I feel like if that were really the case, you would feel the same way. I agree with everyone else, run. December 18, 2022 at 01:32AM

My ex and I talked about getting back together but suddenly on the phone he mentioned that I am very "vulnerable". I did not have the time to ask him what exactly he means but he kept talking about other stuff I am doing, for example he said when he asked to sext with me via whatsapp when we were not together anymore he told me that I reacted in a very "aggressive" way , like telling him to f*ck off etc. and then he said that sexting is fun etc. I told him ok, I could have probably told him in a different way that I am not ok with it but I was just sad that he only saw me as a sexting buddy and I did not literally told him to get lost but just told him that I really dont want it since we are not in a relationship anymore. A bit later he added that a woman is supposed to build up a man and that I should start thinking more "rationally". I am not sure what he means with me being vulnerable, any idea? Submitted December 18, 2022 at 01:13AM My ex and I

i went to a pub alone the other day and there was an attractive girl who works there who picks the songs, she introduced herself to me and started talking about different kinds of things with me, only (there were more guys who went alone there) note that its the first time i went there, anyways i was kind of startled because I'm not really good with social interactions especially with people I find attractive but i kept it going..i felt a lot of chemistry, anyways we already had eachother on social media but we never really talked, so I decided to message her when i went home and she was pretty dry via texts. Do you think she lost interest because I didn't try hard enough or was she just friendly because I went there for the first time? I wish i showed more interest in the bar or even ask her out but I'm a shy person and I regret it now. Submitted December 18, 2022 at 01:17AM i went to a pub alone the other day and there was an attractive girl who works there who pic

Both of us are in our early 30s and we have been talking everyday. He’s emotionally mature and like no other guy that I’ve spoken to so far. We’ve connected very well so far but haven’t met yet. A couple things - we both stated we want to take things slow (we also stated we want to take the sexual stuff slow when we do meet in person) so that was a plus for me. He messages me every morning and sends subtle flirtatious messages to make me aware that he’s thinking of me. Thing is, he’s a busy guy. Like full on busy work schedule. And when he responds it may take a while. And I’ve noticed he doesn’t really ask me questions unless it’s how I’m feeling and how’s my day going. I’m waiting for him to take the initiative to ask me on a date. I’ve already given him clear indication that I want to meet him in person and I’m very much interested in him. But I’m getting nervous and afraid that I’m building too much hope for someone. Has anyone talked to someone similar in this manner? Submi

I think she's just nuts .... as with all these things, as long as she doesn't ask for money, you're probably okay. December 17, 2022 at 11:29PM