Been going out with this girl for about a month now. She slept over last night and we finally did the dirty. Afterwards she said “you’re going to regret that” which is a concerning thing to hear lmao, but I asked why and she said “I’m not looking for something too serious right now, I really like hanging out with you but I just got out of a relationship so I’m not sure how ready I am for something serious” I told her that was fine and she didn’t need to be upset about it (cause she was visibly upset). I would want something serious eventually with this girl, but am willing to take it as slow as she wants. Should I just keep my distance and not be “forcing” something more serious on her? Or just go about the natural progression of causally dating her and see what it turns into. Submitted March 28, 2022 at 01:15AM Been going out with this girl for about a month now. She slept over last night and we finally did the dirty. Afterwards she said “you’re going to regret that” which is a...

I wish I was ugly, I don't want a bunch of people flirting with me. March 27, 2022 at 11:25PM

I don’t understand why you would have an urge to stay away. It sounds more like sex-repulsion then sexual attraction. March 27, 2022 at 11:25PM

So i went on 2 dates with this girl. She gave me the impression of being the type of girl who doesn't want to rush things and take her time before getting physical with a guy. So i didn't make that much moves in comparison to what i do with other girls( we hugged,held hands, kissed her on the cheek... But i didnt kiss her). Yesterday, i was in a restaurant with my friends and then i was shocked seeing her with her female friend that "everybody has slept with" sitting in a table with 2 other guys. I really lost interest in her when i saw her and i really dont know how to act if we come across each others or if she texts me. Submitted March 28, 2022 at 12:13AM So i went on 2 dates with this girl. She gave me the impression of being the type of girl who doesn't want to rush things and take her time before getting physical with a guy. So i didn't make that much moves in comparison to what i do with other girls( we hugged,held hands, kissed her on the cheek....

I’m sorry your sibling reacted that way. It was unfair to you. I’m also in my 30s and single, and some people are weird about it, but honestly it’s great. I’ve found that acting SUPER confident about being single has helped. Fake it til you make it, you know? March 27, 2022 at 11:24PM

Not really sexual attraction or attraction at all though, that’s just an urge. March 27, 2022 at 11:23PM