I'm a Sex Repulsed Asexual, but I would NEVER say that to a friend, I mean yeah, my friends know I think sex is gross, and that I find the results of it (children) aren't cute, but I wouldn't ever call someone a bad person for having sex- after all, 99% of the population does, it's just strange to me I'd say sit down and have a talk with her, explaining that you're more than open to her talking about her opinions but that her critical comments are hurting your feelings and that you'd like her to stop, if she understands then she's a good friend I'd say March 17, 2020 at 12:14AM

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That is gorgeous! Great way to use creative energy instead of sex! March 17, 2020 at 12:09AM

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Thanks for the encouragement!! I actually don't mind sex as it is and I'm not sex repulsed, I aporeciate it for the intimacy hahaha I just don't feel sexual attraction so the thought of doing it with someone makes me feel weird. It's good to have it figured out tho. March 16, 2020 at 11:58PM

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It’s happened a few times in our 18-month relationship. I’ll tell him his drinking is unhealthy and that I don’t like it, and he’ll swear at me and call me names. He’s said I’m garbage, a piece a shit, a dumb bitch, that I’ve been “getting fucked,” that he has them “lined up” and I’m not the last. The last time this happened through text, I didn’t respond. The next morning he texted me a long paragraph about how he’s “lost respect for me” and that I don’t really love him because I don’t stand by him. Oh, and that I’m not a “real woman” because I won’t stand by him, that I don’t actually love him. I have never talked to him like that and if I did, he would never talk to me again. The drinking involves driving, general stupidity, breaking things, swearing at me (“fuck you, bitch” is slurred often). 90% of the time, things are good, but the other 10% is made of toxicity. The good: He is invested and involved in my emotional, physical well-being. The bad: all of the above. What do you...

tl;dr: How do I [25F] stop being so bitter toward my mother who gave away a free car to my younger brother? I live with my mother and so do my two adult siblings (31F and 10M). The good part is that I just got a new job so I’ll be moving out but I still need help with getting over the resentment I’ve been harbouring toward my family, particularly my mother. I was born deaf and because of this my mother is extremely protective of me. I know it’s natural for parents to be more protective when their children have a disability but it’s getting in the way for me. I’m an accountant and got an amazing job at a major institution. Since I became a teenager I have always wanted to drive a car. I hounded on my mother who by the way is a single parent and she said she enforced a rule that all of my siblings must be 19 before they could give their permit and that the elder sibling gets a car first. I respected that rule. Until my brother turned 18 and got his permit already. Of course I was ma...

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I’m using a throwaway account here :) To keep the story somewhat short, I have feelings for a Male friend and it turns out these feelings aren’t reciprocated... so I think. The situation between us has been so strange for a little while now. Initially, when we started speaking to each other, it was just friendly chatting, and as time went on, it felt like things became a bit more flirty, or at the very least, I got the impression he was kind of interested in me. I also started to feel interested in him too. We text each other everyday, he texts me every night, and he often used to tell me how much he likes talking to me. Eventually we decided to meet up (we knew each other through a friend of a friend type connection), and we went to a concert together. He paid for my ticket which I was surprised by and I made so many offers to him to pay him back but he said no, it’s fine, I’ll treat you. At this point I couldn’t help but think, he’s dropping a big sign here that this could be a d...

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2 weeks ago my(26) gf(22) of 6 months and I were in bed together and she made me orgasm. We didn't have sex but she said that she sat on my leg where some of the residue was. So may or may not that some went inside her. She was on the last day of her period at the time so was not wearing the patch. Since then she's been feeling nauseous and sick every morning, feeling happy then sad and also back pain now and then. She has her appetite back but she can't so exercise without getting tired or hungry. There is a chance that she is, but could this be another illness? Also will we be able to terminate this from going any further because neither of us are ready for this. TL;DR GF may be pregnant but we didn't have sex. Any other related illnesses? Submitted March 17, 2020 at 12:10AM 2 weeks ago my(26) gf(22) of 6 months and I were in bed together and she made me orgasm. We didn't have sex but she said that she sat on my leg where some of the residue was. So may...

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