Well I do strive to become asexual but apparently it was given at birth I’m assuming. Although I’ve seen someone say you could become asexual later in life. I feel like that’s the best way to go because you’ll be so independent and sex won’t mean anything and no time wasted. I just feel like if I go on celibacy I will be sexual frustrated and build up a lot of stress. Mainly for the first 2 weeks to a month then I hear it gets better but it’s so hard. This is why I looked at becoming asexual because I won’t get sexual frustrated if I don’t have any feelings at all. May 25, 2021 at 12:01AM

That makes sense too, thank you! I too always thought it's basically just "anything is better than sex" May 24, 2021 at 11:58PM

Aw hell yeah, no wonder I jived with his channel. May 24, 2021 at 11:58PM

My understanding of the dragon symbolism is parallel to the garlic bread mascot; "Yeah, sex is cool, but have you ever tasted garlic bread?" and "Sure sex is cool but I want a pet dragon". IIRC unicorns are the bisexual icon May 24, 2021 at 11:55PM

Welcome aboard! Figuring yourself out can be complicated, so take your time with the nitty-gritty details. May 24, 2021 at 11:53PM

you're looking for /r/celibacy . celibacy is choosing to forgo sex. this sub is about the sexual orientation May 24, 2021 at 11:50PM

Okay but this is me. I can watch each and any horror movie, all alone, in my apartment, at night, with the lights off, but I can’t play a horror game in full daylight without panicking and turning off the console when something starts chasing me. May 24, 2021 at 11:50PM

I usually offer situational comedy, but I’ll throw my two cents in. Anyone else notice how the spade looks like a butt plug?? ♠️ May 24, 2021 at 11:48PM

First of all, I can understand being frustrated about something that is out of control. I'm really sorry that you have to deal with that. But, i think that you are a little bit misinformed. You can't really become asexual. It's a sexual orientation, someone who does not feel sexual attraction may identify as asexual (ace), it's not any better or worse than any other orientation (although we do have a pretty great flag). It's just an inherent property of who we are, not something to become or strive for. Some people discover that they are ace later in life, but it's not a thing you can convert to. If you are sex repulsed and allosexual (someone who feels sexual attraction) that's completely valid and nothing to be ashamed of. There are people here who support you. May 24, 2021 at 11:47PM

I think that says I own a Dakota. May 24, 2021 at 11:47PM

This. I'm not in a relationship, but if I ever am, my partner needs to know that I'm ace because it will affect our sex life. May 24, 2021 at 11:46PM

enjoying looking at cute humans doesn't seem any weirder to me than enjoying looking at cute animals. and enjoying looking at beautiful humans doesn't seem any weirder to me than enjoying looking at beautiful landscapes or beautiful art. i can't help but be a bit weirded out by your saying "like porn" though. May 24, 2021 at 11:46PM

My gf is ace and I'm non-ace(I apologize ahead of time if I don't get the terminology right) we've been dating for 5 years now and sometimes I just don't know what I'm doing or if I'm doing something wrong. We have not been intimate in our relationship and I know she does get uncomfortable whenever anything sexually is mentioned. I know communication is key for any and all relationships but I just don't know how to just roll into a conversation about being intimate. May 24, 2021 at 11:46PM

Asexual people can still have libido, the only thing is they don’t have the urge to fuck someone/do sexual things with them. Also, you can’t choose if you’re asexual or not, sorry :( But please remember that libido and/or sexual urges are completely normal and you don’t have to worry about it if it doesn’t become a problem. May 24, 2021 at 11:42PM

Ah, that may be why I never saw it, I never looked at the interviews. That's pretty awesome though! That's some nice awareness. May 24, 2021 at 11:41PM

I am a aegosexual and really enjoy writing bdsm erotica The subgenre has very specific expectations if you want to stick to the market and make profit. Deviation would be fun, but is a huge waste of time. Further more: its more about getting off and feeling good over being a place to teach people about asexuality. They only want the characters to have sex and enjoy the bliss afterwards. May 24, 2021 at 11:41PM

I. . . I don't that's how things work May 24, 2021 at 11:36PM

Lazysexual lol? May 24, 2021 at 11:30PM

you only like to receive sex and not be too terribly involved? There's a label for that. I don't remember what it is but it exists. May 24, 2021 at 11:29PM

I think I'm homosexual/heteromantic? But, like, you only like to receive sex and not be too terribly involved? I've been real confused lately...😔 May 24, 2021 at 11:28PM

Op didn't even bother coming up with another joke, huh? May 24, 2021 at 11:27PM

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Only if my parents are there. I actually like them if they’re for comedy and it’s done well May 24, 2021 at 11:24PM