We’ve been dating for almost 6 months. My boyfriend has a difficult time getting and maintaining an erection. Because of this he seems embarrassed or something and stopped being intimate with me completely. He won’t even kiss me anymore. Before I knew that he was avoiding intimate encounters with me because of his ED (he finally mentioned it) I thought he had just lost interest because he’s also a little withdrawn. I had also wondered if he was sleeping with someone else and was just too sexed up to be interested in me. This has been a miserable roller coaster. He doesn’t seem to care at all about not having sex with me and isn’t making an effort to see a doctor or anything. This is my life too and I’m not happy that my intimate life is now nonexistent. Not like I’m going to cheat or anything but I’m definitely craving intimacy or at least to be touched for f*** sake! How do I talk to him about this? I almost want to dump him because I’m so angry!!! But I also want to be understandi...

Just joined the community, figured I would give this a shot and maybe get some feedback. A week or so ago I was using my wife's laptop doing some work, mine is running like crap so no big deal. I am in work mode and decide to turn on some music! So I go to the desktop and find the Spotify shortcut and a folder labeled "folder". Curious me, I looked inside and found two clips of my wife having sex with her ex boyfriend. These are older clips (we have been married about three years, dated for two), as she is clearly younger in this clips. So naturally I am thinking, these are old and she never opens this folder, so I look at the recently opened files and find that this particular folder and these particular clips have been viewed on a semi regular basis for at least the past six months. Oddly enough it turned me the fuck on, although I am still not sure why! Curious what others think of why she may look at them? We have a great sex life, I don't really see the con...

Hi all- interesting times we’re all in... I’m curious if any other couples out there are in a similar predicament I’d never thought my girlfriend (27) and I (M 26) would be in. We’re both cooped up now like most of the world and I generally have a modest amount of work to do while she unfortunately was just laid off being in one of the people-gathering type industries, so now she is left without much to do except come up with personal endeavors - of which I’ve also done for myself to fill the time between work obligations. The problem is, I’m quite a content introverted extrovert who has no problem with more alone time in these times and also heavily in the medical/science field so I’ve at this point just done way too much research into this situation to where I feel the most comfortable really self-quarantining and laying low to avoid infection at all costs. I really don’t think we should be leaving the house unless absolutely necessary or doing activities far from others (walking i...

I’ve been in a couple of relationships with women who wanted to be dominated. Mostly, it was easy to just wing it and take them without having to actually know what I was doing, but with my current SO, I wanted to learn more about what I’m doing and see if I can improve. Unfortunately, googling it just brings up your average bull from people that have less experience than I do. Does anyone know any good sights to learn and improve on my Dom skills? Submitted March 20, 2020 at 11:39PM I’ve been in a couple of relationships with women who wanted to be dominated. Mostly, it was easy to just wing it and take them without having to actually know what I was doing, but with my current SO, I wanted to learn more about what I’m doing and see if I can improve. Unfortunately, googling it just brings up your average bull from people that have less experience than I do. Does anyone know any good sights to learn and improve on my Dom skills?

I got uncomfortably close to cheating on my boyfriend and I feel disgusted in myself. This guy messaged me via Reddit and at first we were just talking about casual stuff, how both our relationships are and stuff. Then he started complimenting me and it felt nice but I had a weird feeling.... but I kept talking to him We got on the topic of our sex lives with our SO’s and he said to me something along the lines of “let me know if you need a hand” and talked about how he had pics and if I wanted to see them. I hesitated to say no. I was tempted?! Why? You can literally find porn anywhere and I was gonna start sending nudes to this guy so I eventually told him off but I feel horrible now. TL;DR I hesitated to say no to a guy who wanted to sext me, I feel uncomfortable with myself now. Submitted March 21, 2020 at 12:26AM I got uncomfortably close to cheating on my boyfriend and I feel disgusted in myself.This guy messaged me via Reddit and at first we were just talking about ca...

Can someone help? I would love someone to explain smegma to me, I just wanna know reasons why you would have it, how to prevent it and how to get rid of it, Any help appreciated Submitted March 20, 2020 at 11:39PM Can someone help?I would love someone to explain smegma to me, I just wanna know reasons why you would have it, how to prevent it and how to get rid of it, Any help appreciated

So, I have developed this kind of weird kink - I like chubby women. When I'm masturbating and watching porn it's almost always porn with chubby girls. I've been aroused by this for roughly a year now. There is just one problem: my gf is very very thin and not willing to gain weight. She doesn't know about my kink but I've tried to jokingly tell her to gain some weight but she made it clear that she doesn't want to, which is perfectly fine for me. I love her just the way she is, even though I like the thought of her putting on a few pounds. Sex is no problem, I'm still able to sleep with her and I still get very aroused when I see her naked body. It's just that sometimes I have troubles cumming without imagining chubbier girls while having sex and I'm ashamed of it. I know that I can get rid of fetishes - when I was 14/15 I was very attracted to feet but now, few years later, I don't really care about them anymore. So, is there an easy way of get...

My partner loves sex, I love how he is always eager to please me, we have toys that we use regularly and he is so patient and giving and he loves knowing that I orgasm multiple times thanks to him. We are pretty open and comfortable and I would love for him to experience the intense multiple orgasms that he gives me. He always cums hard and we are looking at prostate play? Looking at the Aneros Trident MDX but really no idea? Have tried with fingers but mine don’t seem to be long enough? And from what I have been researching, it can take time to develop the skill of a prostate orgasm. I just want to give him something delicious and mind blowing. ANY and feedback tips would be fabulous. Thank you everyone and stay safe x Submitted March 20, 2020 at 11:43PM My partner loves sex, I love how he is always eager to please me, we have toys that we use regularly and he is so patient and giving and he loves knowing that I orgasm multiple times thanks to him. We are pretty open and comfor...

I'm 16 years old and I've been masturbating every night ever since my friend showed me when I was 13. The technique I've always used is to lie flat on my stomach, legs together, clothes on, and then cup my hands over my vulva through my panties and rub my clit. It feels amazing and I always have multiple mind blowing orgasms. Is this a normal way to masturbate? I'm a virgin and single but I kinda feel self conscious about it cause I feel like everyone else does it on their back. Also, is this good for me or should I try to change to the normal way? I can orgasm on my back but it's not as good and I feel more warm and comfortable on my stomach. Also, my mum loves to walk in to my room without warning and if I'm on my stomach she can't catch me masturbating as easily cause she can't see anything. Submitted March 20, 2020 at 11:47PM I'm 16 years old and I've been masturbating every night ever since my friend showed me when I was 13.The tec...

My wife and I have been married for almost 4 years and been together for 9. She is the wild one who have had sex with a woman while being married and taped it for my eyes too. But I am more interested in watching her get fucked by another man. We started fantasizing threesomes and gang bangs years ago over texting when we were in long distance relationship for a year. I was turned on ALOT by imagining her with another man. I would often steer conversation that way and she would gladly follow my cue and we would sext about her getting fucked by other men all night. Long story short, there was a guy in her college who had hots for her and was her friend too. On my insisting, my wife sexted with him one night and made him cum. And Oh My God, I was turned on like crazy. He would tell her how he would suck her hugs tits and fuck her pussy. She was totally into it and rubbing her pussy off of his voice cz then it had moved to phone sex. They still kept in touch and though we have fantasize...

Okay I don’t know how to ask this without it sounding pervy but I’m actually just purely curious: there’s a stereotype that teen boys are hormonal ticking time bombs and really no such stereotype for girls during that period My guess is that this has to do with a male-centric view of sexuality but idk. More interested in women responses than guys for the purpose of this question Submitted March 20, 2020 at 11:53PM Okay I don’t know how to ask this without it sounding pervy but I’m actually just purely curious: there’s a stereotype that teen boys are hormonal ticking time bombs and really no such stereotype for girls during that periodMy guess is that this has to do with a male-centric view of sexuality but idk. More interested in women responses than guys for the purpose of this question

His dad often goes to bed at midnight and he knows we're sexually active but, of course, I am rather shy and discrete so I just hold my boyfriend's hand or kiss him when he is around. I want to have a romantic date night where we play video games or watch a movie together that hopefully leads to a make out and snuggling but I could use some ideas! Submitted March 20, 2020 at 11:55PM His dad often goes to bed at midnight and he knows we're sexually active but, of course, I am rather shy and discrete so I just hold my boyfriend's hand or kiss him when he is around.I want to have a romantic date night where we play video games or watch a movie together that hopefully leads to a make out and snuggling but I could use some ideas!

So I recently met a guy and we started dating. I'm already pretty experienced since I'm sexually active for quite a while now. He, on the other hand, is a virgin and a bit sensitive about this topic. I don't mind at all but I really want it to be special for him. Unfortunately, I can't really remember mine. That's why I'm here; any tips? Or anything you wished would've been different? Submitted March 20, 2020 at 11:57PM So I recently met a guy and we started dating. I'm already pretty experienced since I'm sexually active for quite a while now. He, on the other hand, is a virgin and a bit sensitive about this topic. I don't mind at all but I really want it to be special for him. Unfortunately, I can't really remember mine. That's why I'm here; any tips? Or anything you wished would've been different?

Finishing in her ass, pulling out and seeing it drip out slowly, all to the sound of sighs of satisfaction. Submitted March 21, 2020 at 12:00AM Finishing in her ass, pulling out and seeing it drip out slowly, all to the sound of sighs of satisfaction.

Speaking to my (20F) boyfriend (22M) today, we came to a sort of agreement that one day in the distant future we’d try out pegging as part of a sexual bucket list. While it’d be a long way off yet, I’d like to start some research now. If we try it, I want to do it right and make it as (at least) pleasant as possible Looking for info on what kinds of equipment are required (other than the obvious of a strap-on and a lotta lube). Also what would you recommend for the preparation process? Submitted March 21, 2020 at 12:08AM Speaking to my (20F) boyfriend (22M) today, we came to a sort of agreement that one day in the distant future we’d try out pegging as part of a sexual bucket list. While it’d be a long way off yet, I’d like to start some research now. If we try it, I want to do it right and make it as (at least) pleasant as possibleLooking for info on what kinds of equipment are required (other than the obvious of a strap-on and a lotta lube).Also what would you recommend for ...

Im a virgin and so is he. If he pulls out with a condom and cums into it or i take the condom off and let him cum in my mouth does that count as loosing your virginity. Im also worried he will think its not and then say to people that the sex was bad and then he will say that it didnt count and then have sex with someone else and say they were better ughhhh Submitted March 21, 2020 at 12:08AM Im a virgin and so is he. If he pulls out with a condom and cums into it or i take the condom off and let him cum in my mouth does that count as loosing your virginity. Im also worried he will think its not and then say to people that the sex was bad and then he will say that it didnt count and then have sex with someone else and say they were better ughhhh

I’ve noticed over the last year or so that more and more women are coming out openly about their masturbation habits and the amount and variety of porn they view. Given the world wide quarantines, were undoubtedly going to see a rise in masturbation and pornography consumption. It would be wise for us all to revisit the topic about the potentially harmful effects porn and masturbation can have. For example, the issues men face when it’s too much are pretty much common knowledge at this point... • Erectile dysfunction - can’t get and/or keep firm erections • More increasingly novel and sometimes extreme sexual acts needed to obtain pleasure and orgasm • Misleading/inaccurate expectations and representations of women in various physical and sexual contexts • lower levels of libido, mood, motivation, energy. • many more (feel free to add in the comments) Are there any similarities that women may also face? Just to clarify - no shaming. I want a world where everyone has amazing se...

Hey guys, so, I’ve been sleeping with this guy for the past 2 months and every time we have sex, he just doesn’t finish. I’m used to guys finishing after we fuck and it’s honestly taking a hit to my self-esteem. Like, I would go down on him and ride him but he never fucking cums. I’ve tried being submissive, I’ve tried being dominant, I’ve tried it all and still NOTHING although he says that he’s having a good time, I’d like some tangible confirmation. PIV does nothing for me, it’s all for him. But what’s the point if he can’t finish. It doesn’t seem to bother him and we cuddle afterwards, which is all fine and good. He ended up finishing himself off once, and he’s really fucking aggressive with his penis. I wonder if that has something to do with it. I’m at the point where I might end it because, if I’m not getting you off, then you should find someone more compatible that will. Submitted March 21, 2020 at 12:18AM Hey guys, so, I’ve been sleeping with this guy for the past 2 mo...

Like many of us, we're both in shut down mode and we can't leave the house. It's driving me crazy but I want to invest that energy being absolutely sexy and mindblowing for my boyfriend. He's got a stressful job he has to work from home and I've already offered for him massages for "relief" ;) whenever he wants. What else can I do to make it fun and less of a drag for him. Besides putting on a striptease every so often ... Submitted March 21, 2020 at 12:24AM Like many of us, we're both in shut down mode and we can't leave the house. It's driving me crazy but I want to invest that energy being absolutely sexy and mindblowing for my boyfriend.He's got a stressful job he has to work from home and I've already offered for him massages for "relief" ;) whenever he wants. What else can I do to make it fun and less of a drag for him. Besides putting on a striptease every so often ...

Is it wrong to let other men fuck your wife as long as all are ok with it? Submitted March 20, 2020 at 11:58PM Is it wrong to let other men fuck your wife as long as all are ok with it?

Holy... I relate to much to this! It's good to know that I'm not the only one who feels like this :) March 21, 2020 at 12:11AM

I know it's definitely a lot of back and forth. For me, I'm at 31 years old and just really making sense of my identity. Taking up to that age isn't always the case, but it's always good to remember not to pressure yourself to know your identity for sure. Any way you identify along the way is not wrong for how you might identify later. March 20, 2020 at 11:49PM

Hi I will explain the situation: i met a guy a week ago and it seemed to me that i is the 1st guy i ever met who really felt interested and attracted by me... I am 24 and he 26 and we both share some similar interests especially about dating... As i told i never found ( even after tons of trials) someone who seemed so interested. I was also interested in him before even initiating any discussion. I even didn't believed that he was the one who made the 1st move... By talking to him i just realized he was really the kind of guy I am looking for with qualities i rarely found elsewhere and those qualities are also deeply significant in my values... He is the caring guy i dreamed about, respectful.... I can't describe my feelings but they just go crazy... We havd known each other for 3 days now and i totally changed my behavior way of perceiving things and experiencing things... I spent my days thinking about him and smiling alone all day. I got so happy for no true or concrete re...