This just happened to me. I was driving in the car with my friend for an hour and half road trip. We were making great conversation and catching up. While speaking he would periodically touch my arm. I was uncomfortable with it but said nothing because I didn’t want to seem over dramatic. I also understand some people talk and will touch your arm and it’s not sexual. On the drive back we were talking and laughing and his hand went from touching my arm to touching my upper thigh. Every fiber in my body screams repulsion. I felt violated. So I snatch his hand away and didn’t care how he felt about. He didn’t touch me again for the remainder of the trip. But the next day I called him and made it very clear I DON’T LIKE BEING TOUCHED he said he understood. I haven’t heard from him since. I just don’t get it. I’ve already told the guy I’m only interested in being friends and working together. He agreed. Then he does this? I’ve accepted the loss of the friendship for the sake of my boundari...

Yeah, theres definitely a physical appearance feature to most, if not, all apps, and OkCupid is not free from it! of course, sadly things aren't perfect when it comes to dating and well I think OKC is one of the better options lol Definitely a much more serious dating experience, but hey, as an asexual, thats what I personally wanted!! May 05, 2022 at 12:02AM

Oh and there is a Asexual Dating Discord Server. May 04, 2022 at 11:59PM

Like A QPR ? May 04, 2022 at 11:58PM

So long story short i ve been talking to this girl for a while and she seems fun , but since we never met irl , we just chat and so we got to the topic of how we looked as kids , i sent her a few of mine photos she said i was very cute , then she asked for some recent pictures so she can compare them , after i ve sent it the only comments i got were “well you look your age “ followed by a voice note saying that i do not look like myself and her laughing and saying just kidding , but i ve got a hunch that she s not so i kinda take it that she s not interested since she said i looked different than when i was supposedly “very cute “ im guessing she did not like it , not sure if theres any advice for this one but just needed to vent Submitted May 05, 2022 at 12:13AM So long story short i ve been talking to this girl for a while and she seems fun , but since we never met irl , we just chat and so we got to the topic of how we looked as kids , i sent her a few of mine photos she said...

I’m just a typical girl who wanted to be in a loyal, non-toxic, and loving relationship. But, the more I am in a relationship now, the more I realize that we’re just different. I thought if you enter in a relationship you should have no contact with your ex, no sexual pics or videos or even being friends with them. I already told him how I feel about it, but for him he just want to keep it and filter it out for memories. I just don’t know what to do. I am getting toxic by sneaking through his phones and laptop. I saw the videos and pics and it makes me anxious since he told me he deleted everything. For me, I feel like I’m being lied to again. Yeah, I violated some boundaries but I was hoping I’m not gonna see those pics because of what he told me. He is mentally exhausted, so am I. I just wanna run away and have amnesia to be honest. Just don’t wanna feel the pain. Submitted May 05, 2022 at 12:15AM I’m just a typical girl who wanted to be in a loyal, non-toxic, and loving relat...

Nice although the green for aro is so dark it looks more like black May 04, 2022 at 11:08PM