My ex and I ended it in November and it ended really shitty and it still kind of affects me, whenever I try talking with other people I just cant get into it or I just feel like they aren't into it. I'm not sure if I'm just not ready yet but it feels like I'm fucking myself over and I feel shitty for being single for so long. But hell I'm probably just overthinking as usual Sorry I'm not sure If this is the right place Submitted June 23, 2020 at 12:17AM My ex and I ended it in November and it ended really shitty and it still kind of affects me, whenever I try talking with other people I just cant get into it or I just feel like they aren't into it. I'm not sure if I'm just not ready yet but it feels like I'm fucking myself over and I feel shitty for being single for so long. But hell I'm probably just overthinking as usualSorry I'm not sure If this is the right place

So i talked with this girl for like a week,and when we talk we do it for like hours.we talk everyday and she said she likes me a lot.Hell she even said that she wanted to kiss me, i said i diden't do it before and then she send me a clip of a cuple kissing and she explains how to do it. BUT she told me that she likes to mess with other guys that message her but im not like them and we talked so much and she realy likes me.but she wants to wait for a bit(what does it mean).And she said im a bit boring and i need to call her names and have a little bit of attitude.but she said that i dont need to change for her too. Is she messing with me to like the other guys? Submitted June 23, 2020 at 12:18AM So i talked with this girl for like a week,and when we talk we do it for like hours.we talk everyday and she said she likes me a lot.Hell she even said that she wanted to kiss me, i said i diden't do it before and then she send me a clip of a cuple kissing and she explains how to ...

Yes, you're fine. I was around that age when I started having my suspicions. Also (and this is thrilling) there are no consequences for getting this one wrong. You think you're ace? Welcome to the community! If you think otherwise many years from now, that's fine; glad you've gotten a closer bead on who you are! When I started "discovering" the LGBT spectrum, so to speak, I initially identified myself as bisexual (sort of a 0=0 logic). It's okay that I've changed how I label myself, because that just means I've learned and grown. June 22, 2020 at 11:33PM

yeah, I was reading a book and literally EVERY SINGLE CHAPTER HAD A SEX SCENE I mean the story was going really well, until they went from cuddling to FULL ON SEX. June 22, 2020 at 11:31PM

Ooo, I’ve never listen to that song before. I’m getting ace vibes as well, I’ll add it in! Thanks for the suggestion! June 22, 2020 at 11:27PM

I'm sorry to hear this, OP. I know it's difficult to hear, and certainly more difficult to accept, but there is nothing wrong with you. When it comes to internalized self-hatred, sometimes you've thought about something (like asexuality) negatively for so long that it's almost like...the path of least resistance for your brain, if that makes sense? You have a cycle, and I think that's important. Take note of it: what makes it better? What makes it worse? When you're thinking positively about your sexuality, where are you at mentality? Try to be conscious of these things, and when you know you're in a spot where acephobia can rear its head, be mentally ready for it. I'm not sure if I'm articulating this properly, but sometimes when you consciously take stock of these things and be really deliberate about your thoughts, you can sort of teach yourself to think differently. Like, the cycle will still happen, but you expect and you can prepare for it. I ...

Indeed! I laughed at it. It’s definitely not offensive. :) June 22, 2020 at 11:19PM

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Ya maybe. I have a lot of thinking to do about this. June 22, 2020 at 11:16PM

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I'm aego and I definitely see you fitting the description, but it's always up to you to decide which labels you'd like to identify with if at all :) June 22, 2020 at 11:15PM

Alright thank you for the help June 22, 2020 at 11:15PM

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Hello. I will be proposing to my girlfriend soon but one thing struck me that I had not thought of.. ​ When we go to the destination X for me to propose, how should I keep that big bulky ring box hidden until we get there? My girlfriend is the human-koala type, where she will hug me, hold my hand, wrap her hands around my waist at any given moment possible. I don't want to tip her off, but I do not know what to do.. this ring box is just too darn big :( Submitted June 22, 2020 at 11:44PM Hello.I will be proposing to my girlfriend soon but one thing struck me that I had not thought of..​When we go to the destination X for me to propose, how should I keep that big bulky ring box hidden until we get there?My girlfriend is the human-koala type, where she will hug me, hold my hand, wrap her hands around my waist at any given moment possible.I don't want to tip her off, but I do not know what to do.. this ring box is just too darn big :(

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Now I don't want my ex back! He's in a previous chapter of my book collecting dust. But I still think about him (mainly the ego is bruised and I'm healing). In order to heal, I need to feel. and I'm aware that this is different to dwelling, which is most certainly not what I'm doing. When I think of him, I try and understand what my emotions are telling me and then breathe it out! but i do think of him most days... it's getting lesser every day! I'm getting on with my days, my hobbies and my life (and writing on here!) I'm not depressed and my gosh i CANNOT WAIT for my next relationship, as I recognise most of my previous mistakes and excited for my future and someone who I may actually like for real! Anyone else feel the same? Stay safe x Submitted June 22, 2020 at 11:12PM Now I don't want my ex back! He's in a previous chapter of my book collecting dust. But I still think about him (mainly the ego is bruised and I'm healing). In o...