(30F) writes: The title is essentially a summary of what happened, but after mulling this over in my head for several months, I feel a need to see if I’m looking at this the wrong way. I don’t want this to happen again in a future relationship, as this really threw me for a loop. I also know that some guys are just a-holes and jerks, but things seemed so good and then were not good. I'm sorry if any of this makes me sound naive but I really don’t know what the hell happened. This is a long post, but the information included is essential for fully understanding the situation. He was 36M, and I 30F at the time of the relationship. Without further ado, here’s what happened. I’ll give some backstory so things make more sense, but for privacy reasons won’t give specifics or identifying info like names (personal or cities). ~ By the time we started dating last year, I’d known my (now ex) bf, who I'll call Mark, for around a decade. We’d met for the first time at a convention abo...