Okay, we've talked Turns out she is fraysexual. She thinks it fits how she feels & how she actually is very well & explains her past relationships perfectly Imagine that, mid-40s and married for best part of 20yrs before you discover your sexual orientation She tells me she is sexually attracted to others & had just told me she wasn't because of worry for my feelings She's had a lot of partners & hookups, loved the thrill of it all, the chase, the new person novelty sex, but then after a doing the deed or after a few weeks at most felt nothing & killed the relationship She said I was the first person that she didn't have sex with until after a few months of being together & by the time we attempted it she said it felt wrong & she was repulsed by it I was a virgin, & very intimidated so I messed it up too, it could barely count as sex and I blamed myself Each time we tried, her repulsion seemed worse until we just cuddled instead a...

Physical attractiveness. Especially for guys. I feel a lot of men including myself would not want to date a mediocre looking girl (as good as her personality is) for many reasons (we think we can do better, we are afraid of friends, family saying "he settled for someone who isn't that good looking") As dumb as it sounds. So it ends being a "good for sex and fun, but I wouldn't commit to you" type of situation, which is quite awful honestly. Submitted January 21, 2022 at 12:02AM Physical attractiveness. Especially for guys. I feel a lot of men including myself would not want to date a mediocre looking girl (as good as her personality is) for many reasons (we think we can do better, we are afraid of friends, family saying "he settled for someone who isn't that good looking") As dumb as it sounds. So it ends being a "good for sex and fun, but I wouldn't commit to you" type of situation, which is quite awful honestly.

Hi! I (F18) was just in a situation-ship with a guy (M19) and I’m kinda confused how things ended and why they did. I met this guy on a dating app and we immediately hit it off. We had many similarities with minor differences which seemed like a perfect balanced. He made it very clear he was looking for something serious which I was ok with. We made plans to see each other in a couple days from the , but once we found out that we love the same tv show he asked if I wanted to come over the next night and watch it with his roommates and him. I said yes and everything went wonderfully, we had a great time and I overheard his roommates talking about how they liked me. When I got home that night we kept texting and texting. This continued for the next couple of days, seeing each other everyday. He asked for my snap and I gave it to him. He’d send me random pictures throughout the day telling me how cute he thinks I am and how he hopes I have a good day. He always checked in on my and kept...

I (M21) recently just transferred from a community college to a university in the same State, and I met this girl in one of my classes. She sat next to me and I started talking to her about the class size because I never experienced it before. She mentioned that she also transferred from out of state. After talking to her for a bit, I got her name and then phone number. She then texted me later on that day asking how my classes went. We continued texting since then and even met up to do home work but we just talked instead. We also have plans to go to a college basketball game too. I really like talking to her and she's very pretty. I could see us maybe being together, but I'm sure that she doesn't want to rush into anything, and I kind of don't really want to rush into anything either. My worry is that if we do end up getting into a relationship, she may realize later on that she might of been just dating me because I was the first person to talk to her here. Am I may...

Lately I’ve been on a first date or have been talking to men in super technical fields- software engineer, physics post doc, mechanical engineer. And I studied Business Information Sciences and work as a business analyst. I make a good salary for a woman my age and am fairly driven but my job is not nearly as technical as the jobs these men have. I have interests outside of work like reading and ceramics. I’m wondering if really smart guys that work in super technical positions look down on a girl that works in a sort of technical field that’s probably easy to them? Submitted January 21, 2022 at 12:05AM Lately I’ve been on a first date or have been talking to men in super technical fields- software engineer, physics post doc, mechanical engineer. And I studied Business Information Sciences and work as a business analyst. I make a good salary for a woman my age and am fairly driven but my job is not nearly as technical as the jobs these men have. I have interests outside of work ...

So I’ve been seeing this guy since beginning of December. I like him a lot, we’ve got lots of common interests, he’s very attentive and respectful and I could imagine a future with him. So far we’ve seen each other about 8 times. We kissed on the first date, had sex on the third (it was amazing) and I’ve met his friends. Over Christmas he visited his home country for three weeks. He said I am open to meet other men but implied that he would not be happy about it. I didn’t because I like him. This Monday when he came back he asked if I went on dates I said I didn’t. He seemed pleased with that. So today he said he had a white wine night with a friend at his friends house (a guy). I jokingly said that I only know girls to have white wine nights. He didn’t reply to that at all and I thought that maybe it was indeed a girl he was seeing. My gut feeling says I’m right but I also don’t know if I’m completely overreacting and reading too much into this. We didn’t say specifically that we’r...

I am single because I am asexual. Am i impotent? No. Do I like the idea of having sex? Yes but I don't feel like doing it. Do I want to get married? Idk. Some of the most intelligent people who have ever lived were Asexuals for example, Nikola Tesla. January 20, 2022 at 11:22PM