We can smack people in the face with a mace! June 12, 2021 at 11:58PM

I can‘t really give a clear answer as to how I realised it. It was a progress from learning asexuality exists and learning what it is, thinking about how the label might fit me and eventually accepting my asexuality. The whole progress took over half a year. Now I‘m comfortable woth the label and my asexuality. As to how I feel about it, I honestly dont habe any strong feelings about it. Its just the way I am. The fact that I know habe a name for it doesnt really change who I am as a person. I would have been ace even if I never found out about it. It‘s also (probably) not gonna change. All I can do is live my life as best as I can, same as with anything else. Neither being happy (or „proud“) nor being angry and denying it is gonna change anything about it June 12, 2021 at 11:57PM

Oh right, of course! This is correct XD Though I doubt I personally could wield one, I'm much too small! June 12, 2021 at 11:57PM

Maces for the aces! June 12, 2021 at 11:56PM

Huh, interesting. I'm not sure if bows& arrows are an ace thing at all, or more of an aro thing? I'd like some knives/daggers though too, is that taken yet? June 12, 2021 at 11:56PM

Haha yeah it's a "blink and miss it" scene, and it's never mentioned again. It's like the second or third scene of the first episode. Jimmy has a case where he's defending like a group of young guys in a court room who cut off the head of a dead person and have sex with it. It's more played off as very dark comedy , or at least dramatic irony as Jimmy gives a good opening statement. I only remember it cause I just started rewatching the show in the last couple of weeks haha. June 12, 2021 at 11:54PM

💜💜💜🥺 June 12, 2021 at 11:49PM

Oh, if you liked TOS you’ll like Deep Space Nine. The Next Generation takes a very different approach than TOS but still has the elements and I really like Picard compared to Kirk. Voyager continues from Deep Space Nine but can easily be watched as a stand-alone and Capt. Janeway is a joy. I like Enterprise but feel it suffers from too much titillation during certain, very overt, scenes with cast members that I feel we’re only out in to keep the male audience hooked. Although there is equal representation of some partially derobed well sculpted men too. June 12, 2021 at 11:46PM

Anyone have the sauce? I love Earl grey, I legit need this. June 12, 2021 at 11:40PM

Ahhh thank you, I so appreciate you sharing your experience and your words of wisdom!! June 12, 2021 at 11:40PM

Thanks for your suggestions! Watched both Breaking Bad and Better Call Saul. Loved it! However, I can't remember mentioning of necrophilia, so I'm really confused right now... Can you please remind me what was it about? June 12, 2021 at 11:37PM

He's not sorry because he keeps drinking. He knows he makes you uncomfortable and sexually harasses you and sexually coerces/rapes you and yet, while sober, makes the deliberate and conscious decision to keep drinking and keep hurting you. I'm sorry, but dump him. He's not really a good guy, and you deserve better. June 12, 2021 at 11:35PM

Congrats!!!! June 12, 2021 at 11:33PM

Hey thanks man, glad to know im not the only one thinking this 💜 June 12, 2021 at 11:33PM

Any titles in particular? June 12, 2021 at 11:33PM

Thanks for advice! I absolutely adore The Original Star Trek! I even have a tattoo on vulcanian. Kinda hesitated to watch the later versions though, but gonna try June 12, 2021 at 11:32PM

If you like anime, Bloom Into You (Yagate Kimi ni naru). June 12, 2021 at 11:30PM

same for me with the fact i'm not a virgin. at first, i just thought i was lying to myself and that i wasn't ace at all cause, how could it be? but then i said "SCREW THAT!" and accepted myself! took me 6 years lol enjoying sex is completely fine. your greysexualityness is safe, i won't let your brain say otherwise. neurodivergent kids (and adults, in our case) stick together! June 12, 2021 at 11:28PM

Adventure time took me a few tries, regular show I was instantly hooked June 12, 2021 at 11:25PM

Thanks fellow stoner! I tried to watch Adventure time once (while stoned) but kinda didn't dig it. Maybe I'll try again June 12, 2021 at 11:24PM

I read where people on average think about sex at least a dozen times a day, I found that hard to believe because the only time I ever thought about sex at all was when I was wondering if I fake my death if my husband will just go away. He finally did. He had a side chick the whole 15 years we were married, and I was fine with that. He left and moved in with her, and we're divorced now. He remarried, but not to the patient girlfriend! He married his FIFTH wife, but I bet she doesn't know that she's #5. Dude's been married so many times he's got rice scars on his face! NEVER again for me. I've spent far more time single, and I like it except for the poverty. June 12, 2021 at 11:24PM

Yes! It is so validating to hear other people's brains get stuck on an idea like that too!! I definitely enjoy sex occasionally, I just never (or VERY rarely) experience sexual attraction - so I usually call myself greysexual. Getting mentally stuck on sex though still feels invalidating because wanting to talk about it feels... Similar to sexual attraction? It probably isn't, but it still makes me insecure in my greysexuality nonetheless! June 12, 2021 at 11:22PM

Lady's Guide to Petticoats and Piracy had an implied ace character if I'm remembering correctly. Great book too! June 12, 2021 at 11:19PM