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Should I buy her a bracelet? Is it too soon?

Hello! I(23M) have been dating a girl (21F) for 3 months, we decided to be exclusive and everything is great, we spent a lot of time together, I met her friends and her parents. She met my friends and my parents know about her. She really had a tough life and now her family is having a big big problem and she is having a really bad time with all of this. The last time we saw each other she told me she really like the pandora bracelet and that she wants one. So I’m planning to buy her this bracelet but I don’t know if it’s too soon or if it would look clingy or desperate or something like that but I think this gift will make her happy and maybe help her in these difficult times I want to buy it because I would really like to see her happy What do you think? Sorry for my bad english Submitted June 02, 2023 at 02:10AM Hello! I(23M) have been dating a girl (21F) for 3 months, we decided to be exclusive and everything is great, we spent a lot of time together, I met her friends and h...

/u/nelphoto on Where my old aces at?

38 here! June 02, 2023 at 01:21AM

Women sending the first message on dating apps doesn’t work

I often hear that women should try sending the first message instead of men. But every time I’ve done that, they usually never reply, or they’ll reply only once and then never message again. I’ve gotten more success with men sending me the first message, I assume because they’re “more” interested? I’m not exactly sure why that is - I don’t send a bland first message like “Hey” either, I try to make it engaging. Submitted June 02, 2023 at 01:14AM I often hear that women should try sending the first message instead of men. But every time I’ve done that, they usually never reply, or they’ll reply only once and then never message again. I’ve gotten more success with men sending me the first message, I assume because they’re “more” interested? I’m not exactly sure why that is - I don’t send a bland first message like “Hey” either, I try to make it engaging.

How would you feel if your date gave you a hand maid, painted paper flower, instead of a real flower?

I want to give my date a flower, but I’m cheap as they get, and an artist. Thoughts? Submitted June 02, 2023 at 12:15AM I want to give my date a flower, but I’m cheap as they get, and an artist. Thoughts?

/u/CheerfulAce93 on Feeling invalidated as ace

Yes, the more I talk with the majority of people the more I realize just how different I am, despite having spent about 28 years of my life just thinking I hadn't "met the one" or had "too high standards" June 01, 2023 at 11:34PM