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/u/kaya_angler on How did you react when you discovered you was ace?

^ yep this right there. That’s what it was January 19, 2023 at 01:41AM

Any advice on a relationship that stemmed from long term friendship?

Looking for relationship advice, however most of what I can find is for people who: Are married Are not currently dating Are dating someone that they did not know well before dating. I’m currently dating my best friend of four years, so I don’t think our relationship follows traditional “milestones” or anything like that, but i’m still not sure what to do and in search of general advice Submitted January 19, 2023 at 02:10AM Looking for relationship advice, however most of what I can find is for people who:Are marriedAre not currently datingAre dating someone that they did not know well before dating.I’m currently dating my best friend of four years, so I don’t think our relationship follows traditional “milestones” or anything like that, but i’m still not sure what to do and in search of general advice

Sleeping around before possibly dating someone?

I’m bisexual and haven’t had sex with a woman yet, and I’d like to explore more. I happened to match with I guy I click with on tinder, had no intention for a relationship or meeting someone like this, but I do like him romantically and not just to sleep with. Fwb and guy I’ve been talking to live in another city, and I was already planning a visit back there to have 3somes with my fwb and other parties (Making sure to keep safe from stds and getting regularly checked). Before I meet this guy in person would it be wrong to still go through with the plans? I vaguely talked with the guy about me planning 3somes with a friend, and wanting to check out sex clubs, but didn’t specify it would be on my next trip. Should I tell the guy, not tell him because we haven’t met in person yet/aren’t dating so it doesn’t matter, or cancel them entirely? Submitted January 19, 2023 at 01:15AM I’m bisexual and haven’t had sex with a woman yet, and I’d like to explore more.I happened to match w...

/u/KMFCM on What are some stereotypes about ace/aro people?

That we're prudes. January 19, 2023 at 12:30AM

I’m the kind of guy that never seems to attract the women I want or like, but attracts women I don’t want or like. Anyone else seem to have this issue?

So I’m a single guy and have an ok dating life. One thing I’ve noticed is that if I’m really into a women I just lose all sense of composure and don’t know how to act. I second guess myself, read too much into things and generally have zero chill. However when I have little to no interest they are more attracted to me than I am to them. I know on some level it’s because I’m probably being more myself with the latter but I wish I could convert this mode of behaving when I’m actually attracted to someone. Anyone else experience this? There’s someone I’ve met whom I’m sensing a connection with and I’m quite feeling. But I dare not engage for fear of letting it slip like I’ve done countless times before lol. It’s like I need hypnosis to convince me I’m not attracted to her or some shit. I know internally I’m assembling the pedestal in which she will be placed as we speak lol Submitted January 19, 2023 at 12:14AM So I’m a single guy and have an ok dating life. One thing I’ve notic...