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I fall in love with everyone

I literally fall in love with every guy I meet, it’s becoming such an problem. I’ve had so many broken hearts from it. A guy could say hello to me and I’ll spend the rest of the day thinking about him. I met this guy at school and talked to him for 2 days about assignments we had due, now I can’t stop thinking about him. Why do I gotta be like this Submitted April 23, 2019 at 05:11AM I literally fall in love with every guy I meet, it’s becoming such an problem. I’ve had so many broken hearts from it. A guy could say hello to me and I’ll spend the rest of the day thinking about him. I met this guy at school and talked to him for 2 days about assignments we had due, now I can’t stop thinking about him. Why do I gotta be like this

He’s the one

I can’t even describe how grateful for my boyfriend. Jonathan, his name is Jonathan and the first time we actually met was in my French class junior year, which I thought he was really annoying and stupid. If you were to tell me that we would date in the future, I would laugh in your face and said “yeah right, I’d never date that guy”. Before I met him I was in a relationship with a guy that promised he’d be better than the last (a guy that messed with my head and videoed me during sex with out my consent or knowledge) I trusted him, and he did the worst thing anything could of done. We got drunk one night and he raped me. All I could think in that moment was “you said you were better” and the world didn’t stop. No one asked me what was wrong, and I didn’t want to wake up. I just wanted to die, yet no one cared. My image of men was already damaged due to every person i knew including my mom were in bad relationships with bad men. It’s didn’t help that two I thought were different turn...

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http://bit.ly/2Gws1dK Submitted April 22, 2019 at 01:41PM http://bit.ly/2Gws1dK

Nice guy is a model AND Biochem major

http://bit.ly/2UP2yXa Submitted April 22, 2019 at 02:10PM http://bit.ly/2UP2yXa

hahaha more like Taken-out-of-my-assFacts

http://bit.ly/2GxoYlJ Submitted April 22, 2019 at 03:07PM http://bit.ly/2GxoYlJ

What are the odds that "Emily" is in any way real?

http://bit.ly/2Xwv24H Submitted April 22, 2019 at 05:05PM http://bit.ly/2Xwv24H

The princess is in another castle

http://bit.ly/2IxV9oE Submitted April 21, 2019 at 11:20AM http://bit.ly/2IxV9oE

Okay thank you man in suit

http://bit.ly/2UOfJYe Submitted April 22, 2019 at 06:32PM http://bit.ly/2UOfJYe

"I am nice."

http://bit.ly/2GwrSHe Submitted April 22, 2019 at 07:15PM http://bit.ly/2GwrSHe

“Women made me this way” 🙄 k.

http://bit.ly/2US1S2Y Submitted April 22, 2019 at 07:46PM http://bit.ly/2US1S2Y

Was having a nap to calm down when he had a go at me.

http://bit.ly/2GwJfrk Submitted April 22, 2019 at 08:27PM http://bit.ly/2GwJfrk

Had this gem for a while, decided to share it after almost 2 months. I am a confirmed 15 year old.

http://bit.ly/2URQHHO Submitted April 22, 2019 at 09:49PM http://bit.ly/2URQHHO

Start bottom right.. never realized my ex was a nice guy

http://bit.ly/2GmKhGk Submitted April 22, 2019 at 10:27PM http://bit.ly/2GmKhGk

ALL Women are AMORAL SOCIOPATHS!!!!

http://bit.ly/2URjkVl Submitted April 22, 2019 at 11:29PM http://bit.ly/2URjkVl

Gotta love 41 year olds on reddit (reposted bc I forgot to remove his user)

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A friend of mine was asked out by a Nice Guy. He tried to use his cancer as a way of convincing her. He was swiftly rejected

http://bit.ly/2UVoY9j Submitted April 22, 2019 at 11:31PM http://bit.ly/2UVoY9j

Nice guys can be those who you least suspect

http://bit.ly/2GGf6Gv Submitted April 22, 2019 at 11:33PM http://bit.ly/2GGf6Gv

Shared by a guy I don't remember adding but he posts this kind of stuff all of the time

http://bit.ly/2UQ3xGC Submitted April 23, 2019 at 12:01AM http://bit.ly/2UQ3xGC

I tried to recreate a joke to get a dude out of my inbox. Expectation vs reality 2.0

http://bit.ly/2GrmkxQ Submitted April 23, 2019 at 02:59AM http://bit.ly/2GrmkxQ

The Enduring Myth of 'Complicated' Female Sexuality

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In a new relationship with the best girl ever who lives an hour away so I don’t know people in her area got this not too long ago I’m still laughing

http://bit.ly/2USbU4a Submitted April 23, 2019 at 03:18AM http://bit.ly/2USbU4a

When r/iamverysmart and r/niceguys have a baby

http://bit.ly/2GsilBd Submitted April 23, 2019 at 03:31AM http://bit.ly/2GsilBd

I love discord!

http://bit.ly/2URjkoj Submitted April 23, 2019 at 03:43AM http://bit.ly/2URjkoj

Trying to figure out next steps/if I should take a next step

I [22f] met a guy on a dating app [24m] and after about 10 days of talking, we decided to meet. He asked me if I wanted to go over to his house and watch a movie, and as much as I saw the movie as just a pretense, I also really wanted to prove myself wrong because he seemed like someone I would want to know more. We spent some time picking out a movie to watch, and we ended up picking his favorite movie. We started the movie sitting slightly apart, and we talked through the beginning of the movie. He would comment on the movie and then ask a question about me and I would ask it back. It was good conversation and a good movie, and around the middle of the movie, we got more comfortable with one another. He wrapped his arm around my side and held my hand that I had draped over my stomach. More towards the climax, he brought his other hand over and held me super close. The movie was getting really good so there was less conversation by that point, and it was really obvious that I wanted...

Why do I keep pushing away really amazing potential partners?

To preface this, I (22F) am fairly inexperienced when it comes to dating. I have now only actually dated two men in my entire life both were pretty short lived because of uncertainty on my end. Both of these guys were people who I shared similar values and interests with, had good chemistry with, was attracted to and could see myself building a life with. I’m the kind of person who’s all or nothing. I don’t have any interest in casual flings and I take intimate relationships quite seriously. With both of these relationships, early on I started doubting whether or not I really wanted to be in a relationship with them despite everything seeming to match up on the surface. I couldn’t explain why I felt this way with either of them but in the end it caused me extreme anxiety which eventually caused me to end the relationship because I couldn’t handle the anxiety it was causing me. In both of these relationships the guys expressed pretty strong feelings for me early in the relationship whi...

21M virgin and I don’t make any progress

I’ve been watching personal development videos for a year or two, reading a few books and spend a few months on subreddits like r/confidence , r/socialanxiety and r/getdisciplined in order to improve overall. But I never actually made any progress. I still don’t have any good close friends, only people I talk to at university. I study computer science so not a lot of girls and I don’t know how to approach people and make friends anyways. I never went to parties or bars or whatever. Only a few times to movies. That’s my social life in a nutshell... I’ve only dated a girl once : It was two years ago. I was very lucky. I dm’d her on a forum and asked her if she wanted to meet, and she said yes because she needed somebody to talk to as she had broken up with her boyfriend two months earlier. We had a lot in common, both introverts, same interests. She even told me I was nice physically and I had a great personality. But I’m average and obviously something’s wrong with me, I think she...

Need Advice: Getting mixed signals from co-worker, debating asking her out

Sorry if this is too long. New girl started at work about three months ago. In our line of work two people will work together all day so there's a lot of time for conversation which always turns into non-work related at some point. First time working with this person was actually an overnight trip so plenty of time to spend together and get to know each other. Dinner on this trip kinda felt like a first date somewhat and I, at least, was picking up a small vibe after a while. Couple weeks pass and after working together we've begun talking about our families and our histories and likes and dislikes and opening up to each other. We especially like talking about music and have introduced a few new bands to each other. She also seems to genuinely laugh at my dumb jokes. At this point I'm starting to get a "thing" for her and about to ask her out and in conversation she mentions having gone on a couple dates with a guy, so there went the wind from my sails. Next da...

What to do about guy at work, a struggle

I am a 23yo free spirited woman, I tend to be very bubbly and it leads people to misinterpreting my intentions. Recently at my part time, a coworker of mine has taken interest. Assuming it was for friendship, I began hanging out with him outside of work. Soon a drunken hook up followed and I have found myself in a tough spot. He's a 26yo devote Christian, and he is constantly pushing religion on me. I always listen tentatively, and although I have different views, I never bash his beliefs (though he openly stated that buddhism "wont get me anywhere"/"waste of time") I like to party and he looks down openly on aspects of my lifestyle, He catches an attitude when I don't call on him for help at work, literally will come over and be like "What the fuck? I'm not good enough to help? You know my number call me." Thing is, he likes to blow off work and I'm trying to get things done quickly and efficiently. I dont have time for your half asse...

I’m a regular.

I’m a regular at my local coffee shop. I Go there about everyday before work or school. I think that one of the baristas is cute and pretty friendly. Now yes I know they are really nice for their job especially in customer service. We’ve established rapport by having a small chat about whatever as I wait for my drink. She even got me into watching GOT. Lol. So my question to all you guys would be is it okay to at least ask her out in a subtle way, passing her my number on paper or something small?? Or should I just keep it same and not say anything and go on?? Thoughts . Submitted April 23, 2019 at 02:55AM I’m a regular at my local coffee shop. I Go there about everyday before work or school. I think that one of the baristas is cute and pretty friendly. Now yes I know they are really nice for their job especially in customer service. We’ve established rapport by having a small chat about whatever as I wait for my drink. She even got me into watching GOT. Lol. So my question to a...

Trying to bang a bassist for my birthday

Hey everyone! Well,my 22nd birthday is on Saturday and I’m trying to have some fun with this specific band member that I met in October last year. We hit it off after his set and I got to know him a bit better. Didn’t get his contact info but since it’s a small college town, we both saw each other at a bar a few months later, smiled and said hello. I follow their band on instagram and found out that they’re having one last show this Saturday. Any advice at all to make my move? Thanks! Submitted April 23, 2019 at 03:12AM Hey everyone! Well,my 22nd birthday is on Saturday and I’m trying to have some fun with this specific band member that I met in October last year. We hit it off after his set and I got to know him a bit better. Didn’t get his contact info but since it’s a small college town, we both saw each other at a bar a few months later, smiled and said hello. I follow their band on instagram and found out that they’re having one last show this Saturday. Any advice at all to...

my paranoid boyfriend reads reddit

my boyfriend reads reddit almost every day. he reads all the dating and relationship horror stories of cheating, lying, hidden feelings, etc. i just wanted you all to know how much more work you are creating for me as i try to remind him daily that we are not reddit and that he should never scroll through reddit while unsupervised. Submitted April 23, 2019 at 03:15AM my boyfriend reads reddit almost every day. he reads all the dating and relationship horror stories of cheating, lying, hidden feelings, etc. i just wanted you all to know how much more work you are creating for me as i try to remind him daily that we are not reddit and that he should never scroll through reddit while unsupervised.

How to behave with someone you liked but shouldn't anymore?

I blew it with this girl recently. We only went out twice. The first date was nice, however the external factors were not in my favor, still a pretty good date. She had been away most weekends so planning was a bit tough but she was always enthusiastic in response to my suggestions. We scheduled a second date but the weather was again against me. I had to settle for something indoors which isn't my strongest suit. The date was cute but awkward. We kissed at the end with a promise to meet the following week. Good night messages were exchanged and that was the last I heard from her for 5 days. I was in denial so eventually got a text that she didn't feel the spark. I wasn't surprised because I knew the second date was not up to my level. The problem is that I KNOW that I'm better, and that I have a lot in common with her. She's not wrong wither because she saw the dull indoorsy guy. Anyway, we both participate in one particular activity and I ran into her at a place...

My experience

Hey so it's my first time posting here and Idk if I should case I've never had a good or even a true relationship.. But the one's I felt I've had have all ended up with me being heart broken for something, one thing I said or for being me, a nice guy.. I feel I'm interesting enough that some girl would like me to date me, also I'm not the worst or best looking guy, but I don't understand why no girls I meet ever give me a chance or they blow up and break my heart over one tiny mess up?😞 Any comments are welcome🙈😊 Submitted April 23, 2019 at 03:22AM Hey so it's my first time posting here and Idk if I should case I've never had a good or even a true relationship..But the one's I felt I've had have all ended up with me being heart broken for something, one thing I said or for being me, a nice guy..I feel I'm interesting enough that some girl would like me to date me, also I'm not the worst or best looking guy, but I don'...

[Advice] I need feedback from a conversation I had today.

I normally never bother analyzing texts anymore because I usually find it a waste of time but I to see if people are getting the same impression I am. Me: Hey, X! It's Chronos96 from [place of work ] how's the studying going? Are you still stressing out about that final? Her: Definitely stressing but just wanted to be upfront I do have a bf so I don't want you to get the wrong impression. Me: No worries, between work and everything else going on my life's too busy for a relationship at the moment. Sometimes friendships are more rewarding. I appreciate your honesty though. I just mean I'm really career oriented at this point in time. Being friends sounds great! It's been radio silence since then. The only scenarios in my head I can think of are maybe she thought I didn't get the message about her being in a relationship which Is why I said being friends sounds great. Or maybe she expected me to act deflated or something? I know this is a dating subred...

How to deal with date that talks about themselves way too much and does not follow up with my conversation

I’ve been dating a guy for a month. I think I like him on the first sight but then it’s kinda going into a nosedive because he always talk about himself. He would contact me every day, talking about what he does and inviting me to his friends party. I know everything he is doing without even asking. I follow up with his topic and it worked for me for a while but then I started to get exhausted because it’s one/sided conversation... I told him once that I’m not sure if he knows what I like. He admitted it and said ppl have told him that he is a bit self-centered. He has asked me questions once in a while but I feel that once I answered it he never follow up with anything or acknowledge it but quickly diverged to his topics. Do you think I should talk to him again about this issue in a more explicit way or I should just move on. I do not want to hurt his feeling by simply just disappearing. Thank you :) Submitted April 23, 2019 at 04:02AM I’ve been dating a guy for a month. I thi...

I made out with a Gay guy?

(F20) I went to a make out party at my friend's university. Not too sure how common those are nowadays but it was just a regular house party where you can ask people if they want to make out with you- Self explanatory. Although I visit this friend at their college a lot & I'm familiar with a handful of their friends, I noticed this very attractive male I've never seen before while dancing. I should mention this was also the night I kissed anyone ever for the first time. So I'm obviously inexperienced and every kiss/make out that night felt very overwhelming (in a good way) Especially when I kissed this guy. After making out with one person already, I get the courage to ask if he wants to kiss and he accepts. I lead him away from the dance floor, and we start making out. I parted for air at one point, and he started to kiss down my neck. He kissed/nibbled on my neck & chest a bit before we start kissing again and eventually stop. Later that night, I find out f...

Date (24F) does not initiate text conversation

I (25M) went on 5 dates with this girl (24F) I met online. We went to dinners, movies and bars. I made out with her in the last 2 dates. We talked about being exclusive. We usually keep messaging every evening, but she never initiated text conversation. While she rarely asks me questions, she did ask me several questions about my personality and interests over time. In my past experience girls who are interested will at least try to initiate text half the time and ask lots of questions. Is she actually interested or am I just one of the candidate boyfriends? Submitted April 23, 2019 at 04:48AM I (25M) went on 5 dates with this girl (24F) I met online. We went to dinners, movies and bars. I made out with her in the last 2 dates. We talked about being exclusive.We usually keep messaging every evening, but she never initiated text conversation. While she rarely asks me questions, she did ask me several questions about my personality and interests over time.In my past experience g...

If she’s insecure about dating you, ask one more time and leave.

There was this girl that I really liked, we talked a lot, hung out and always had a good time. When I expressed my feeling she told me that she was kinda seeing another girl (she’s bisexual) but that I was making her insecure about everything, she told me that she liked but a while ago because of a trip I had to make we stopped talking and she felt bad because of that. I asked her what can i do? What can she do? Is there anything we can do? She just ignored the questions and changed topic, guys/girls if the person you like is insecure about you, even worse If they are in some sorta relationship. Just leave, it’s better for both of you. Submitted April 23, 2019 at 04:48AM There was this girl that I really liked, we talked a lot, hung out and always had a good time. When I expressed my feeling she told me that she was kinda seeing another girl (she’s bisexual) but that I was making her insecure about everything, she told me that she liked but a while ago because of a trip I had to...

Should I try one more "hey?"

I'll try to make this as short as I can. I told this girl I liked her, she told me she liked me. We went on a date, and it went well. I tried setting up a couple more dates, but she is busy this time of year with school and work, so instead I started offering to pick her up from work. So that's what I'd do, pick her up, we'd talk and make out for a while, then she'd go home. We'd been texting every day, things seemed to be going well. Until one day, a switch got flipped. I'd text her, and many hours later I'd receive a one word response. I offered to pick her up again, nope she's got a ride. I asked her out on another date, she said she'd let me know. Then silence. She hasn't texted me, I haven't texted her. For a few days now. I know the answer is probably to just let her go. But there was no sign she lost interest or anything, and the last night we were together was great, so it just seems odd to me that she'd ghost me like this....

Is she not interested or playing hard to get?

I [22M] responded to a girls [22F] Instagram story from my class last year. We got along quite well and she posted a picture of her dog, I said it looks cute and she kept the conversation going. I offered to catchup over coffee over the long weekend and she said she wasn’t free until late next week. The messages go: Me: (message about catching up over coffee next week) Her: Ohh I probably wouldn't be able to til like Wednesday Me: How about Friday around 2pm? Her: Oh I cant do friday sorry Me: All good 🙂 are you free Saturday or Monday Her: Ah i'd only be able to do Saturday morning Her tone changed a fair bit, and to me it comes across as she’s not keen. But if she wasn’t interested why would she offer the Saturday, rather than just saying she’s busy? My coworker reckons I should just drop it, say I’m busy and stop messaging her cordially. Is anyone else of the same opinion? Submitted April 23, 2019 at 05:11AM I [22M] responded to a girls [22F] Instagram story from ...

Playing hard to get or am I coming on too strong?

I met a girl on POF and we went out for a first date on Thursday. I felt like things went really well. The plan was for a game mini golf and dinner. In addition to that we ended up walking around, chatting, playing two games of bowling and then walking some more. The whole date went about 5 hours and I felt like there was mad chemistry. Definitely didn’t feel like 5 hours. As we said our goodnights I asked when I could see her again and she said she needed to check her work schedule. We kissed goodnight, I got lost in the parking lot and she texted me offering me a ride to my car. I agreed, she dropped me off and we smooched once again and told her I had a lot of fun and she said the same. When I got home we texted a bit and she said she was free on Friday, Saturday and Sunday evening. I asked what day works for her and her response was “any and all”. Pretty good sign, right? We agreed to hang out the next night for dinner and a movie. Next night during dinner she seemed distant and ...

(20M) Why is it so hard for old souls to find someone?

None of my relationships have gone anywhere even when the women and I have good chemistry. Multiple times I've been told I've done nothing wrong and treat them amazing yet they still don't want to be in a relationship. Or, if it does become a relationship they still break up with me and say it truly wasn't anything I've done. Am I doing something wrong and they just won't tell me? Submitted April 23, 2019 at 06:31AM None of my relationships have gone anywhere even when the women and I have good chemistry. Multiple times I've been told I've done nothing wrong and treat them amazing yet they still don't want to be in a relationship. Or, if it does become a relationship they still break up with me and say it truly wasn't anything I've done. Am I doing something wrong and they just won't tell me?

i (20f) am getting mixed signals from a coworker (19m) and would like some feedback?

so i’ve been hanging out with a coworker a lot recently- we hung out alone twice before going on a first date. those first two times we hung out alone, we spent almost 8 hours together just hanging out. we went to the beach and looked at the stars both times, and it was lovely. that was when i shot my shot and asked him on a date, and he said he’d love to. we had a wonderful time (or, i did and he said he did). first, we got to mcdonalds, then went to a movie and held hands and then looked at the stars on the beach. during the movie, i initiated hand holding but he didn’t seem receptive to what i was doing (i squeezed his hnd and was waiting for him to squeeze back, but it just didn’t happen?), so i was a little concerned. then, we went to the beach and he held my hand and helped me on to the rocks, then held me on the beach while i cuddled up into his chest. afterwards, we cuddled in the backseat of his car (per his suggestion). he spoke in that gentle tone that i’ve noticed men l...

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