. February 06, 2020 at 11:57PM

Just January?! It took me like 3 months to get the granny square down. You picked a great starting project! February 06, 2020 at 11:56PM

Like a fish saying "but I've never needed a word for 'water' and I'm doing just fine!" February 06, 2020 at 11:56PM

My mom got a Bingo! February 06, 2020 at 11:56PM

Long story short, I have a bit of a high heel kink. My fiancée used to go out clubbing a lot in her late teens / early twenties and said she used to keep her heels on more often than not to fuck hookups or guys she was seeing casually. She said she loved it and it made her feel hot but it tended to make guys come too quickly. She also said that most girls who went out partying wearing them did the same if they hooked up. Is this true or is she just trying to tease me? She currently won’t wear them to fuck ms but loves wearing trashy lingerie and having ms watch her masturbate. Confusing girl. Submitted February 06, 2020 at 10:50PM Long story short, I have a bit of a high heel kink.My fiancée used to go out clubbing a lot in her late teens / early twenties and said she used to keep her heels on more often than not to fuck hookups or guys she was seeing casually.She said she loved it and it made her feel hot but it tended to make guys come too quickly. She also said that most g

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I (22F) have pain when PIV. My fiance (23M) has a high sex drive and mine just varies week to week really. He can go 2x a day easily. Well when my sex drive is higher (having sex once a day for days in a row) it starts to hurt day 2 or day 3. IDK what to do. It's usually not major pain but if he hits a spot it'll hurt a bit so we have to switch positions. Doggy is of the table almost completely anymore. It hurts my drive because I get worried it'll hurt. Basically if we have sex days in a row for turns into anal by day 3 because it doesn't hurt me. Note: we tried making sure I'm very turned on and wet and still used lube. Also didn't have this problem until after I had a child. He doesn't have a giant thing either it's about 6 inches Submitted February 06, 2020 at 10:55PM I (22F) have pain when PIV. My fiance (23M) has a high sex drive and mine just varies week to week really. He can go 2x a day easily. Well when my sex drive is higher (having se

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I have been reading up on foreplay because I am not good at it but other than that what should I know? It's her first time so we are not sure what she likes. I am thinking lube could be useful too. I myself am not great at sex so just looking for some tips to make it semi decent or even enjoyable. Submitted February 06, 2020 at 11:01PM I have been reading up on foreplay because I am not good at it but other than that what should I know? It's her first time so we are not sure what she likes. I am thinking lube could be useful too. I myself am not great at sex so just looking for some tips to make it semi decent or even enjoyable.

I recently developed a fetish and addiction to anal stretching even though I am a straight man. Every day I stretch and stretch to be able to take WIDER & BIGGER TOYS ( have 12 including a speculum rn ) Who else is destroying their anus and ABSOLUTELY LOVING IT!!! I want to be committed and do this every single day (school, work, food, meetings, & life ultimately get in the way) but I want my ASSHOLE WRECKED! I don't care if I'm old one day and anal incontienent. Im stretching my tight ass out of pleasure and It feels so good ( even though I'm straight) Does anyone else share this passion and loving it? Im starting to ride my Doc Johnson Intimidator every day before and after work and weekends Im dedicating it to sexual pleasure!!! Id love to hear from you on reddit! I want a extremely loose asshole, going up lengths and toys feels AMAZING. BIGGER IS BETTER WHEN IT COMES TO ANAL AND DOING IT PROPERLY!!! Ive been a straight man all my life, but finally moving o

For me having sex with a person for the first time is great and I crave for it, second time is not great and after 4-5-6 times I don't want it too so more .. If I change the partner the pleasure and excitement Is starting again with the same pattern. I have been with girls that I had a crush on and some that I was very in love and it is the same. Is something wrong with me? This is how the sex live should be? I don't have great relationships because this. Submitted February 06, 2020 at 11:03PM For me having sex with a person for the first time is great and I crave for it, second time is not great and after 4-5-6 times I don't want it too so more .. If I change the partner the pleasure and excitement Is starting again with the same pattern.I have been with girls that I had a crush on and some that I was very in love and it is the same.Is something wrong with me? This is how the sex live should be? I don't have great relationships because this.

For backstory, I began masturbating at an early age, and always thoroughly enjoyed it, but around age 16 the intensity of my orgasms and just general the masturbation sensation started to deplete very fast until I basically feel no pleasure whatsoever from masturbation or orgasm. It's so frustrating. The only sensation I really feel is the primal desire to go faster and to finish when I'm nearing "orgasm". Then when I ejaculate I feel nothing. I have tried going 6 months without masturbating, I've tried fleshlights, and still there's almost no sensation whatsoever. Around the time my sensation started to dwindle I had some very negative experiences regarding which could potentially be a factor, but now I feel I have overcome most of my mental blocks regarding sex. I have lived with depression many years before the onset of my loss of pleasure, and have lived with it since, although in the last two years I feel I have overcome my depression thanks to a chan

Ok, let me start by saying I’m a man child, a 48 year old boy. I don’t mean that I’m not responsible, good husband and father. No, I mean various parts of the day my mind will wonder into think of lady’s body parts, and I giggle. For example, every Thursday I do our laundry. Wife’s and mine. The kids do their own, teenagers need some type of normal chores. Anyway, getting off topic here. As, I am moving the wet washed clothes to the dryer, I automatically, in my head say, “Over the shoulder, boulder, holders.” then giggle as I remove my wife’s wet bras to hang up in our bathroom. At that moment, I also think of myself as childish. This next triggers me to think of my wife’s beautiful breasts. I am a man child, and I like naked woman. Submitted February 06, 2020 at 11:16PM Ok, let me start by saying I’m a man child, a 48 year old boy. I don’t mean that I’m not responsible, good husband and father. No, I mean various parts of the day my mind will wonder into think of lady’s body

I am 31f and my partner is 32m, we have a relationship of 10 years and we are in love like in the first year. The problem is I can't handle him because his erection lasts almost 2 hours without going soft. Don't get me wrong, I love him and I love having sex with him but I reached the point of thinking of looking for another woman to join so he can be satisfied too. I'm not jealous about it and I do think is a good idea but... Is anyone there in the same situation? Anyone tried and something like this could work out? Any advices please? Submitted February 06, 2020 at 11:17PM I am 31f and my partner is 32m, we have a relationship of 10 years and we are in love like in the first year. The problem is I can't handle him because his erection lasts almost 2 hours without going soft. Don't get me wrong, I love him and I love having sex with him but I reached the point of thinking of looking for another woman to join so he can be satisfied too. I'm not jealous ab

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I have a lot of kinks, and I am curious to find out if there is anything more I might like. I find it really exciting. I know there are some sites that have like tests you can take that help give you ideas. Which ones do you guys use Submitted February 06, 2020 at 11:30PM I have a lot of kinks, and I am curious to find out if there is anything more I might like. I find it really exciting. I know there are some sites that have like tests you can take that help give you ideas. Which ones do you guys use

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So my husband can get a bit giggly when he's horny. Normally I'm very sub, and he is Dom, but we are both a little Switch at times, which is fine because it keeps things interesting and we give each other ideas by trying different things. Anyway, last night we were both really ready to go, so I'm trying to be Dom which I admit I feel a little awkward with as he can't quite take me seriously. Case in point last night, I can't quite remember exactly what it is that set him off but as I started to be Dominant he broke down into fits of giggles. I mean full on, barely breathing, laughing so hard it hurts...for 10 straight minutes. Every time he started to calm down I'd get ready to go again then he went off giggling again! It was a little awkward but I decided just to laugh at his giggling, I mean if you can't laugh in bed with your lover of nearly 10 years then what are you even doing together right? Not letting him get away with it, but I thought you all m

I’m a few years older than him and we do have quite an age gap in our relationship. He’s 20 and I’m 31; we have been dating for 2 years now and we live together. The sex is great, we both usually get off before we finish and we have sex at least 2 times everyday. I looove dirty talk and I especially love doing it to him since he’s younger. I sometimes say things like he’s only good for using him as a fuck toy and things like that. I don’t mean them, but they just turn me on and he had told me he liked it before. I noticed that when we have sex and I say things like that he seems sad and quiet after that. When I don’t dirty talk him like that, he seems normal. Should I just stop doing it? Submitted February 06, 2020 at 11:34PM I’m a few years older than him and we do have quite an age gap in our relationship. He’s 20 and I’m 31; we have been dating for 2 years now and we live together. The sex is great, we both usually get off before we finish and we have sex at least 2 times e

I'm thinking about possibly buying one of these for my girlfriend and myself to experiment with. So I just want to know which ones are better than others. Submitted February 06, 2020 at 11:40PM I'm thinking about possibly buying one of these for my girlfriend and myself to experiment with. So I just want to know which ones are better than others.

​ Hello there I really need some advice I've never posted here before but I just need some help Growing up I believed I was a straight guy, had crushes on girls and all that but around 13-14 I started constantly watching gay porn and would fantasise about being dominated or bottoming for a man which confused me so much I went online and have found communities like anti porn subs that say its just porn addiction but when I do stop it only draws me in more. Ive talked to countless men online but wimp out meeting one everytime. I just don't want this. I guess my question is can porn change you into liking things, will stopping porn actually work and whats wrong with me? Submitted February 06, 2020 at 11:44PM ​Hello there I really need some advice I've never posted here before but I just need some helpGrowing up I believed I was a straight guy, had crushes on girls and all that but around 13-14 I started constantly watching gay porn and would fantasise about being d

I’m a 28 yo male, married to my wife for three years. We’ve been going through a bit of an issue lately. Over time, my wife seems like she’s become less interested in sex. It really discourages me out and makes me wonder if maybe I’m not giving it my all or that maybe she’s just not into me as much as I’m into her. But I know this isn’t true because we’ve talked about it and she’s just not wanting sex as much as I am. Nonetheless, it still sucks when I ask to have sex and she tells me her day is too busy (it’s not) or she’ll sometimes just sigh. The dynamic is really bugging me, in that I’m seen as a sex buffet that’s always open. I don’t want to guilt her for having a lower sex drive than me. It’s just frustrating. So the oddness from today: she turned me down for sex yesterday and I seemed bummed but assured her I was okay and that I didn’t expect her to be my plaything whenever I want. But then today, I walked in to our living room and there she was wearing a skimpy lingerie catsu