I've made it clear that continuing this way isn't sustainable, and he agrees. Neither of us are ready to call it quits, but I'm also really fucking tired of sitting by myself. I also had (minor, planned, outpatient) surgery last week, so I'm grumpy and sore and home all the time, and the kids are up my ass, and the fall weather is hitting, and I'm just in a pissy mood. He really is a good guy, but if this is our future were going to have to find another route. October 29, 2020 at 11:48PM