Hey everyone, I'm just curious about how you feel about opposite sex friends of your girlfriend or boyfriend. Do you often find yourself attracted to hot friends or are you able to switch it off completely? Are you comfortable with your partner having hot opposite sex friends? I can't say for sure how I feel. Interested to hear your thoughts. Submitted May 02, 2020 at 01:52AM Hey everyone, I'm just curious about how you feel about opposite sex friends of your girlfriend or boyfriend. Do you often find yourself attracted to hot friends or are you able to switch it off completely? Are you comfortable with your partner having hot opposite sex friends?I can't say for sure how I feel. Interested to hear your thoughts.

Throwaway account for obvious reasons. Anyway I've used a toothbrush for anal stimulation plenty of times and its always been perfectly fine, but earlier I thought "what if i used the head instead". It was a really nice feeling there was no pain or anything but after a little while I pulled it out and noticed the water in the shower was red and there was blood on the bristles of the toothbrush. I got out of the shower basically immidiately. I felt nautious and nearly passed out and my ears were ringing but it all went away after about 10 minutes or so. I have really bad anxiety and it was a lot of the symptoms of one of my panic attacks but I'm still really concerned that I've hurt myself. Advice please??? Submitted May 02, 2020 at 01:52AM Throwaway account for obvious reasons. Anyway I've used a toothbrush for anal stimulation plenty of times and its always been perfectly fine, but earlier I thought "what if i used the head instead". It was a...

Basically I've been with a few girls and there's something I've noticed. Once I was fingering this girl who was really loving it, telling me to "don't stop", then I started vigorously licking her clit while fingering her and she went crazy moaning, and as I kept doing it her breathing got faster but then suddenly pushed me away. When I asked what's wrong, she said if I kept going it felt like she was going to pee. (I was confused ¯_(ツ)_/¯. ) Then another time I was really fingering this girl good while we were standing (trying to be sneaky), and as I kept going she said her legs were getting shaky and if I kept going she said it felt like she was gonna pee. Huhh?? This happened a few other times too. Does it mean she's about to orgasm or something else? Ladies what does this mean? Submitted May 02, 2020 at 01:54AM Basically I've been with a few girls and there's something I've noticed.Once I was fingering this girl who was really...

i reconnected with an old flame a few weeks before the quarantine, before we even knew a quarantine would be happening. previously we had a short fling and i really liked him, never admitted to it or asked for more, and backed away when i got the feeling he wasn’t into it and was afraid to be rejected and asked what he felt. now we’ve reconnected and he’s been treating me wonderfully. consistent communication about meaningful topics, compliments, vulnerability, to a point that it never was before. it’s amazing and i feel so much more comfortable and confident in his interest, but it scares me that this is just the quarantine talking. how do i know that he’s really into me? i’m an all or nothing person, so if I’m in the danger zone here with my feelings id rather just step away completely or put myself out there and ask him how he feels about me, but i don’t know if i can count on it being the truth in this time. should i tell him that i think the quarantine is making us reconnect an...

If relationship ended due to circumstances and it wasn’t abusive/manipulative or anything like that, how have your consequent love stories compared? Submitted May 02, 2020 at 01:38AM If relationship ended due to circumstances and it wasn’t abusive/manipulative or anything like that, how have your consequent love stories compared?

So this situation is kinda complicated; we met while I was doing an abroad course. We started hooking up and somewhat texting. When I came back to my country I thought he was going to straight up unfollow me and act as if nothing (bc idk, seems like the most reasonable thing a hookup would do) The thing is he would always see my stories, and then started to respond them. It’s been four weeks of us on this I’ll post something (not a thirst trap) and he’ll reply. What’s kinda been bugging me is the fact that he won’t text me, he just responds to my stories. What is he doing? Is it dumb to start to get excited about this? Submitted May 02, 2020 at 01:33AM So this situation is kinda complicated; we met while I was doing an abroad course. We started hooking up and somewhat texting. When I came back to my country I thought he was going to straight up unfollow me and act as if nothing (bc idk, seems like the most reasonable thing a hookup would do)The thing is he would always see my...

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I'm 20f my bf is 22. It's easy for me to cum by masterbating, and my ex got me off everytime we had sex via oral. I've never cum from piv My current bf of 1.5 years has finally learned how to make me cum. He's done it twice with his fingers and once with his mouth. His libido is lower than mine so I often struggle with the thought of sex not being as important to him. Recently he hasn't been getting me off. He will finger me prior to sex and then give up after a few minutes. It's really frustrating for me to have sex and not get a release. Rolling over and masterbating after sex puts me in a foul mood, like my orgasm doesn't matter. I expressed this to him in a loving way and he said he'd keep it in mind, but sometimes he "wants to move on to other things" (have sex and stop trying to get me to cum). He's also just not a fan of oral in general, which sucks because I love being eaten out. I don't know what to do at this point. I don...

Hi. So I (28/m) started talking to an old Tinder match (23/f) after she texted me early one morning last week. The conversation quickly moved to Snapchat and the next day she gave me her number. After I texted her, she called me that night while she was with her friend and the three of us basically all hung out for a few hours. Me and the lady in question then continued to talk the rest of that night, about 8 hours total. Over the last 10 days we have been talking on the phone every day, usually for 5+ hours everytime (we have logged over 100 hours of video/phone calls already). We have been watching a lot of Netflix Party together and even indulged in some dirty talking on the phone one night. It seems to be going really well, we've both acknowledged how crazy it is that we can talk on the phone for so long and not get bored of each other. We've also talked about meeting up somehow in the midst of this pandemic once the regulations in our area start to lighten up (I'm in...

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1- I accidentally came across a toxic sub and it was about women who had bad relationships, bad exes, etc bad experiences with men. They sympathize with each other and adopted harmful philosophical views about sex and relationship. 2- There has been a survey which shows that the majority of women fake orgasms for a variety of reasons: Stroke their guy´s ego, get over with it, lessen the pressure, etc 3- Last but not least, lesbian experience is the top fantasy among girls as shown by surveys, porn sites and sex studies. It also shows that girls are not satisfied by their sex life with their male partner. With all the points above lined out, it seems like straight girls are the least satisfied with their sexual and romantic relationships, I wonder If most straight girls are actually sexually compatible with guys although they can be romantically attracted to them. What satisfaction or fulfillment they actually get out of a relationship with a guy. Thank you Submitted May 01,...

My girlfriend has always kept things trimmed and I've never really had a problem with that. Over the last few weeks, out of boredom I think, she decided to start shaving. Two things. She's always sexy, no matter what, but she just looks amazing in her new state. And I mean absolutely ridiculously inviting -- maybe her being brown has something to do with that. And two, oral is so much more fun and easier for me. Before, after 5-10 minutes, I'd be ready to move on to something (and she never complained that it wasn't enough), for the first time in forever, I tied her up and told her I'm eating her out till the cows come home. She's never cum multiple times with me eating her out until now. I just didn't get excited to spend that long. I know this is a very touchy topic. Even more so because most of my exes were shaved/waxed and maybe I'm biased that way and I'm worried I'll accidentally say something like that and upset her. How do I convey th...

I'll start by saying I've got no game, even if I think I've figured out the subtle hints or clues I still have a ton of self doubt. So rather than assuming my date wants/would be okay with me kissing her, I figured I'd ask. Women, how did you react when a date asked for permission to kiss you instead of just reading the signs? Submitted May 01, 2020 at 11:27PM I'll start by saying I've got no game, even if I think I've figured out the subtle hints or clues I still have a ton of self doubt. So rather than assuming my date wants/would be okay with me kissing her, I figured I'd ask. Women, how did you react when a date asked for permission to kiss you instead of just reading the signs?

I moved into this apartment at the start of April and have been loving it. Things were perfect here.   Then I started dating a mutual friend, and invited him over a few times. He spent the night once.   It had been 3 days since he was last here, when I found a single bedbug in my bed! I was so disappointed in myself for not only having broken the principle of social distancing, but also about potentially having made a poor judgement about the hygiene of who I'm dating.   Anyway, he's the only person who's been here since I moved in, and I haven't been to anyone else's house.   He asked me today if I'm free for a date tomorrow at my place, but I'm not sure if it's safe for me to have him over. I had an exterminator come and spray the place, but if it's this guy I'm dating who brought the bugs, then that will just decrease the effectiveness of the treatment, right?   How do I ask him tactfully if he has bed bugs, and say that I might pre...

Its going to be so depressing when it's lifted and everyone goes back to normal life Submitted May 01, 2020 at 11:36PM Its going to be so depressing when it's lifted and everyone goes back to normal life

24M, and the last time I dated was 2015. Back then, when matching with someone on tinder or in person you would give them your phone number. Now, trying to get back into dating again after working on myself. I don't really have a big social media presence and don't really like taking pictures of myself. Recently, I've been reading online that now, women expect you to give them your instagram or something rather than just your number. I really don't want to spend the effort making an instagram, adding photos. I know it's no longer cool, but I already have a facebook so it's not like they can't look me up. I have an awesome life. I like going outside, biking, hiking etc. I do it for me, not to prove anything to the world. Is having an instagram a requirement for dating now? Submitted May 01, 2020 at 11:39PM 24M, and the last time I dated was 2015. Back then, when matching with someone on tinder or in person you would give them your phone number.Now, ...

The guy (27M)I've(28F) been seeing for almost four months and who I'm really into is amazing. I am not trying to be jealous but seeing how amazing he is, I'm scared other girls may try to take him from me. I expressed this with him and he said he would never do anything behind my back and if he developed feelings for someone else we would talk about it. Am I just creating things to worry about or is my self esteem just so low that I think I'll lose him to any girl he hangs out with? Submitted May 01, 2020 at 11:40PM The guy (27M)I've(28F) been seeing for almost four months and who I'm really into is amazing. I am not trying to be jealous but seeing how amazing he is, I'm scared other girls may try to take him from me. I expressed this with him and he said he would never do anything behind my back and if he developed feelings for someone else we would talk about it. Am I just creating things to worry about or is my self esteem just so low that I think ...

I know they say we teach people how to treat us and although I’m a model I have insanely low self worth. I know that’s considered unattractive but I thought the normal thing is to just walk away or ignore someone. Why would someone engage you but be cold and demeaning? Even while sexting he comes off short and makes demeaning comments. I’m worried it’s my looks that makes him treat me like that as I’m insanely insecure but I don’t understand it. Is this normal? If you don’t like someone or think they are hideous why not just ghost? Submitted May 01, 2020 at 11:43PM I know they say we teach people how to treat us and although I’m a model I have insanely low self worth. I know that’s considered unattractive but I thought the normal thing is to just walk away or ignore someone. Why would someone engage you but be cold and demeaning? Even while sexting he comes off short and makes demeaning comments. I’m worried it’s my looks that makes him treat me like that as I’m insanely insecur...

Hello guys I have been drinking a bit at home and I had a good friend here too, I really like this good friend of mine. When i brought her back home I didn’t had the balls to tell her this so I told her this over Snapchat, She taught I was drunk but I am not i am just very in love, so what now? Edit: spelling Submitted May 01, 2020 at 11:44PM Hello guys I have been drinking a bit at home and I had a good friend here too, I really like this good friend of mine. When i brought her back home I didn’t had the balls to tell her this so I told her this over Snapchat, She taught I was drunk but I am not i am just very in love, so what now?Edit: spelling

Hey so I'm an 18 year old guy and I'm interested in mature headstrong women I know I can put my back against. I can't really find any my age and It's getting a bit disheartening. But I know I gotta be patient and work on myself. Anyone struggling like this? I kinda had to grow up at a young age because of my circumstances but glad it molded me into who I am today. Submitted May 01, 2020 at 11:48PM Hey so I'm an 18 year old guy and I'm interested in mature headstrong women I know I can put my back against. I can't really find any my age and It's getting a bit disheartening. But I know I gotta be patient and work on myself. Anyone struggling like this? I kinda had to grow up at a young age because of my circumstances but glad it molded me into who I am today.

I (29F) am into my co-worker (29M) but I feel like I'm getting shut down anytime I try. So the backstory is that I actually kinda sorta knew this guy in University. We had classes together but we never really talked. I always thought he was cute and wanted to make a move on him but he seemed quiet and it was impossible to befriend him. Anyway, after we graduated, I didn't see him ever again. Fast forward to now: I recently started a new job and he works there too! He seems pretty cool but he doesn't socialize with work people so it's kinda hard to get to know him. He seems kinda quiet and but we've had some great conversations. We seem to have a lot in common and I want to get to know him better. I was busy with a big project and I told myself I'd ask him out after it was over but then covid happened, the project was postponed, and we haven't been able to talk since we work remotely now. I've texted him here and there but it's always me initiatin...

Im 25 and just want to chase some tail and figure my life out and do some shit ive put off in order to provide for my girl and son the past few years. We are sharing custody 50/50 and tonight is my first night with out him. I downloaded tinder but haven’t made a profile for a couple reasons. 1st is obviously with the world on lock down what is there to do for dates? 2nd i have no pics except selfies or pics as a couple/family. I basically left my highschool friends and anything close to a social life behind to focus on my family years ago, moved to a new city and have like 2 friends so any old facebook pictures are not who i am today. 3rd what do i put in my bio? I have no social life and am not currently working. I play keyboard and compose/produce music and sell beats online and spend most of my time locked in my bedroom doing that, i dont drink or smoke or party like i used to... Im an admittedly boring person lol Any advice on how to get back in the dating scene would be grea...

That's it. It's true. I can't keep it inside any longer. I fucking love you. You make me smile by just existing. I've never felt this way about another human. You're just so, you. How could I not fall in love with you?! All of you, every last centimetre, I love all of you. I just want to hold you, and tell you how fucking amazing you are, and cook you dinner, and kiss you while you wake up, play with your hair, show you that you are more than enough, that you're perfect to me. Fuck. I'm so fucked. What are you meant to do with these feelings?! Help! Submitted May 01, 2020 at 11:48PM That's it. It's true. I can't keep it inside any longer. I fucking love you. You make me smile by just existing. I've never felt this way about another human. You're just so, you. How could I not fall in love with you?! All of you, every last centimetre, I love all of you. I just want to hold you, and tell you how fucking amazing you are, and cook you ...