So - I've (38M) been dating this woman (35F) for a little over six months. Everything has been freaking awesome. To the extent that we are planning to move in together around September/October when my lease expires. She recently (planned because of work) moved about 2.5 hours away, and I'll be joining her over there when I can. In the meantime we spend every weekend together, with either her coming here or me going there. It's not ideal, obviously we'd rather be in the same area, but it's working and what we have feels really special, so we are more than willing to make it work. ​ Over this past weekend we had a realization. In addition to planning to move into together we've also agreed that marriage is in our future, of course barring anything unexpectedly going south. Not at a set a date stage. Just a "we see exactly what we want in our partner with each-other and acknowledge that we want this to be forever" stage. At one point we were talking ab...

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My dearest love, I couldn't sleep last night. I was thinking about you. You haunted me last night. Whenever I would try and sleep, I'd close my eyes and I'd see your warm, beautiful face that I've loved for so long. I saw you beautiful eyes and your soft kissable lips. I remembered that when I would kiss you, the whole world faded and it was just you and I. It was always like that...just you and I when we were together. I felt safe when I was in your presence. But you dont want me. You aren't in love with me like I'm in love with you. I think I cried half the night because I finally realized that I love you more than you love me...I've always loved you more. I've always wanted to just talk and hear you tell me you love me and I think you did once and I felt weak in the in the knees. I was always content with just being next to you...in the same space and kissing you goodnight/goodmorning. Even though, sex is inevitable, it's not necessary for me t...

I am in love with someone that I know does not feel the same and I can never be with. But I also feel I’m wrong for loving her as she is my girlfriends cousin. The thing is my girlfriend does not love me or care about me and I’m starting to believe she never did. She was physically abusive early into the relationship. But I still had a child with her so I was/am unwilling to leave her. I haven’t been perfect (bit of an anger problem sometimes) but she still gets angry if I try to be romantic. I developed a crush my Girlfriends cousin and really fell for her about three years ago. Her boyfriend ( now husband,For a few more weeks anyway). Got her pregnant but only cared about himself. I saw her pain and I realized it hurt me bad to see her hurt emotionally and that I was in love with her. She now has three kids by two guys and her current bf treats her decently good. I can tell she loves him and has no interest in me. I feel like I can only be happy around her, and am just depressed whe...

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We broke up a month ago, we had a relationship for 3 years and one day she started hanging with old friends and told me that I was boring and didn't take care of her, she admitted that she cheated on me and decided that she wanted to be alone. I didn't took it well and was very down for 20 days but recently I've been in a better space mentally, but somehow I can't stop thinking about her she was my first love and very special to me, recently she blocked me from social media and I think she's already dating and having sex with someone else, I can't stop thinking about that, during the day I think a lot of times about her and what she's doing and with whom, I need help. It's so hard to let go, I don't know how because she was my first love, the first person that I ever took home, the first person that I really cared for.... Submitted April 16, 2019 at 08:24PM We broke up a month ago, we had a relationship for 3 years and one day she started hang...

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I've never really loved anyone and would like to know what it's like. I'd like to have my heart broken by someone else, there's something really poetic in it. I fear I'll never be able to maintain a relationship because the only one I had lasted about 4 months and I started getting bored in the 2nd month. At first it's always hard to tell if it's love or just a transitory good feeling that person gives me. Also, it's not good to deceive people, I always feel like I've been using them when after all I was just confused (still not a fair reason but well). Does anybody else feel like this? Submitted April 16, 2019 at 09:22PM I've never really loved anyone and would like to know what it's like. I'd like to have my heart broken by someone else, there's something really poetic in it. I fear I'll never be able to maintain a relationship because the only one I had lasted about 4 months and I started getting bored in the 2nd month. ...

i’m assuming the honeymoon phase/ natural high is already making me feel high which feels like a weed high sometimes cause that’s all i can relate it to and when i smoke weed it makes it too intense. i’ve stopped smoking but was wondering if anyone else felt this way? Submitted April 16, 2019 at 09:46PM i’m assuming the honeymoon phase/ natural high is already making me feel high which feels like a weed high sometimes cause that’s all i can relate it to and when i smoke weed it makes it too intense.i’ve stopped smoking but was wondering if anyone else felt this way?

Really liked a girl at workplace. Attraction was strong with her but never made a move. I used yo feel bizzare connection with her without even knowing. Sounds dramatic i never felt like this before either. Caught her looking at me so many times and bumping in at coffee place (whenever i went, she would follow). One fine rainy evening, found her waiting for the rain to stop, made a deep eye contact(for the first time) and smiled at her and she smiled back!!. i think i became numb for a moment, i never felt this sensation with such a small action of someone. Cut to few days later, i try to talk (on chat platform as she was shy), replies couple of times and then ignores. I feel bad-confront her - she makes excuses-i decide to leave her alone. Also came to know, she is committed to someone. I leave her alone more. Still catch her looking at me from distance so many times. Months passed by, i kept myself busy and not thinking about her or interacting. but here is the part: There is a s...

So, I’m only in 6th grade (hear me out instead of downvoting please) but I’ve been lucky enough to be dating my crush for 4 months now. Whenever I see her I just always smile, not in a fake way but in a way that feels completely real. I feel like I could just talk to her for hours on end and never get bored. I would do many things just to make her feel comfortable and happy. I could get lost in her eyes, but I don’t (because it’s kinda creepy in my opinion.) Whenever she says she loves me I just light up inside. Is this true love? This is my first time dating so I’m kind of awkwardly comfortable in my situation. Submitted April 16, 2019 at 10:24PM So, I’m only in 6th grade (hear me out instead of downvoting please) but I’ve been lucky enough to be dating my crush for 4 months now. Whenever I see her I just always smile, not in a fake way but in a way that feels completely real. I feel like I could just talk to her for hours on end and never get bored. I would do many things just...

I miss him. That's all I can stand to write without falling completely apart again. Submitted April 16, 2019 at 11:08PM I miss him. That's all I can stand to write without falling completely apart again.

im sad ur not mine im not sad your not mine i want you to be mine but dont want to see you at all bitch tf goin on in your head Submitted April 16, 2019 at 11:11PM im sad ur not mineim not sad your not minei want you to be mine but dont want to see you at allbitch tf goin on in your head

You'll still be staring at your wounds when he shows up, but unexpectedly, he'll come. Smelling of both love and sadness, intertwined in a way that defies all rules. ​ It doesn't make sense. Live a thousand years. Analyze hundreds and thousands of people, look them in the eyes, deeply into their souls, thinking you have become an expert on humankind. People are now open books to you, you invoke their emotions, suffocate them with your empathy, till you no longer have to read, you are now being read to. Eventually all humans become the same to you, narrators, telling the stories of their lives to  anyone who would listen. This human however, didn't read his story, you already knew it, word by word. ​ He was different, a black hole, an immaculate conception, an error message that crashed the server, except, that server was you. You don't know what to do with yourself anymore, you are now at his mercy, begging, pleading, for an innate feeling you've never expe...

I love when you’re kissing me how you sometimes let out a tiny giggle, and when I ask what you’re laughing at you say it’s because I’m “just so cute.” Thinking about that never fails to give me butterflies. Please don’t stop doing that. Submitted April 17, 2019 at 01:22AM I love when you’re kissing me how you sometimes let out a tiny giggle, and when I ask what you’re laughing at you say it’s because I’m “just so cute.”Thinking about that never fails to give me butterflies. Please don’t stop doing that.

So I'm looking into trying to be a more romantic and sweet person and just showing affection. In my relationship with my girlfriend of almost 3 years( I've known her for 8 years) I've been beginning on not being as romantic as I used to be. As an example I haven't really been saying romantic things and such maybe because I have been laid back and I want to stop. I also cant really think of sweet things to say. I've been trying to read about romance and I just need a little more guidance. This is my first ever relationship and I'm still learning but any tips would be helpful Submitted April 17, 2019 at 01:33AM So I'm looking into trying to be a more romantic and sweet person and just showing affection. In my relationship with my girlfriend of almost 3 years( I've known her for 8 years) I've been beginning on not being as romantic as I used to be. As an example I haven't really been saying romantic things and such maybe because I have been...

You told me you loved me on at 1:00 am. I told you I loved you too. I was so happy, but my hands were shaking and my stomach was twisting inside. I immediately regretted telling you I loved you because something wasn't right. Ignoring my gut, I went to sleep. The next day, I didn't talk to you. You texted me the next day asking if I was ok. I said I was. Then you asked me whether we were a "thing". I said no. Fast forward, I ignored you to eliminate my feelings and in the end, the one who ended up hurting was me. I confronted you and apologized and you said you could care less.No lie, but that hurt so much. I'm trying to recuperate our friendship, but I can't with these feelings in the way. I can't stop loving you and it is so wrong, because I know you don't love me and I know I'm the last problem you want. I wish I could just go back and not tell you how I was feeling about you because I destroyed a friendship and it'll never be the same. I l...

I'm in my last year of highschool right now and I've recently been thinking about how I've never been in a relationship. I'm generally a very shy person, so when I have a crush, I find that my brain shuts off completely and I'm unable to talk and be natural. On top of that, for some reason, I'm attracted to extroverted people (opposites attract?) so when I respond awkwardly or avoid conversation, I seem really unsociable and sort of stuck up. I know I'm acting strangely but I feel like I just can't help it. Its given me quite a bit of anxiety in the past, so I've avoided any romantic endeavors as of now. Any advice as how to change? Submitted April 17, 2019 at 03:10AM I'm in my last year of highschool right now and I've recently been thinking about how I've never been in a relationship. I'm generally a very shy person, so when I have a crush, I find that my brain shuts off completely and I'm unable to talk and be natural. O...

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My boyfriend and I don't live together so when we don't get to spend the night together at either of our houses we will call each other 30 min before I go to sleep and then stay on the phone till the call drops in the middle of the night while we're both out or I have to end it in the morning when I get up for work. I sometimes get anxiety around nighttime and I don't always tell him because I don't want to worry him. But hearing him on the other end of the line simply breathing or playing video games calms me down so much and makes me fall asleep with so much more ease knowing that although he's not with me, he's still here. Goofer, I know you're going to read this eventually. I love you. Submitted April 17, 2019 at 03:53AM My boyfriend and I don't live together so when we don't get to spend the night together at either of our houses we will call each other 30 min before I go to sleep and then stay on the phone till the call drops in th...

But the friendship is more important to me than creating any sort of extra tension by mentioning my romantic feelings beside my platonic love for him. at this point in my life, it’s not worth confessing. I could be dead wrong, but I truly believe he feels it. Even if the passion isn’t on the same level he is definitely aware of that lingering presence. I feel like we both know what we have is so good as is, neither of us will bring it up Submitted April 17, 2019 at 04:19AM But the friendship is more important to me than creating any sort of extra tension by mentioning my romantic feelings beside my platonic love for him. at this point in my life, it’s not worth confessing. I could be dead wrong, but I truly believe he feels it. Even if the passion isn’t on the same level he is definitely aware of that lingering presence. I feel like we both know what we have is so good as is, neither of us will bring it up

I've (F/17) been in a long distance relationship with my bf (M/18) for about 2 years now unable to visit. I just found out he's very sick so I really need to see him. I'm looking for anyone who is willing to help, if there's any favors I can do I'll be more than happy to. I'm willing to take whatever anyone is willing to give, I just want to be with him at this time Submitted April 17, 2019 at 07:03AM I've (F/17) been in a long distance relationship with my bf (M/18) for about 2 years now unable to visit. I just found out he's very sick so I really need to see him. I'm looking for anyone who is willing to help, if there's any favors I can do I'll be more than happy to. I'm willing to take whatever anyone is willing to give, I just want to be with him at this time

I know people go against it because it desensitizes you or whatever and makes it so u can’t come but wouldn’t u want this? So I can last longer wtf Submitted April 17, 2019 at 05:19AM I know people go against it because it desensitizes you or whatever and makes it so u can’t come but wouldn’t u want this? So I can last longer wtf

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So I'm a female, kinda inexperienced and never masturbated through the g spot, only from the clitoris. I was wondering how the g spot feels like compared to the cervix? Today, my boyfriend fingered me and it was pretty deep in. I felt like I had to pee but everytime I told him I need to go, the sensation stops. It also kinda hurts? Is that normal. I can't tell if he's fingering my cervix or g spot. Submitted April 17, 2019 at 05:37AM So I'm a female, kinda inexperienced and never masturbated through the g spot, only from the clitoris. I was wondering how the g spot feels like compared to the cervix? Today, my boyfriend fingered me and it was pretty deep in. I felt like I had to pee but everytime I told him I need to go, the sensation stops. It also kinda hurts? Is that normal. I can't tell if he's fingering my cervix or g spot.

Lord, I don’t even know how to start this. My husband is super into anal. We have dabbled in pegging but I am just not good at it, need to learn more about it, yadda yadda. I haven’t been able to make him cum, but I am still new to it (about a year we’ve been trying). I love doing it, I think it’s so hot and sexy, but we both agreed it might be a good idea to bring someone in the mix. He’s had encounters with other men before our marriage that he routinely masturbates to the thought of. I regularly ask him to tell me these stories over and over again because I find it so incredibly hot. Recently we brought up the idea of finding a male partner to come in and fuck him. I am so down with this idea but I’m also slightly worried. Not so much jealousy, but what do I do while I watch? How do I prepare myself? WHAT DO I DO WITH MY HANDS? :P Better yet, how do we find someone to please him without giving away his identity on a dating/hookup app? Is it better to arrange the first meeting at ...

Sorry that this is a pretty graphic subject, but I'm not sure who to ask. Anyway, had an incident earlier, she got super sad and embarrassed, I tried comforting her and letting her know that it's okay. Anyone had the same experience? Submitted April 17, 2019 at 05:46AM Sorry that this is a pretty graphic subject, but I'm not sure who to ask. Anyway, had an incident earlier, she got super sad and embarrassed, I tried comforting her and letting her know that it's okay.Anyone had the same experience?

Okay reddit I really need your help. I apologize if the formatting of this is weird, this is my first time ever posting anything like this. Giving a little background info- I am a f(21) and I am a bigger girl. I am 5’7 and 230 pounds. My boyfriend m(21) is the exact opposite being 6’4 and 160 pounds. He sits at about 5 inches for penis size. Basically the issue is we have a really hard time having sex because of our height and weight differences and I don’t know how to fix this (besides the obvious fact I need to lose weight.) Whenever we try new positions they fail so epically that it turns us both off. We even bought one of those sex wedge pillows and still, no luck. :( so far we have tried doggy style and me riding him and like I said both have failed. It feels like he can barely penetrate because I have so much cushion. I am desperate. We are both starting to get terribly bored with our vanilla missionary sex life and I’m afraid this will really hurt our relationship if somethi...

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It's hard to describe but I'll give it a go and provide any information that I think might be helpful. This is happens usually during doggy or reverse cowgirl. When I move back and thrust forward, it doesnt go in all the way to the end smoothly. The base of my penis gets squashed and kind of bendy/flacid. It only goes in and out smoothly if i thrust slowly and deliberately. And when my gf rides me reverse cowgirl, the motion doesnt feel like going in and out. More like her going up and squishing my dick when she goes down. It's not exactly painful but it doesn't look natural So basically our bodies are going through the motions but my penis isnt. My theory is that I might have deathgrip and become semi flaccid mid intercourse. Submitted April 17, 2019 at 05:49AM It's hard to describe but I'll give it a go and provide any information that I think might be helpful.This is happens usually during doggy or reverse cowgirl. When I move back and thrust forward...

How do you guys deal with confidence???? I'm having so much trouble just trying to love my body. I didnt have an issue with my breasts until I noticed that boyfriend loves big breasts, and mine arent exactly the biggest. I'm always kind of fishing for compliments when it comes to my body, especially towards my breasts and I kind of hurt my own feelings because he doesnt really say much. He loves porn and I try my best to be so confident like them, but it's so hard because I feel like I'm not meeting his expectations. He follows all these types of models and it brings me down A LOT. I've already talked to him about it and there has been changes, like more complimenting. I guess it just doesnt feel right anymore. I dont wanna leave him, but I just want to feel confident and embrace my body!! Submitted April 17, 2019 at 05:52AM How do you guys deal with confidence???? I'm having so much trouble just trying to love my body. I didnt have an issue with my breas...

I recently got involved in a “friends with benefits” situation. He’s coming over for a sleepover on the weekend. What are the general rules for this?? I’m completely new to fwb situations. Do we have dinner at my place? Get take out? Do we both have our dinner before he comes over? And then when it’s time for sleep, do we cuddle or touch? And what happens with breakfast bc I’m shitttt at making breakfast. I don’t want to come across that I want anything more than casual sex with him, but I also love cuddling. So far emotions aren’t an issue as we went on a few dates last year and our personalities didn’t click. But we were attracted to eachother, hence the new friends with benefits situation. Any advice would be very appreciated :) thanks Submitted April 17, 2019 at 05:59AM I recently got involved in a “friends with benefits” situation. He’s coming over for a sleepover on the weekend. What are the general rules for this?? I’m completely new to fwb situations. Do we have dinner a...

Hello guys and girls , long time lurker but first time poster. I hope i am posting this on the right sub. Me and my gf are together around 2 years (we both are 25 years old). We both have very high libidos and have a very healthy sex life. My girlfriend went to another country for an internship 4 months ago and i have visited her twice (in a short span) there to spend some time together. Now for the last month or so i am very obsessed and overthinking something and i would really like your advice and your opinion. We talk everyday via facetime from the 1st day she went to the other country. We talk mostly during the night and we end the call when she wants to go to sleep. After the first month there she started being more sexy(showing her boobs mostly) during the calls which i really liked and made me very horny and i ended up playing with myself during the call. Second time we did this she started playing with herself too after i told her i want to see her during the call and s...

I and my girlfriend are in a new relationship infact this is the first time I am with a girl. We have tried the same before where in she would fill alcohol in my vagina and later drink it but recently, she came up with a wired fantasy where in she wants to fill my ass with alcohol and I do not know how to react and what effect this may have on my body. Submitted April 17, 2019 at 06:13AM I and my girlfriend are in a new relationship infact this is the first time I am with a girl. We have tried the same before where in she would fill alcohol in my vagina and later drink it but recently, she came up with a wired fantasy where in she wants to fill my ass with alcohol and I do not know how to react and what effect this may have on my body.

GF and I are on a 10 day vacation, we are currently half way through our trip. We've only had sex about 2 times, in which I've initiated both times and barely even got to push through with it. Every romantic gesture I've done has gotten me no where, I'm starting to get depressed and irritated from my situation. Prior to the trip she kept holding back, saying that we're going to save up all the sex for our vacation, but she hasn't pulled through, nor initiated anything. Ps not the time of her month either. What can I do? TL:DR; on a romantic vacation with partner, currently half through our trip, only have had sex twice. Any of my romantic gestures and trying to move forward have been stopped nor recieved anything back. It's stringing to become frustrating and depressing. What can I do? Submitted April 17, 2019 at 06:22AM GF and I are on a 10 day vacation, we are currently half way through our trip. We've only had sex about 2 times, in which I...

Had a one night stand last night - pretty shit one, mind you - but the condom slipped off. We noticed fairly quickly but obviously it’s still unprotected. I’m on the pill so pregnancy isn’t an issue either way, and I will be going to get tested at a clinic as I do after any sexual partner, but what are the chances of having picked something up in such a short time frame? Submitted April 17, 2019 at 06:24AM Had a one night stand last night - pretty shit one, mind you - but the condom slipped off. We noticed fairly quickly but obviously it’s still unprotected.I’m on the pill so pregnancy isn’t an issue either way, and I will be going to get tested at a clinic as I do after any sexual partner, but what are the chances of having picked something up in such a short time frame?

I explicitly told him before we had sex that I didn't want him to do it. After he did it, I became angry and he said "it's not like I raped you". This just made me more angry, because I view what he did, not necessarily as rape, but at least sexual assault, since he did it without my consent. He said at bare minimum it was "a douchy-move, and that he wouldn't do it again". And yes, I'm dumping him, because no matter if it's sexual assault or not, I do not wish to be with someone who can't respect my boundaries and breaks my trust. However, I'm still wondering if cumming inside someone without permission is sexual assault or just "a douchy-move"? I feel like if I were in public, and was discussing it with someone, I'd hesitate to call it sexual assault (even though in my head I can't help but think it is). EDIT: If he did it accidentally and was sorry, I wouldn't see it as sexual assault. But maybe that's too c...

Was it enjoyable? Did you have an intense orgasm like everyone talks about? Submitted April 17, 2019 at 06:40AM Was it enjoyable? Did you have an intense orgasm like everyone talks about?

Hi. Ive just officially been diagnosed with HSV2 but ive had these issues for a few days now. The sores on my labia minora are so sensitive and my labia is so swollen that I cant spread my lips to pee. It feels like someone is pouring acid into a razor slit and im in tears every time i use the bathroom. I was originally using the top of a 2 litre bottle id cut making sort of a barrier between my urethra and the rest of my vagina. I am at my wits end and honest cannot take any more of this pain. Any tips on how to lessen the pain when urinating? Im desperate for anything. Submitted April 17, 2019 at 06:49AM Hi. Ive just officially been diagnosed with HSV2 but ive had these issues for a few days now. The sores on my labia minora are so sensitive and my labia is so swollen that I cant spread my lips to pee. It feels like someone is pouring acid into a razor slit and im in tears every time i use the bathroom. I was originally using the top of a 2 litre bottle id cut making sort of a...

I don't want to write too much here, and I don't know if this is the right place for it, nor do I want to turn this into a "vent" post, but I've noticed that I react extremely negatively to anything relating to sex. Past just an uncomfortable feeling, because I think that is often normal. During discussion of sex in my psych classes, I've had to leave the room because I would start sobbing and shaking, even for hours afterwards. I overheard my roommates talking about their sex lives and I felt a rush of panic and sadness. I've had very few (3-4) sexual experiences, but they have involved me feeling disconnected, as if I was in third person, and sometimes rushes of images of self harm. Afterwards I would feel massive amounts of guilt and shame. Every time, I have sworn to myself to never do that again. I had a sexual experience with a girlfriend in highschool that was a bit rushed and I was not really ready for, but it was consensual and I don't know i...

I've given plenty of blow jobs but only ever swallowed twice, and both times I've had diarrhea within an hour. It's like the semen melts my insides. Is this common? Does anyone else have issues with this? Submitted April 17, 2019 at 06:59AM I've given plenty of blow jobs but only ever swallowed twice, and both times I've had diarrhea within an hour. It's like the semen melts my insides. Is this common? Does anyone else have issues with this?

It would be one thing if she very seldom came, but by herself, she finishes very easily, both with the aid of a vibrator or with just her fingers. I’ve asked her if any prior sex partners were able to make her cum, and she’s answered yes. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. She looks to be genuinely herself when I eat her out or when I’m fingering her, but it’s yet to happen. I’ve asked her for guidance, her input, whether I’m in the right place, and it seems like I’m doing everything right but I just can’t make her finish. I know it’s not always about the orgasm, but this girl can make herself orgasm several times in a row using her fingers, and I know she enjoys orgasming. I just don’t know what I’m doing wrong, and it’s driving both of us crazy since I can tell it’s really making her guilty. I don’t think she’s not attracted to me, since she gets very wet before and during sex, and she’s a very honest person so I don’t think she’s lying to me. Has anyone else ever experienced some...

Some have due to meds changing their hormones. Other than that, I have no idea. April 17, 2019 at 07:02AM

Personally I think if nobody had said anything I probably would've lived my live like a normalish allo. Unless I'm sex repulsed then I would've found out. Being completely oblivious and thinking everybody see's the rest of the world the same as you is a blessing. April 17, 2019 at 07:00AM

Heteroromantic here. Was in a relationship for 3 years starting at age 15, and was glad to make him happy despite not getting anything out of it. It sorta felt like a game. But eventually he started to become more horny, and it started feeling weird to me. The dead-fish stare whenever something sexual was going on started to scare me. I felt disconnected. I wouldn't have been able to make him happy while not feeling miserable myself. That and the fact that we had different views of the future, him wanting to make a family and all. We ended it on good terms, thankfully, I truly loved him and wish him the best. April 17, 2019 at 07:00AM

Yeah exactly that. I was assume OP just didn't want it, which as you say is perfectly fine and again, never get pressured into it if you don't want it. It's your body, only you can make the decision. Ha this reminds me of a video out year 10 teacher showed us ofter sex education its beautiful as hell - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQbei5JGiT8 April 17, 2019 at 06:57AM

Hey! I’m ace but not trans, so disclaimer. What you described certainly sounds like gender dysphoria to me, but it might be helpful for you to crosspost this into a trans subreddit to get people who might have experienced what you are. Not at all to say that you are definitely trans and not ace, (you could be both! Or only ace!) but I think they may be better equipped to help, esp with cheap solutions to help with dysphoria/socially transition if persons there can confirm that’s what you are experiencing :) good luck on your journey, friend! April 17, 2019 at 06:52AM

One is not born with a sexuality, but he evolves it through the experiences that he has. So yes is possible. April 17, 2019 at 06:50AM

I enjoy Denna as a character but the love story between her and Kvothe is kind of lackluster, I agree. April 17, 2019 at 06:39AM

Duosexual April 17, 2019 at 06:20AM

I think if porn is what stimulates you & youre not attracted to the actors then you’d be asexual. If your concept of sex appeals to you but you can’t think of someone who you’d want to fulfill that fantasy with then... probably asexual. April 17, 2019 at 06:19AM

What about silver with purple “freckles”? Like on the neck, shoulders, and thighs where you’ve drawn individual scales. The middle layer of feathers could be purple too, with grayscale feathers on either side. April 17, 2019 at 06:18AM

I feel others have answered your questions directly, but I'll add to that a more general principle that perhaps you'll find enlightening. (Naturally I can only speak to my own experience though.) For me, sex is a little bit like knitting. I know knitting exists, and some facts about it. When people bring it up I can talk a little about it. Sometimes, it even comes to mind on its own: perhaps I see some yarn or something. However, imagine if other people saw knitting in a really different way. They see a celebrity on TV, and because of that celebrity's body and gender, they fantasise about knitting with them. It's not so much that I can't imagine knitting, or that it's impossible to fantasise about knitting, it's more like 'why?'. When you think of someone, why would your mind ever go to knitting, of all places? Honestly, the easiest explanation for something like that is that it's just one of those jokes you don't find very funny. Discove...

Have you looked in aegosexuality? April 17, 2019 at 06:03AM

Hey listen! I feel for you & im mostly in the same boat. However i have kissed before and even enjoy it. I just hate when it tries to escalate further. However when i think about the reasons I’m still holding into my virginity at age 21 i sometimes wonder if the combo of low self esteem and not having met anyone to date is really the issue. I was losing weight but have had to stop bc of an eating disorder. I’m not happy with my body and therefore don’t know if I could put myself into a vulnerable position but i shitty self esteem aside... i still haven’t felt legitimate sexual attraction ever even with a guy i liked and came close to having sex with. I stopped things from escalating in the moment bc it felt forced and unnatural. Listen to yourself and i believe you’ll come up with a decent decision. However if you happy to find a definitive answer definitely let me know 😂 good luck! April 17, 2019 at 05:48AM

I have those same sheets April 17, 2019 at 05:32AM

I can't organically fantasize about someone- I can try really hard to imagine myself and someone else in a sexual situation, but after a couple of moments the details fade away and the mental image becomes closer to watching a blurry sex scene on small scene, I can see the basic positions and motions but the details are gone, its not me anymore, its a stranger. The movements are pulled from things I've seen in movies or in real life. And it's awkward, I don't do that for fun in my free time. I can see in my mind's eye memories of having done sexual activities from when I wasn't sure of my sexuality and experimenting, but it's not at all sexy, its a memory, like remembering a normal conversation. I wouldn't just imagine a sexual fantasy without some kind of prompting, my mind doesn't drift in that direction naturally. I'm much more likely to imagine cuddling with someone I'm romantically interested in, maybe kissing or other intimate but no...

I think it'd look good silver, but with purple accents on the horns, wings, and maybe the belly. April 17, 2019 at 05:18AM

My vote is on silver but definitely put more purple in places like the horns. April 17, 2019 at 05:12AM

This is the biggest ace mood of them all April 17, 2019 at 05:07AM

I think that this test, while it’s probably pretty accurate for straight, gay, and bi people, doesn’t contain enough nuance to properly identify ace-spectrum identities. You could be in the gray area, like me, and still be in the ace community, or you could be asexual and heteroromantic, which, if you interpret the questions in a certain way, still places you in the heterosexual quadrant. So don’t base your identity off of weird quizzes on the internet. Most of them are flawed, especially when it comes to asexual/aromantic identities. April 17, 2019 at 04:50AM

I will check it out. ThNks April 17, 2019 at 04:21AM

When I was in love (unrequited) for the first (and only) time I actually tried to force myself to imagine that with her and literally couldn't. No mental images. It was weird. After the feelings broke I could force it in my mind but got nothing from it. April 17, 2019 at 04:20AM

There's a link to a discord server in the side bar under related communities, I enjoy talking to people on there! April 17, 2019 at 04:00AM

TIL! I think that may describe me too. For me it's if I have an emotional connection, and I have a (usually false) perception that they might like me, then I'm attracted. Alternatively, if they explicitly hit on me, then I'm repulsed. It's sure nice to be able to compress all of that into one word April 17, 2019 at 03:59AM

I'm not asexual and I've still never skipped school for sex... Some people are just weird >.< April 17, 2019 at 03:54AM

Your sexual orientation is 57.1% heterosexual, 0% homosexual, which places you in the heterosexual quadrant. ​ This is pat of the reason I'm not sure I am ace.. April 17, 2019 at 03:50AM

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