Soulmate experience : help please

Hi I will explain the situation: i met a guy a week ago and it seemed to me that i is the 1st guy i ever met who really felt interested and attracted by me... I am 24 and he 26 and we both share some similar interests especially about dating... As i told i never found ( even after tons of trials) someone who seemed so interested. I was also interested in him before even initiating any discussion. I even didn't believed that he was the one who made the 1st move... By talking to him i just realized he was really the kind of guy I am looking for with qualities i rarely found elsewhere and those qualities are also deeply significant in my values... He is the caring guy i dreamed about, respectful....

I can't describe my feelings but they just go crazy... We havd known each other for 3 days now and i totally changed my behavior way of perceiving things and experiencing things... I spent my days thinking about him and smiling alone all day. I got so happy for no true or concrete reason.. I found some powerful inner peace... I was able to open to him so easily... He is the only person i can think about from waking up to sleeping.

I feel so strong emotions that i still don't know now if i live in the same place i used to during my last 24 yo

And i think he found out that i Want someond who will cherish me first in a relationship and he is exactly doing it... He cares and acts very gently and avoids things i don't like.

Last time he said that he truely believes that we wdre destined to meet and that we were meant to be together... He said he believes in love in 1st sight... I didn't eve' noticed that he was maybe just describing the way he also felt....

I really don't know why am i like that and if i have found my soulmate or maybe os it just some strong feelings over there...

Is there someone who experienced the same thing and could please share his point of view?



Submitted March 21, 2020 at 12:00AM

Hi I will explain the situation: i met a guy a week ago and it seemed to me that i is the 1st guy i ever met who really felt interested and attracted by me... I am 24 and he 26 and we both share some similar interests especially about dating... As i told i never found ( even after tons of trials) someone who seemed so interested. I was also interested in him before even initiating any discussion. I even didn't believed that he was the one who made the 1st move... By talking to him i just realized he was really the kind of guy I am looking for with qualities i rarely found elsewhere and those qualities are also deeply significant in my values... He is the caring guy i dreamed about, respectful....I can't describe my feelings but they just go crazy... We havd known each other for 3 days now and i totally changed my behavior way of perceiving things and experiencing things... I spent my days thinking about him and smiling alone all day. I got so happy for no true or concrete reason.. I found some powerful inner peace... I was able to open to him so easily... He is the only person i can think about from waking up to sleeping.I feel so strong emotions that i still don't know now if i live in the same place i used to during my last 24 yoAnd i think he found out that i Want someond who will cherish me first in a relationship and he is exactly doing it... He cares and acts very gently and avoids things i don't like.Last time he said that he truely believes that we wdre destined to meet and that we were meant to be together... He said he believes in love in 1st sight... I didn't eve' noticed that he was maybe just describing the way he also felt....I really don't know why am i like that and if i have found my soulmate or maybe os it just some strong feelings over there...Is there someone who experienced the same thing and could please share his point of view?
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